I'm bi (75/25 hetero) and saw an ad on a dating site of a woman looking for a guy to do an MMF with her and her boyfriend. That's on my to do list so I respond. We go back and forth a bit and hit it off. Appearance wise, I'm into both of them.

She wants to meet with me by herself beforehand to make sure. Now usually on a first date with a girl, I escalate hard and kiss her within the first 20 minutes. I've had great luck with doing that, but the dynamics may be very different here.

I will still be funny and cocky when we meet, but would escalating physically to a kiss be too forward or inappropriate in this situation? It'd be great to get advice from someone who's done this kind of thing before.