I have a severe victim complex

jtzabor · 2017-04-11T14:37:59+00:00

You seem to already know what the problem is, So what the fuck do you want? You want someone here to tell you what to do? You already know what they will tell you. Lift and sidebar. Your only going to fix your problems if you actually want to put the effort in.

vandaalen · 2017-04-11T14:11:11+00:00

Reas "No more Mr Nice Guy"

Tiway22 · 2017-04-11T18:33:46+00:00

Pick one thing to improve. Work on that for 30 days. Repeat with a new thing every month.

Change takes time.

Write these goals down too. Visually seeing and writing them helps more than you can imagine.

JonMan219 · 2017-04-11T15:01:32+00:00

Useless men will always be hated.

The solution? Be not useless. Develop competency. Be good at shit. Shit that isn't useless, preferably your job or something that you can monetize.

jeezydasnowman · 2017-04-11T16:33:21+00:00

Read the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.

redpill-account · 2017-04-11T16:49:02+00:00

Try improving one thing st a time and take a systematic approach to healthier habits and thinking patterns

awkwardtouching · 2017-04-11T17:11:23+00:00

What is your actual question?

MrTyler_Durden · 2017-04-11T21:30:55+00:00

Irking out fixes everything. And I don't mean show up to the gym and casually lift for 30 minutes. I mean, actually tear your muscles up, get a pump and get your body shredded. Having a nice body puts you wayyyy above other men and it's an ego boost to see women lose heir shit when you take your shirt off. It's also nature anti depressant. Go workout dude.

As for all the victim mentalities, that just takes practice to change. You know the behaviors you need to fix. (Most people aren't ever able to recognize their own problems, so good on you for recognizing yours) the way to fix these problems is ny training your mind over a time. A longgggg time. It takes practice. Everytime you feel victimized, close your eyes and tell yourself you aren't a victim. Learn from the experience so you'll know what to change for next time. Its like braking a habit. It just takes time.

I know it sounds cliche to say, but fake it till you make it. Think of chad and be him, act like him and eventually, you'll become him. Chad doesn't worry about all those things you posted, because chad knows he's dope wherever he goes.

Title	I have a severe victim complex
Author	JonMan219
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	April 11, 2017 2:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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