Hey boys, so I'm working on asking girls out/ going on a date with them at the moment.

It was my first date in a very long time, so at the beginning I was a little nervous. It wasn't that bad though. The girl and I had a good time, but I barely did anything. I didn't try to hold her hand , I didn't try to hold her...basically didn't try to escalate in the 4 hours she stuck around before saying she had to leave.

Now, I did decide to go for the kiss at the last moment, but I knew she would turn and give me the cheek, which she did.

I'm not sure what my question might be. I think I might either be thinking too much or suffering from self-doubt. I say this, because the date felt a lot like my BJJ comp a couple months ago. I felt rather physically inactive.

I wish I could articulate this better. Any thoughts? advice?