Amused Mastery vs Condescending

Psychocist · 2017-08-09T21:30:23+00:00

Doesn't sound like amused mastery.

Amused mastery is the attitude of having seen it all and you just find it all amusing. If you were there, you wouldn't be talking down to someone, they wouldn't even stir you. You'd laugh shit off, grin, and move on.

Are you explaining things to her? Women don't communicate in facts, they communicate covertly. Read The Rational Male if you haven't (or again if you have).

What are you arguing about? And what, specifically have you said that she might find condescending? Most arguments should be able to be shut down pretty quickly.

TRPVent · 2017-08-10T01:06:53+00:00

/u/Psychocist is 100% right, your overvaluing a relationship which has already run its course and had its good years.

Nobody expects you to be perfect, and your little slip up that you had for 2 weeks happened. And it sucks to hear this, but you basically broke her trust in a big way as a result of breaking frame.

After you break someones trust, its hard to build it back. So you can do one of two things -- 1. apologize to her for breaking her trust in you and tell her it's over, learn from your mistakes, and make sure you never make the same mistake again by fully experiencing and living with the emotional torment of breaking up with a girl you love, thereby ensuring that the next girl you have will never be dissappointed again. 2. try and fix things with your LTR who will NEVER trust you or look at you the same EVER again, essentially leaving a permanent emotional wound on both you and her, thereby never properly learning your lesson and not opening yourself up to new amazing opportunities that you could of had if you had just taken the leap of faith, and allowed yourself to grow even more, and become closer to fulfilling your highest potential. But atleast your still with the same girl, right?

Objectively speaking, the choice is obvious. Of course though, humans are emotional creatures which is why from your perspective its very hard to judge what is the objective truth is. I recommend you fully mull over this advice for atleast a couple of days, re-read some TRP content, and you'll really see how obvious the decision is once you wrap your head around the logistics of your position.

Take care my friend.

Title	Amused Mastery vs Condescending
Author	IronFoz
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	August 9, 2017 9:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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