Hey there askTRP,

I ask this to find out if others have this same issue as I've begun to encounter. Over the time I've been lifting, grooming, and generally just improving every area of my life, I have noticed many more IOIs everywhere I go. This has become a major problem that I've been struggling to overcome and it's the fact I'm using these IOIs as external validation. I constantly check to see if women are giving me IOIs and it is a daily thing and becoming a major part of my thinking patterns when in public. I ask this to see if anyone else has run into this since taking the red pill and am looking for advice on how to potentially overcome this drive for external validation.

Thanks in advance