Why do I keep getting LMR?

Ricklogical · 2018-02-28T21:19:05+00:00

I think LMR has a ton to do with all the work you have put in beforehand.

You may be rushing things near the end in your excitement. You may not have had them wet and excited even before you touched them.

It is best to have a ton of foreplay before sex, and honestly if they don't go all the way the first time that's not such a bad thing, as long as they are interested in doing it soon.

Most women I meet get down on the first date, but I tend to be very sensual and touchy on the date. I tend to massage for a moment then pull away.

I tend to give the impression that I don't mind if I go home alone or not. I just keep it very relaxed but at the same time have moments of passionate release with them as best I can. Say we go to the movies and I put my hand to hold her hand.

I will break hand contact and go for her leg, but not slide it down her leg for any 'action' at all. I will swirl my finger on her leg near the knee.

Same with any chance to touch her hair, or her neck or shoulders. I tend to linger on parts of her body that are near sexual parts but make no move towards those sexual parts.

This builds a ton of sexual tension. In all reality I am not as interested in touching those sexual parts as I am in heating the woman up and seeing her reaction.

I love to do these things in public because it gets them thinking of things they can't do that they would like to do alone, but she can't because it's hours before we will be alone again and I am in no hurry.

I suggest you be in less of a hurry, but I wasn't there and this is all I can assume.

Good luck. Have fun with it and don't take it too serious.

Even enjoy the interactions you have gotten and don't worry, you will get it soon enough!

terkking · 2018-02-28T23:57:05+00:00

I'm still in the boat of looks is everything. But in this case, you need be physical as hell up to the point that you guys start making out at your/her place. If you can, its better to bring her back to her place than to go to hers despite the comfort factor at her place. It gives you more power and you know the 'lay of the land' so to speak. No nosy roommates and other shit like that.

Anyways on to getting touchy/kino: Touch the small of her back, play with her hand, touch her thigh, hold her hand, spin her around, eye contact. Talk a bit sexual if you're up for it. All that stuff but you do not need to do it all at once. Use one or two of those if you want or all of it. Whatever you feel comfortable. Also VIBE. Keep the VIBE playful.

I usually get away with minimal touching just because of the vibe of the date but if she gives me a weird or unsure vibe. I'll up touch her up a bit to screen whether she is up to fuck me. Calibrate as you go tho.

Even with all of that and she gives you lmr and she stops you. Just say 'okay' while keeping the vibe cool and relaxed. give a 1-2 min break and keep going. If she ain't into kissing, try her ass and other shit, mix it up a bit. If she is into you, she will almost always give it up. The longest LMR I dealt with was about 2 hours. Using my method, I almost always never get lmr. If I do, there is only 3 reasons. She really doesn't do it on the first date (for you), not enough comfort and touchyness on the date, or she is a legit prude. Have fun breaking the lmr wall.

oldredder · 2018-03-01T09:43:15+00:00

most of the time I see this either the girl is cheating and feels guilty or she wants to be drunk to fuck and is too sober. Most of the articles deal with other situations like if you are too aggressive for her, or generally she gets not enough comfort despite having some sexual attraction, or it could also be borderline she is just barely attracted and in the last minute she just can't get wet enough, attracted enough, to make it worth her while then that's it - game over

curtainrodman · 2018-02-28T23:49:35+00:00

What’s LMR

Title	Why do I keep getting LMR?
Author	redpill6991
Upvotes	8
Comments	7
Date	February 28, 2018 9:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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