I had a recent post about dropping some shit off that my ex asked for. Told her I would in a week the following day.
She followed this up by asking if it was okay to swing by my work with friends for drinks. There are two locations and one of the girls she wasn't even friends with.
She came in and gave me a hug, changed her look entirely to how I told her I like it months ago. Told me she wasn't sure if I would mind her coming. She said a few friends invited her so she thought, "Why not?". I had told her she was free to do whatever and to have a good night and she wished the same. My hostess was talking to me all night and we were having a good laugh and I could see her friends staring at us and talking shit about this girl. This chick dumped me and I didn't chase. I don't do that shit. She was scanning the room for me when I would leave and when she left, her friends and herself made a point to say goodbye to everyone but myself.
I thought this was hella petty. She was fuming with jealousy for no reason. Fast forward a day or so to her posting a bunch of pics on IG with guys and girls. I think I broke this chick by not chasing her. She's really hot but something tells me that I got the better of her by deleting her off everything and focusing on my own shit. I only know about these posts of hers cause of mutual friends mentioning it.
My question - Why would she show up to my work like that? Is she playing games? She was so cool when we dated until my mental health issues really knocked me off my path. I went beta from there. I can't pretend I haven't noticed this weird behaviour from her. Constantly checking my IG and then sporadically stopping, to only start up again. In a way, I'm not sure the person I dated even exists anymore. I gotta see her shortly anyway to drop off the stuff. This has been on my mind quite a bit though.
Side Note - Fucking crushing life since the break up. Gym game on point, mental health taken care of, meeting tons of people and building my social circle as well as social media (business requires this), finances are becoming more in order. I have 0 complaints in that sense. I will admit it's weird I don't really feel like having a ton of sex though, more so just want to be social. Is that strange?
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