Does this happen to you?

mynekmybakmykittykat · 2018-06-16T12:15:16+00:00

If it's a girl I don't feel close to, then yeah. As gay as it sounds, I like to get to know a chick decently enough and feel some type of connection with her, it helps me filter out whether or not a chick is worth plating. But here's the important question, why does it matter if it happens to any of us? Are you WANTING to feel like you want to cuddle and dumb shit with her? Or are you perfectly content with how these hookups feel?

EducationalDentist · 2018-06-17T04:23:15+00:00

That mood change is totally normal. Guys can fuck, cum, then just go on with their day. It's an evolutionary advantage. Think about it. Why keep having the same sexual feelings for a female when you've already passed on your load of genes?

What it sounds like you need to do is learn to appreciate the naked female form in front of you. Post-orgasm actions say a lot about a person. Decide how you want to be perceived and act accordingly.

Assuming you're bedding someone you like and not just a sex worker, change your mindset to that of having just finished a great meal at a fine restaurant. Enjoy. Relish. Savor the experience. Would you push your plate away in disgust when you finish a meal and get up and leave? No, you'd reflect on how good the meal was, reliving certain dishes.

Last but def not least, make sure she is taken care of. Just focusing on getting yourself off is the shortest of short-term strategies. Give to receive.

[deleted] · 2018-06-16T14:29:36+00:00

ONS with women I just met? Yeah. With my plates? No I like cuddling with them when they have been good

The__Tren__Train · 2018-06-16T15:59:56+00:00

yep. blowing ur load causes a cascade of hormones - including an increase in prolactin.

it's normal

bannedfromWTFmod · 2018-06-16T14:10:17+00:00

That happens to me but with girls I dont care about whatsoever.

If I'm really into a girl I'm recharged and ready to go again in a min or two usually.

deville05 · 2018-06-16T17:54:54+00:00

There.is a word for this in Japanese. Look it up. It's normal for meen

ronalddrump69 · 2018-06-16T21:34:18+00:00

Same lol

DadOnDabs · 2018-06-16T22:55:57+00:00

Yep, that's the difference between a fuck buddy and a fwb.

I enjoy having a fwb around after throwing a load down her throat but the fuck buddy sucks to have around. It's cause you usually have some feeling for an fwb (whether you realize it or not) and the fuck buddy is basically your cum dumpster.

Title	Does this happen to you?
Author	Donman876
Upvotes	16
Comments	12
Date	June 16, 2018 12:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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