Ever since i started reading TRP I've had some issues with the chasing aspect of it. How much should you really chase?

The girls I've been seing the past 2 years have been within a certain spectrum. Initial contact goes fine and setting dates, but the gap between contact seems to bother them alot, to the point where no girl wants to see me anymore. I always get the comments; "You are slow at responding", "you should write more" and "how come you text/message so little?".

I'm usually not that phased about these comment if I already have a date setup (which is why i text, to setup dates), but recently I have been getting the cold shoulder from girls alot (I dislike texting/messaging, I believe the more you text the more room for missunderstandings and misstakes).

I know that texting alot and often leads to boredom because of needy behaviour, but what do you do when you chase too little, to the point where girls are no longer interested?