Some background information. 6.1", 190lbs, body fat around 15%, well above average face and I dress well. Not a social retard so I know my way with people, but I'm an introvert and prefer to keep it to myself and don't usually bother talking to new people after the initial introduction. As most people don't really give me a good enough reason to get to know them better or keep talking to them (most people, especially hot women, can be boring as fuck). So went to a party last night with some friends (both male and female). At one point I was sitting down with a female friend whom I've known for about a year. She's a solid 8, she was a bit drunk and confessed that for the longest time she has been wanting to ask me out but apparently I'm very intimidating. I teased her about it a little bit and at the end of the night (when she was even more drunk) she threw a tantrum how I'm an asshole and how she just can't read me. Normally I wouldn't really give a fuck about stuff like this but this isn't the first time I've heard things like this from other people about me, so it got me thinking...

Is this just them hamstering? I'm assuming this means I'm high SMV, but should I work on being more likeable or approachable?