I've recently re-established contact with a girl last month. We orginally met about 5 years before she went off to school in another state. I feel like this girl is making excuses for not kissing me. Our first date we went on, she was flirty and very touchy but whenver I went for the kiss, she would reject me saying that she was "recovering from a cold." I end up walking her back to her place and we begin watching netflix while she's laying up against me. Again, I go for the kiss but was denied again.

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Second date, she did the same thing and blamed it on her recovering from a "cold sore" At this time I'm thinking she's not as interested in me as I thought she was. She was being very flirty and touching me but she would not kiss me.

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Another important fact to bring in this is that she is also dating another man, who has a girlfriend. She's perfectly ok with the open relationship because she's dating other people too but I kinda feel like shes more invested in him than he is in her so that's why she's not really kissing me. Am I overreacting?