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How far ahead should I schedule dates.

icecruzader · 2018-11-14T01:57:42+00:00

TLDR: Is it better to go for sponteniety or for man with a plan in general? I am going to text this girl to come over to my place, I didn't close her...

icecruzader

November 14, 2018

2 upvotes

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Title	How far ahead should I schedule dates.
Author	icecruzader
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	November 14, 2018 1:57 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9wvled/how_far_ahead_should_i_schedule_dates/
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]icecruzader[S] -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]jklifexxx0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You just answered your question yourself. You’re too invested who tf cares how hot she is you need to have that abundance mentality. Go out and talk to other hotter women then her so you’ll have multiple women you can have come over.

She bailed on you once showing that spending time with you wasn’t as important to her as it was for you. If you ask again you will be chasing her at that point, remember that the person who cares less has more power in the situation. Don’t give her that power.

I honestly would soft next and wouldn’t contact unless she comes to you and offers something herself but if she doesn’t who the hell cares? You have tons of other plates you’ve been spinning so it’s no big deal right?

I would recommend going out and getting into the habit of hanging around/gaming attractive women all the time so looks won’t phase you & you won’t get into that “She’s super hot I may not get the chance for another hb9 anytime soon.” That’s the scarcity complex talking

I guarantee if you hang around/game hb9 and 10’s on a consistent bases you will never put any women on a pedestal and let her walk all over you because she’s hot f that. Do you plenty more fish in the sea get that abundance mentality

[–]icecruzader[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link