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Probably discretion. They seem Conservative because your SMV is not high enough for them to put out in the middle of the steet
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:10 AM
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Right, but they describe it like approval seeking and externally motivated which is poor form for strong frame
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:25 PM
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Can I be MGTOW and still have fwb/fb or is that like too much. How indiferent do I have to treat chicks for the club. I'm pretty indiferent
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 11:26 PM
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Not just that but yeah, I'm a big bad soiboi, gona steal all your feminists and keep them as friends. She doesn't respect my time and too much drama when she found out about other plates
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:47 PM
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She didn't force one, she was paying in me and she was kissing my chest and she just sucked harder and longer on one. I didn't notice till after
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:44 PM
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AWALT as a given, there is a role for nurture in this. The amount of OK Ness she has for disability is superceding her most base biological need for 'security'. She basically has a baby already, she gets to have a man helpless towards her and he must have some game. The social benefits of being a Saint are similar to not trying to seem like a slut turned up to 11. Really though, there are so many people Im not surprised by shit like this at all. Someone's cut a chicks legs and keep her fed via I…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:44 AM
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You never had the self esteem. You just had a great social circle. You were confident in your feeling love was true or whatever the fuck you were doing. I also failed the pussy test in HS. If you have no experience and you've idenfited your problem, go fix it. Go out alone and get burned. That's what I did and my balls gnrew four sizes that night. Picture the grinches heart but it's my balls. Learn to do cold aproach pick up (YouTube it) since it's the best confidence builder. Going out alone is…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 11:54 PM
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I usually give it a week before I make any contact. Usually I'll get a message first asking to hang out. If not I'll keep it stupid simple to set it up for being just sex.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 11:44 PM
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Meditation. I've found no other solution to core frame issues because your frame might be hard enough to get laid off ten but not enough to keep you satisfied with what you've accomplished (if you are bettering yourself day in day out). I've done my fair share of drugs and partying. I'm 23 and started smoking weed at 16 for a little reference. It didn't satisfy me at all but meditation did. It's like lifting for frame. The thing you realise quickly is that no amount of external stimulation, drug…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 11:41 PM
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There are different types and it's hard to do it wrong but you can. It is beyond words as attraction is more than just fiscal. A great eice of advice I heard was that you don't want to fuck because your dick need pleasure, you want to fuck because you want to feel in your body. Meditate to/by feeling your body while staying as still as you can. Get out of your own head in other words. It helped me by changing how I associated with my desires, making me way less needy. Really though Google it and…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 10:49 PM
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you gotta start somehwere dude
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:55 PM
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this is everything. Double entendres are the bread and butter of making things sexual in conversation, even if you dont push it with inflection she'll think a sexual thought. Im sure you have guy frinds you make jokes with, you can do it easily and practice makes it automatic. maybe watch a youtube video on comedy and double entendres
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:54 PM
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Learn to meditate. youll look for less validation in general. If you say, attach it to a larger issue, like having needed validation from your mother for food i.e. life as a baby, wanting women to aprove of you makes sence. Thing is all other women are just babies who loved their Dad's and want thier aproval, i.e. they want your aproval. Meditation can be how you process your past and get to rehersing in your head your new default standard of women needing your aproval before you need thiers.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:40 PM
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Your brain won't rewire after you think the right thing once. Each time you go over it in your head and you act differently it'll stick more and more as part of your 'default mode network'
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:17 PM
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Make up for lost time.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:28 PM
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Making a joke about her not knowing what kind of Locked room you meant, i.e. the bedroom, as per my first comment. If she responds negatively just play it off as a tease, give no shits and keep talking like her response was socially unwarented and offer to take her do something near your place. I like your thinking about interesting things to do, I'd love to go out on a date with you, but logistics are more important depending on what you want to accomplish with this girl. Something, whatever, c…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:27 PM
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After she says no to a date chat before checking again. I'm saying the locked room thing could have been an easy double meaning. Be more direct, both of you want to fuck each other after three SOIs Also pivot easily from types of things, locked rooms to arcade are nerdy, be multifaceted
/r/askTRP06/03/19 09:36 PM
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I want to go to a locked room would've been better if you flipped it to mean room with a lock door and gone to eat out to vet her before taking her to your place
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:30 AM
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All of us chanting in unison: Hit That Wall! Hit That Wall! Hit That Wall! Hit That Wall
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 12:07 AM
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If a population looses 50% of its women the population will decline and the culture will die. If its men who die I get more pussy, so keep it how it is.
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 08:12 PM
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Stories which show your higher SMV are never amiss. Storytelling is a good skill anyways but you do you man
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:27 PM
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I lost some 20kg and my face gains were really noticeable. I don't know how much was my change in confidence or how much women saw me but I started getting laid x2.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:34 PM
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White Knight Beta Bitching. I gave her money, why doesn't she love me back!?!?!
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:29 PM
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Yeah, but it depends what kind of LTR if you want a baby momma cateeers geared towards rasing kids like teaching or psychology would be better. For just passing time and having some regular probably less important
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:44 PM
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Do awesome things with your life. The better and cooler things you do the more you'll have to talk about. Or Write some lies about awesome experiences you've had and get good at telling stories
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:30 PM
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Let me fact check this for you. The real sorry is that the guy hit her while drunk driving. This is a bull story.
/r/MGTOW14/02/19 11:52 PM
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Go for it and keep your ground
/r/MGTOW14/02/19 11:17 PM
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For sure, I'm just saying, if you get your head straight, everything else will follow.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:27 AM
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I mean, your SMV is largely based on your game. Looks matter but there are fat fucks who look bad with hot chicks. I'm not saying they all meditate to get there, some bitches are just crazy. But if confidence is like 80%, you could in theory mind fuck yourself in meditation to belive you are really Brad Pitt and that'll show. The actual results yogis get are insane, not with chicks er say but mind over body and fucking is just that.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 02:38 AM
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Well, it's been like lifting for frame in my opinion. I give less fucks about stupid shit that would've got me tripping for weeks. Letting shit go, forgiving my self, processing all my old BP mentality and giving myself the time to think of how I should think of the world. Besides that the excersie of diciplin that if forces you to do, like going to the gym daily helps with staying fiucused on your goals. Then there are moments of like zen clarity where I feel like if I had done lsd or just like…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 02:34 AM
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This, or kill yo self. Jk, learn cold aproach. They've had years of practice ahead of you, you just need to catch up/ pass them with dedication.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:32 AM
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Medi-fucking-tation can get you to fix your shit. Like, in an extreme way, you can meditate your SMV to 9-10.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:31 AM
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Yeah, a trans being, looked like that picture of the devil that's like a dude with boobs, fucking hilarious.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:15 PM
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I got fired for something like this, funny af, waste of time. Worth it? Not at all
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:59 PM
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You should buckle to what a minority of people say to cater to them, change who you are and become apologetic for who you are so everyone will love you instead of ostrazicing a small amount of people for your honesty. Don't give a fuck dude, your not trying to run for president. Don't give a fuck
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:56 PM
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Fuck yoko
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:37 AM
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Think if Alexander the great thought that driving force of every man was sexual desire. He woulda just fucked like a king in Greece for 100 years instead of ruling the whole world by 30
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:46 PM
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Questioning why versus doing
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:27 AM
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You don't need a plan to lead, you just need to be a leader. It'll help more rational people follow along but it's not a nessesity.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:24 PM
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Yeah, he also famously said "Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks" in the same symposium.
/r/MGTOW01/02/19 08:12 PM
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You can produce dmt with meditation
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:45 PM
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It's a fucking nórdic place, it's in the region
/r/askTRP29/01/19 10:02 PM
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Just walk her into motel if you really want to close
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:59 PM
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Talk to yourself in the mirror till you feel comfortable saying it. Your neurons have to get where your intentions are and that's just rehearsal and practice
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:15 PM
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The low countries are takin Muslims in like crazy and they have super hot chicks
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:10 PM
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Move to Finland, learn cold aproach pick up and lift. Fuck 100 women, get married, take her to your probably shitty country and be the talk of the town
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:51 PM
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Get different girls, find one who fucks better.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:48 PM
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You can have anything you want at all, just pay the price
/r/askTRP25/01/19 07:05 PM
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The Mexican looking for a green card?
/r/MGTOW22/01/19 06:24 PM
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So, I read TRP for a while but it was all mental masturbation tiill I put it into practice, I saw some pickup artists on YT who followed pretty TRP stuff. Cold aproach pick up is when you go out like at 3 pm to a busy street where hotchicks got to buy whatever the fuck and waste their money, pick one, chat her up and go fuck her in like an 3-6 hour window after meeting. I've not gotten such good results, but I do get numbers off chicks I meet off the street pretty often with little issue. The fi…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:07 PM
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NEXT
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:14 AM
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The block was way too much. The last line was over the top too. Like, when and if I choose to sounds like the guy from taken talking to the captors. When she was freaking out trying to explain shit you could have just ignored it and not said anything till you wanted to fuck again,demoting her back to plate. Other than that, you don't have to catch feelings for a LTR. I mean, I'm coming from a background from meditation and stoicism, the feeling are just indicators of what's happening that very m…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:42 PM
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Not answering in a timely manner given how fast you respond. Not giving a number when first asked. One word responses, she should be writing more than you. Not starting conversations with you is a bad sign, even if you should not be talking about anything other than logistics. If it's a Tinder or IG chick you might need some talking before a number depending on the SMV difference. Personally if I go more than 20 lines back and forth with a Tinder chick at most, but that's on the high end. Rememb…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:26 PM
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Hear audiobooks on YouTube. Learn to meditate. Learn how to do v old aproach pick up, not because it's how you should meet girls but because it is like lifting for self confidence. Learn, learn, learn, no man will stand in your way if it's clear you know the way.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:55 PM
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This is not the place to ask for advice on trying something different. That Is oneitis but go for it dude. Fuck up and learn. Do some PUA moves. Show up with thee girl friends and have a fucking awesome time, then drop 12k in wad of cash form and pick it up by accident. Leave with all your crew of supermodels and then go back in like you forgot something and casually over the shoulder ask her for her number.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:34 PM
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Tiene el mejor cold aproach técnico de todos, Jeffy y Luke me han sido los más útiles ero tienen algo para todos
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:20 PM
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Tyler tiene de eso.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:49 PM
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Well, if women and children die the population decreases drastically and for future generations. Makes sense but feminists should be trying to get men of the rafts first, you know, for equality.
/r/MGTOW20/01/19 02:48 PM
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Yeah, read The Mystery Method. There's an audiobook on YouTube.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:46 PM
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Busca cold aproach pick up. Me arreglo la vida de muchas formas. Salí un jueves a las 4 de la tatdr a un boulevard y me ase 5 horas forzandome a hablar con chicas que me parecían lindas. Mis pelotas crecieron 5 tallas como el corazón del grinch ese día. Me cagaba de miedo cada vez pero me decía que era una basura por cada una que no intentaba. Poco a poco, cada vez que lo hacía aprendía más y me aprendía sobre las cosas sutiles que me limitaban. Te recomiendo los videos de RSD en YouTube. Fuera …
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:30 PM
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Op: it might be because I'm bad at sex Coment: You can't fix other people! He's trying to fix himself dude Edit: I just saw his pictures. Dude shave that shit off, loose some weight. I don't know who this chick is but she has reason to be sad. Get an expensive haircut and fast OMAD for a week, send a picture to her of how you look and profit.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 07:29 PM
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A text message that says you didn't rape her. More subtle than Hey, did I rape you?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 07:11 PM
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4 comments 2 yes 2 no, thank god your an endorsed contributor to break the tie
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:20 PM
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Leave the relationship. Go learn how to do cold aproach pick up and meet new people. Test yourself and educate yourself. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1QHqMM1VOzP9RhNQinHpF7xzPWQrQG_nydnI7VIxg1EM/edit?usp=drivesdk Protip, google: Stoicism Cold aproach pick up Machiavelianism 3% man
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:04 AM
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Do you meditate? You seem to be doing the right things from these three paragraphs but who know. I'd tell you all the standard things like it's just oneitis your putting them on a pedestal, do more chicks. LTRs are bullshit but your going to get that from everyone else so here's this. Stress is a mental condition, and like any other form of stress is just a fleating addiction of the mind. Stress about work or family life or in this case a chick is just you being off focus from your center. Medit…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:00 PM
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This, op you are calling different peoples different opinions 'picking and choosing'. You could say that it's a different set of rules when a plate becomes a LTR. If you've decided to be exclusive together then neither should cheat. If not continue not to care.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 07:02 PM
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If you've know him long, i.e. You can trust him, keep in touch, try helping him by less direct methods. You can do a lot for someone subconsciously. If not, drop him, soft next. If he looks for you only go out if its mutually beneficial. When I was BP friends left me behind and I was butt hurt but it was for the better. I've gotten people out of living like shit by helping them directly, but that usually happens when they hit rock bottom, for people who are complacent and happy in living like sh…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:20 AM
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Don't forget the balls thing, extra points of you put whm in your mouth while you say it
/r/askTRP10/01/19 09:22 AM
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Better books that what, you just said don't do it. Look, the term alfa came from a guy studying wolves and he admitted his reaserch was wrong. It's a shitty world view to have learning lower you on the ladder, so yeah, if you have something particular against the word manipulation just use influence and give him your best book on influencing others. Sure, you can traumatize yourself to learn something, go fight a bear to learn how to hunt deer.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:23 PM
9

Oof my SMV just dropped
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:17 AM
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You don't have to reassure her, you have, so there's some congruence that you have to look out for on your part but I'd say pretend to go out on a 'sepecial' date and kind of draw the relation ship back to the first couple times with you in y he more dominant role. You can't really rationalise it to her but you being with her is all the reassuring she needs (or should get)
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:43 PM
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Way less risk, one time investment instead of ongoing cost. Say you start reading The Prince and Machiaveli is manipulating you into continuing to read the book all the way through vs say a manipulative LTR who cashes you out weekly or by weekly. That's just money wise. Besides, you are basically saying reading is bad because you are being beta to the alfa author and that's fucking excessive to see yourself so weak you can't fucking read someone's words without being their bitch.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:38 PM
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Short answer, No. Play on a PC you cuck. Also, video games are good but self improvement is better.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:44 PM
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Not if done right. Still, being manipulated by a book and learning from it is better than living with someone manipulative and learning that way.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:08 PM
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Edit: I.e. The Prince
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:06 PM
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'hey, you me sex now' Fucking suspicious and actually dangerous to her health 'hey, movie and a cudddle' Social and friendly. If she has or wants to deny anything happened between the two of you the chat doesn't have her agreeing to have sex with you, chicks don't want to deal with being responsible for their actions. Also, whatever you said before might have not been direct enough but who knows.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:06 PM
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Women do want a man who's been with a lot of women, that's why shes still with you after finding out. She feels self conscious about her own ability please you, which is good too, it basically assures your SMV is higher than hers. If her insecurities are getting to you you are falling into her frame about the issue. She's looking for more validation about sex because you've can validate her sexual skill more than any of the other people she's been with. It wouldn't make sense for girls to say: '…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:47 PM
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Dude good on you but gay af. Did you leave the mall after your first try after getting all dressed up? Look, go and stay for 4 hours. Don't give a fuck, go to a farther away mall or some shit. One aproach like this is fine, you'll see the subtle ways inw hicj you are a fag and can't aproach but setting the bar so low means that your expecting Jack shit from yourself. Never aproach from behind/three second rule:if you see something you like and don't do anything within three seconds next/walk wit…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:42 PM
1

Right but when you say meeting them IRL it's atabar and talking for hours basically doing game and showing SMV
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:58 AM
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I started doing cold aproach pick up during the day. Just walking around the mall and stuff like that. It helps so much to get your shit together. It pulls out really subtle habits you have and fears that keep you from doing what you want. It's hard but it helped. Me increase my self perceived SMV by a lot
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:33 PM
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Dude, in all honesty you have a sweet set up, I'm not saying your lucky to be in that situation, you might be in the long run, I'm just saying you did a bang up job in setting up that bed, curtains and all, looks comfy as fuck. Well done
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 02:24 AM
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I'm staying in and meditating through three NY, setting goals and intentions. Bars tho, if you have a regular place go there.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 09:20 PM
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Come to Perú, we still make racist jokes on TV. They are not offensive here and everyone can laugh together about them. You can say and do pretty much anything you want.
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 03:15 PM
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I don't think stoicism pushes away problems, there is an unhealthy denail of emotion but that is a step before stoicism. That's trying not to feel things because feeling makes you feel bad. From a psychological perspective this is very harmful and should be avoided. Stoicism is understanding and regulating emotions. Not repressing what you feel. What are you referring to when you are talking about pushing back problems?
/r/MensRights25/12/18 03:12 PM
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I think the idea is that there is a denail of men's emotional self. Stoicism is commendable and desirable but to acknowledge that men are not emotionless is important as a society so there is a degree of compassion towards men as there is to women. You can easily mistreat someone with no feelings because they will not feel bad about ANYTHING you do. Stoicism is more about control over the emotions you have, ideally not acting irrationally but we need a fine tuned emotional compass to navigate li…
/r/MensRights25/12/18 03:08 PM
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What helped me the most was to cold aproach during the day in public on a Thursday at like 5 for two three hours in a public place. I did as many aprocjes as I could and every time I'd see a girl and didn't talk to her I'd beat myself up metaphoricaly to build the pattern that it was bad to not do the aproach. Such a horrible time and place really puts you on the spot. It's like hard mode for some things. Day game cold aproach will make you way more confident in easier setting like bars or clubs…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 03:01 PM
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Money: sell useless things around your house. Remove clutter from your life, but you already seem to have a plan for this but if you just want to make 500 euros it's not a bad place to start. Health: if your just starting ten minutes is fine but you should increase the time to improve faster every day. Helps clearing your mind. Lift Social: I'd recommend finding the shittiest bar closet to you and becoming a regular. Going out more often will be better even if it's not the best place the more yo…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:54 PM
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She noticed you staring like a wierdo and was trying not to make eye contact. For future reference, get her number and see her again instead of thinking about her for a week while jacking it to her memory.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 01:40 PM
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He's right tho, don't be a fag.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:54 PM
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If you do happen to run into her pretend you don't know who she is.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:54 PM
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Cold aproach pick up at least 4 days a week. Try talking to 10 chicks a night or 20 people in general.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:59 PM
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Look up premeditación of fears. Learn to meditate and quite the monkey mind. Lift. Make a schedule and stick to it. From the top: Girls have no idea how big your dick is or how many people you've been with till you tell them or it's 'too late' for them. You don't even know how big or small you actually are since you've never been with a girl. Get out of your head. They won't find out till you give it a shot and anything that you think will be their reaction is mental masturbation. Fear is bull s…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 02:02 AM
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Zen meditation. Other meditations help. Focusing on the present and skiing into you body moves your focus from the bubbling thoughts and let's you prioritise what you are listening to in your head. It's a skill you need to practice.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 02:12 PM
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She sent me a picture quarter block away. Probably stupid. She said she had Internet blah blah blah. OK thanks, I understand
/r/askTRP20/12/18 07:15 PM
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Is one flake an auto next, I nexted her in my head but she came back, she seemed interested. I guess your saying I should have ghosted her?
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:43 PM
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I'm not a father but both my brothers 10 years older than me have kids and I can clearly see what they are doing right and wrong. One got a Tinder chick pregnant and is in aLTR with her because he knows how important a couple is for a kid growing up but other than that he's not very committed to himself or the kid. The other is a smart dude with two kids. His LTR was with him 8 years before he decided to have kids with her. Both divorced beforehand so they knew what they were getting into and kn…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:19 PM
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I think the 1-2 partner thing is ridiculous. Are you talking about LTR or do you mean a 16 year old who's only been with two dudes
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:08 PM
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Some don't know what they really want. Others lie out if being nice and others because they think it's what the man wants to hear, because who they like says something about them. Other lie because the fuck is this cuck asking, he should know.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:58 PM
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I did this with a girl. Cut to four weeks later she unlocked my phone with my fingerprint while I slept and woke me up asking if I was speaking to other girls even if I had make it clear multiple times we were not being exclusive. Shit show of a night. She told me she didn't need to see anyone else but I think she just thought that's what I needed to hear to like her enough to become exclusive. She basically is really into you, props for that, but she's also really hoping you'll fall for her. Ju…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:23 AM
1

This is actually really important to keep a focused mind. It's really helpful to get you off the nipple of the reactive immediate gratification BP society we have ourselves.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:48 PM
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Listen to audiobooks. Don't limit yourself to what they teach you in college, keep learning and get farther ahead.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 07:00 PM
1

So, one thing you can do is go and fucking talk to the pair, cockblocking for the steal is a legitimate option in most cases if you have the balls let them get her all hot and bothered for you. Fucking flex the social muscle, make a new friend if not. Abundance means that that one girl means little in the grand scheme of things so remember it's just another moment and reset your attention on something else, next chick, and the girl might be interested in how little you care. If you wanted to fuc…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:30 PM
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It worked with my last FB but I talked to her a lot beforehand and made a few jokes how she was probably going to end up killing me, she was weird
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:44 AM
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Good point, I forgot to make the : I hope your not a murderer premtive joke to disarm that
/r/askTRP14/12/18 11:59 PM
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Change your narrative. Write your life story with no filters. Read it and rewrite it in a more positive light. Fake it till you become what you wanted to become. Learn to meditate to fix your 'vibe'. When you can sit for an hour meditating without moving you'll have a stronger frame and you'll figure out where your negative mojo is coming from.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 02:36 PM
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Frame is your reactions, your world view and your emotional control. If you've read the power of now it's also how much you are in the present moment because elkhart tolle makes the distinction that if you are in the Now more than someone else they will be drawn into your now over theirs. It keeps you from making decisions that benefit others out of habit, which we are socialzied to do in a increasingly feminised society and keeps your goals and aspirations at the forefront of your mind so that …
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:45 AM
1

Cold aproach people at a bar and tell them you moved, you talk to enough people you'll find people worth your time
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:26 AM
2

This, OP your need to meditate, get out of your head
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:09 AM
3

Dude, get an expensive haircut and go to a dermatologist and you're golden. Also leave the fucking incel forms, it's cancer for your brain. Your look matter but your frame matters way more
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:09 AM
1

I mean for pick up tips RSD has good stuff, if you want RP shit read the original Stoic philosophers (or maybe just their audiobooks)
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:40 PM
1

Pour one out for the fallen
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:49 PM
1

After TRP that was the best I found to help me get laid, to each their own
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:26 PM
1

Get new friends with big red balls
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:32 PM
1

In the book The Game, the head of RSD is like an antagonist. So he's got credit being shady. They changed some of their shit over the years, they've been doing it since PUA started. It is old ass PUA shit but there's like 10 guys with different angles on game. Some younger, some older If you're looking for life coaching get a psychologist.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:21 PM
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Dude, 28+ black women and focusing on money. That's nuts, doesn't seem RP at all to me. I recommend Real Social Dynamics, there's a wide range of aproches and some of them were in with the very first guys in the world to teach pick up.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:18 PM
19

This too will pass.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:18 AM
12

Hahahaha best comment this month on TRP, there should be awards.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:44 AM
6

First of all congratulations. Secondly, do cold aproach and go out and meet your city. You don't need to work for money but you can still be more successful. Depending where you live, ei big city little town, make a habit of going to some of the same places and meet regulars. Sanity is a product of human interaction. Real human interaction not message in a bottles across the net. Turn your video games into gaming chicks at bars but take a social circle aproach. Make a group of friends by filteri…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 03:54 PM
2

First of all congratulations. Secondly, do cold aproach and go out and meet your city. You don't need to work for money but you can still be more successful. Depending where you live, ei big city little town, make a habit of going to some of the same places and meet regulars. Sanity is a product of human interaction. Real human interaction not message in a bottles across the net. Turn your video games into gaming chicks at bars but take a social circle aproach. Make a group of friends by filteri…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 03:54 PM
1

Ugliest person in the room to keep her in the present but yeah. That could work too. It's mostly in the delivery, it's meant to be an exaggerated joke that follows the conversation thread.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 02:22 PM
19

Saying the lawyer fucks his wife is OK but the op having sandal socks, too far dude going by down votes. Lol
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:22 PM
1

Do it on a different thing. The theory is find something she mentions, agree with it and low it out of proportion to make you seem more interesting for saying the same thing. Bonus points if you show you're funny If she doesn't like the song she can suck it. Your music tastes are your won God damn business and your breaking frame to please her if that's your problem. You agree with something she says or does before and amplify the mood at which it came from to have a more exciting conversation. …
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:34 AM
1

Not the best example, probably don't bring u dead mom's in a happy context
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:31 AM
0

She says, boy, I hate his song, you say This Song! My mom dies to this song, I'm going to kill the DJ It spikes the mood and sets you up to keep leading conversation
/r/askTRP09/12/18 12:35 AM
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Probably, and she real nice and forward so that woulda been easy
/r/askTRP08/12/18 09:36 PM
3

It's ot as bad a as you would think but it is fked. If you hold your frame you can still getaway with it as long as no white Knight shows up that you just can't brush off or chode away. The girl gave you a hard shit test, but odds that it'll spiral would take you not gaming like you know you should. If you show neediness or fear about it she'll start acting like it was serious and eat you alive with potencial bad concequences
/r/askTRP08/12/18 09:35 PM
4

This is how you pass most shit tests, don't forget it.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:08 AM
8

Add value to people, quid pro quo. Be a leader of men and show them how good you are with women. Don't expect everyone to like you
/r/askTRP08/12/18 01:38 AM
1

Are you afraid youre going to corrupt me, because I think I've got one on you one that
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:12 AM
1

You don't know who knows. Depends hwo big your school is but you should play the social theater, not just take her shit and let her walk all over you.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:18 PM
4

Sue her ass for some quick cash before going to college. No one who's heard this will matter at all in your life in a bit. No one cares that much. Open un your social circle again and make a big deal about this. You can find people who know how nuts chicks are recently about false rape allegations. You can start the counter rumor if you want to invest time in your public image. That shes a crazy lying bitch. Don't really need too many friends but if you have one person the believes you you can d…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:17 PM
1

Go for a flat stomp on the knee
/r/askTRP04/12/18 11:43 AM
1

I mean I'm sure you can be a Chad at any age. No real reason not too. I'm saying, if you have a patch of hair it means you are balding ei, something genetic lowering smv. Someone with no hair can just be someone who likes shaving his head, ei. someone who gives no shit about what other people think. I see people are telling you that yes you can, the only thing I can contribute at this point is this one piece of advice I heard from someone else. I don't have this same problem but I figured it mig…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:14 AM
1

Enough people are telling him what he needs to hear. Sucks for you too buddy, how do you deal with balding?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:08 AM
1

He's got some good stuff. It's fucked how his followers are just sheep now though, when he started getting popular he had more RP shit coming from a psych background but when he got popular he basically had to change what he was saying to save face.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:55 PM
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But fucking worth it
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:38 PM
2

Cold aproach going out alone and meet new people. You'll find people doing what you do and have a new circle in no time.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:36 PM
3

I've heard of sob story game but it's not for evrryone
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:54 PM
1

I was wasted.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:27 PM
2

Meditation and being in the present moment are the best things to do baring therapy.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:23 PM
1

IYou should have more experience like this under your belt. I'd say next her, just because it's too early on in you starting out to be holding on to hope that she'll give you another other other chance. Snapchat makes it easy for you to get pulled into being an orbiter especially if that's how you are talking. Before your surgery get more experience, if you don't think you can get one to blow you while you are in recovery don't count on their interest holding till after. Use this time to meet ne…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:16 PM
1

Balding is not a choice, bald is.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:06 PM
1

I read somewhere something about tounge positioning but if your holding on to that as an excuse not to smash get surgery.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:05 PM
2

He doesn't have to be you RP mentor, as a psych major I'd say use him for social practice. As a professional he'll let you frame win out most of the time to hear you speak. Use your judgement but even the most Blue pill cucks can teach you something. Either learn from what he's doing wrong or pick out what he's doing right. If you don't have a bunch of experience guys with game you won't be able to tell from the first session. Shop around, abundance you know? If you can shop around ask if he's h…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:03 PM
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Pick, plate or LTR. That in between bullshit just doubt. If its one set up exclusivity and get her to cut that other dudes bs and if not ignore the shit out of the 'competition'.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:56 PM
1

Show him how you cold aproach into making out with a girl in real life and toss him a dating book
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:46 PM
1

The I might could have been a good place to pivot to something else besides the picture to build comfort before the number close but it was good. Addressing the boyfriend doesn't help if she were willing to go further. Its more of an ingore to pass that shit test in my opinion.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:05 AM
20

Cane? You mean Pimp Staff right?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:54 AM
4

Yeah, no need to take her out, just invite her in.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:57 AM
1

I usually do audiobooks on YouTube, there's a ton. I'll check that one out, thanks!
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:18 AM
1

I need money to keep going out, I don't need it to get laid. I'm going out too often, it's getting unsustainable with how much I'm making. I'm just putting shit together to keep my head in the game while I shift my priorities for a bit.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:14 PM
1

I do audiobooks pretty often, any recommendations?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:04 PM
3

If you belive that you get what you deserve that's OK, but it's not true because it's God's law. It's true because you act like it is, and from what I can tell its a belief very deep inside of you. You get what you get, deserving has nothing to do with anything other than how you choose to act. If you think that having sex with someopne won't let you be happy it's like saying if I eat a fruit today a horse will kick me tommorow. You think that it's wrong and dirty to enjoy the pleasures of the f…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:03 PM
1

Your onetis and the fact she's probably the only girl you are gaming at once which is very unproductive, not because you should cheat but its practice to fail with 10 chicks plus you'd be playing the numbers game.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:24 PM
1

Good fathers, philosophy and experience
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:34 PM
1

Frame philosophy. Hear Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. It's on YouTube like. An audiobook
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:53 PM
1

Stoicism
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:22 PM
3

Dont take it so literally. We can't all have the exact same frame. Look at stoicism online
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:25 PM
1

What he means is that you questioning whether she like you or not is her getting validation from you by using her sexuality. Assume she's into you and go from there, expect a shit test and take no shit
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:46 PM
2

Yeah, and it's also a shit test wrapped in one. Give it a shot, better to do it and fail than to never try.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:44 PM
15

I mean, a girl who let's you be in an open relationship while being exclusive with you is the goal in a way. I haven't gotten to the place in my life where I could maintain that relationship if I found the chick but if you follow the TRP core sexual strategy, ei. going for numbers over prioritising quality you'll meet her. I know of guys with girlfriends who are satisfied with just one guy and are even bi, so they help pick up chicks for threesomes. The sky is the limit and the positive LTR you …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:48 AM
1

From what I gather, your value still has to be that high, she still needs validation one way or another, besides pure sexual theory, although they are inseparable, your value in life is what attracts her, so if she's been raised right, she's still going for a guy of higher value than her, you are aproching this by your question from the position where she is different, but that's only because your self worth is not where it needs to be. Basically beat her dad and her culture with how strong your…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:47 AM
5

Dude the word whore is for girls to use on other girls to discredit them towards other people. You think they don't want sex? The fact they don't whore out To You is what you are reacting to. Why would a reasonable girl hold out sex to a guy you claim 'she likes' other than that guy is not alfa enough. So you are talking about one girl on specific here right, let's do a thought experiment. There's you who she'll fuck on the 6th date let's say. Then there is this other guy she likes and she fucke…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:32 AM
1

Don't text again, you'll seem needy. Drop it, forget her and find three girls to replace her. From where you seem to be you just need experience in numbers. Try like this 10 times and see what you learn.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:17 AM
1

therearenoqualitygirls Jk No there are but why would it not be OK? Really depends on the girl and how cool she is. We are looking for varying values in girls
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:57 AM
2

This is wrong, this is the wrong mindset, they would if you were as alfa as you should be to deserve a girl as good as the unicorn that you are looking for. You're putting this imaginary LTR girl on a pedestal. Why would any girl not fuck the true alfa on the first date. You should be that guy for 'every' girl (because you don't want to fuck every girl and not everyone has to like you). If you are coming from the standpoint that a long date period is healthy for your frame and your standing in t…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:53 AM
0

Despite IQs being genetic and there being a lot to do, it is 50/50 because you can overcome genetic predespositions and become successful regardless of how you start off. If you are looking at overall success you can't actually say one is better than another. You can be natural at game or you can learn and improve your frame as you grow up and have guidance. Airing on either side is pointless to how you have to act. It's more hopeful and 'nice' to say its nurture, feeding into the egalitarian wo…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:31 PM
1

Try the sidewalk, go on the first gut instinct. If you think you loose, you'll notice the excuses you make for yourself more easily the more you try.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:11 PM
3

Try to talk to strangers on the street. Hosting is cool but it leaves you with a responsibility for your place. Even if your OK with that meeting new people by talking to chicks on the street makes your balls grow a few sizes and let's you feel in company when you are out alone at bars to know how to.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:05 PM
1

Yeah, the I could have mindset is definitely fucking with how you are dealing with this one chick. Fact is you didn't so it could just be you lying to yourself. That's could be would be lalaland, try again.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:25 AM
1

In my country hb8-10 are more rare than other places. I have to move. You are right about the scarcity is showing here. On texting, since I'm only doing logistics should I go for sponteniety or planning, generally I don't know which builds more attraction. Any suggestions?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 01:47 PM
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I get that, I'm not too invested, she's just hotter than the other ones I'm talking to and knowing they are the same mechanically, I still want to fuck a hotter one. In general though, is same day better or a few days in advanced. I'll rewrite the question.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 02:59 AM
4

Hahahahahaba
/r/askTRP14/11/18 02:00 AM
2

@rsdquotes
/r/askTRP14/11/18 01:59 AM
1

Go fucking talk to her. Maybe she'll reject you, maybe she'll give you her number, maybe she'll fk you then if you play your cards right. Ass is fine. Get over the awkward hurdle and fucking carry on. Also, make a face of 'I own this piece of ass' while you watch. If she 'catches you' at least you'll have your balls on, then hold frame.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:03 PM
1

Just try to cold approach the next chick that does that. I really really doubt they would look to 'recruit' you as an orbiter before they at least consider fucking you. Assume they want your babies until proven otherwise.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:33 PM
1

Try Real Social Dynamics on YouTube
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:25 PM
1

You have to game them from scratch day of and get them invested by actually calling them up.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:57 PM
1

Knife open carry? It's a little better. Don't risk it but we'll done
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:14 PM
1

I an an atheist and I belive that I must survive to reproduce and raise kids well to assure my genetics will survive another generation in a decent quality of life. Other than that I think living in a hedonistic way feels good so I don't go out of my way to stop myself.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 10:13 PM
1

Try to sink your focus into your body. I like to imagine a shape of a body and imagine it occupying the space of my body. It really get me out of my head and into the meditation.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 03:27 PM
1

I'd add "Get in your body and out of your head" It's been the most helpful advice I've gotten to notably improve the results of my meditating.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 03:16 PM
1

Fuck hahaha you repeated that saying so it sounds so fucking true. I will
/r/askTRP18/08/18 03:32 AM
5

Hahaha, I just thought she was into me for the beautiful ray on sunshine I was.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:25 AM
1

I think this an r/spirituality thing.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:38 PM
0

Science! Edit, shit link I´ve read it somewhere, I think it makes scence since acting agressive does the same.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:06 PM
0

When you scream your body produces testosterone. Scream into a pillow. Look for things that increase your testosterone. Find a sub chick.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:08 PM
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The average American height for men is 177 cm or 69.7 inches, which is approximately 5 foot 10 inches tall. (for white males). A height chart for men of “White” race/ethnicity, showing average height changes with age. (hint: 5 feet tall is 60 inches or 152 centimeters. 6 feet tall is 72 inches or 183 centimeters.)
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