Stupid question, but an answer would be helpful. Im learning as quickly as I can, and apparently being direct is the way to go. Instead of slowly hoping for her to drop a hint, I just went for it. So here's what happened:
She was studying alone, I approached and looked down at her untill she made eye contact, i said "hi, how's it going" and put my stuff down and sat next to her.
She was much younger (1st year). I talked and used what I learned to pretty much make her laugh (teasing/joking).
She didn't ask me any questions, she seemed very nervous and giddy. So since convo wasnt growing because I had to initiate everything, but she was constantly laughing/smiling and making eye contact.
Since she had a non stop smile and Using feedback I got earlier ( " strike while the iron is hot"). I asked if she had any plans after her test on Saturday that she was studying for, she said nothing, here's the convo;
Me: " I want to go to a locked room, does that sound fun to you" Her: " I've been to them before, I don't have fun"
so I tried asking to go an adult arcade, she said she said she doesn't really like to go out, then I tried again;
Me: "do you like good food, im great at cooking and you can just lend me a hand and I'll do the heavy lifting"
Her: " No thanks".
Once again, still giddy and smiling while going through all that.
I sat there for a minute texting some people, got up , got her name and shook hands and told her studying alot is great but you should have more fun.
Question:
Is what I did, being direct and asking her out the right approach?
Was she just too nervous to say no, or was she just not interested cuz I didn't play it right?
Any other feedback here will be appreciated.
Edit: interesting feedback, some of the feedback directly contradicts others lol. I'll keep an eye on this.
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