I know it’s probably gonna sound childish but foreplay, if it is long, makes me bored. Hear me out. So the girl I was with, all she ever liked doing is teasing me. By the time we fucked, I felt bored and tbh didn’t want to do anything after all that. It’s maybe why I don’t cum unless she sucks me off. However, if I teased her for a short while, I would want to have sex right after. The way she teased me made me bored as all hell. I get it, kissing, tickling and oral but idk, can’t we get on with it? I did tell her but ofc she got all offended and gaslighted me as some idiot brute. Like one time, she was riding me so slowly I was pissed off and she stopped anytime I wanted to grab her and just fuck her how I wanted to. Now maybe I’m in the wrong here. I just find that foreplay is more for the girl than the guy.

Like, if I’m ready to fuck and all we end up doing is foreplay for most of that time I’m horny, I get pissed off and don’t want to do it. No wonder she complained that I fell asleep/got soft on her lol. 4 mins max, otherwise it just becomes a chore or else I have to hate fuck her to get it on for myself.

Idk, I enjoy masturbating more than sex because when I’m horny I just get it out of my system. Maybe that’s why prostitution works best. No need to wait around.

What do you folks think? I get mad when she did’t ‘finish me off’ and her excuse is that she is teasing me. Teasing and foreplay just make me go “ah jeez, have to prepare her first like how you prepare a frozen dish in the microwave”. I’m curious if anyone else has gone through this or am I just immature.