I've used a condom once, like ten years ago to see how it feels, I really didn't like it. I like connecting with my queens and all that jazz, but fuck-- I'm at a place where I feel like some of these females I'm currently talking to would tell me they're on birth control when they’re not or might try to have me cum inside them because of my smv (i think you guys call it) has been rising pretty fast and steady. Is a condom like a default necessity in this group? Do I really just got to get over it?