To me, it's a kiss on the mouth. But is it?

I thought touching a girl on the first interaction meant something, it doesn't. If I got a phone number, it flaked. So I dominated her more, still flakes. So I kissed her. It seems that a kiss on the mouth is the only kind of commitment women make. If that happens, it seems to be the point of no return for her as in "now serious things are going to happen". Then I heard some pickup teacher say that even the kiss meant nothing.

This led to me trying to go for a kiss as quickly as possible to then be able to rest a little. Like a save checkpoint in a game. And I don't even like kissing!

What are your experiences? And how do I make her cross the point of no return to have sex with me without kissing?