Sooo what happened here.

Wiley-canvas · 2019-09-11T05:59:13+00:00

Maybe she just wanted some casual sex. Who cares? Oneitis. There’s a million possible reasons. Find other girls. Any girl possibly saying the L word on a 2nd date is probably crazy anyway.

Did you text her between the 2nd date and the “not hearing from her 3 days later?”

XXXMersenne · 2019-09-11T08:39:32+00:00

Your're getting confused because you're trying to put the TRP map on Nuanced territory but shit just ain't linin' up.

She wouldn't stop saying she has feeling for me and almost blurred out L word

She like-likes you, great if you're up for "LTR" or plate. But that doesn't seem to be the case since you never hit her back:

Didn't hear from her for 3 days

Because she 'got the message' (her interpretation of events) that you probably weren't interested and since girls typically have 0 game, she had no idea how to beat around the bush to find out, well other than telling you that she likes you & L-bomb edging.

that's not what she was looking for

"A casual hookup that isn't followed by some sort of LTR isn't what I was looking for" she wants to secure the bag, Bro.

Hit her up again for another round & be enthusiastic. At next meet, same shit as #2 then stay in touch. Forget all this timed-texting bullshit of waiting 27hrs 17mins & 3sec. Text whenever you feel like it & say whatever the fuck you want. Don't fucking sweat it. All these rules have guys doing Mario Kart: Stoopid Laps in their heads over a girl that already likes [or even Loves⬆] them :facepalmSigh:

Use yer brain dude. Game and such are tools for intelligent aspiring womanizers with initiative towards desires. Everyone else ends up on the 6 O'clock news because they glitched everyone's matrix with their poor (rote) execution of this information.

redhawkes · 2019-09-11T10:20:08+00:00

Probably a BPD case or she felt like a slut after. Anyways, on to the next.

MattyAnon · 2019-09-11T12:08:58+00:00

What gives ?

Bitches be cray cray

0io- · 2019-09-11T13:42:07+00:00

Maybe you shouldn't have had no contact for three days and she thinks you were just going for ONS. I'd ask her out again a few more times before transferring her to the injured reserved list.

realname3 · 2019-09-11T13:23:40+00:00

You went no contact after fucking her didn't you?

If so then you let her rationalize for too long that she came with her own conclusion

Sylvester_Sterone · 2019-09-11T13:52:16+00:00

This happens. She's on the carousel ride and might have met another guy. No doubt she said the same exact pillow talk words to someone else.

Time to move on.

AlleyFrog96 · 2019-09-11T16:16:33+00:00

Stop dating, start fucking

TakerEugene · 2019-09-11T04:28:32+00:00

It was just your turn . That’s all

KetoSandwich · 2019-09-11T04:30:55+00:00

Do you ever worry about getting an STD from a chick that is willing to sleep with a guy after only knowing him for like 5 hours worth of dates?

That’s what I’m really curious about.

Title	Sooo what happened here.
Author	Kabuki431
Upvotes	11
Comments	25
Date	September 11, 2019 4:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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