I'm seeing this girl from June and the time of "the talk" has arrived and yet i'm still very indecided wheter I should upgrade her to LTR or walk away.
The Main Issue is that I honestly don't wanna end up being some slut's fiancee and, apart from our first "date", she didn't showed further red flags. I don't wanna be with someone who had a shitton of ons before me, since I had a couples but I'm mostly a monogamous guy.
M. is a 23 y/o, high educated solid 6,5 (a bit fat, stunning face)
No drugs (which is incredible in my country) but she likes to party and to drink.
In order to let you express your opinion I try to write a "field report" of our first date.
Sum up of the date:

  • 1 pm: My friend from university invites me to have lunch at her place, where I meet her roommate and we connect immediatly
  • 5 pm: My friend from uni asks if I wanna come by before leaving the city (I live pretty far from uni and I travel every day). There we chat together for a bit, then she leaves and I remain alone with M. We have some talk and then we decide to go out to drink something
  • 7 pm: The date has gone pretty smooth, the talk was just awesome but very light physical contact. She says she haven't been in a date for an year since she came out badly from her last relationship. We are both tipsy, she invites me to have dinner at her place with our friend, she also sais that since I live far I can spend the night there since they have a spare bad and her roommate is ok with me.
  • 9 pm: we ate and we drank even more, then we decide to go out (the three of us) for more drinks. When my friend is changing clothes, me and M. stayed in the kitchen, and we upscaled. During this moment we almost kissed but she withdrawed last-time, then with 0 discomfort (no mention about the refused kiss, we chat kept talking normally) we get out all together
  • 11pm: we are all very drunk, my friend understands there is something between me and M. and decides to leave us alone, shortly after she kisses me for the first time in the bar.
  • 12pm: we are headed to her place, we kiss and we make out a little during the way. When we arrive she shows a free room saying her roommate is at his boyfriend's and that he would be ok if a sleep in his bed. Then, we got naked and she sucked me. We didn't had sex atm, I don't know if she would have agreed cause I didn't asked, I don't like to have sex when I am drunk this much cause my performances are always embarassing. I made some jokes about me wanting her to get out and go to sleep in her bed but then we cuddled and we slept together.
  • don't know am: We woke up, we cuddled and we had sex two times. We stayed in bed for the entire morning
  • 1pm: We have coffe and then I leave since I have to go to uni. There after class I meet my friend, she says she enjoyed the night and then asks me about what happened between me and M. I tell her everything, she says she is happy about us and describes M. as a nice girl and she says that since they live together (6 months) she has never brought anyone home. Then she says "she likes to party a lot, if you like the kind" which I don't, I am more into sports.

Any advice will be highly appreciated :)