Hey everyone. Ive been dating my LTR for about 9 months now. Soft nexted once before when she canceled a trip we'd been planning for months for some BS reason (spend time with family). She was an emotional wreck, blew up my phone with messages and texts, which i ignored.

Anyway I told her about this comedy show I really wanted to see and said it would be the perfect way to celebrate my birthday. We agreed she would buy the tickets and id get the airbnb, even split. She was on board, but when it came time to book the tickets she refused to buy them unless i booked my flight first. I calmy explained that it was an almost sold out show (like 6 seats left) so she should buy them now and i said firmly once again that i would buy the plane tickets after. She didnt budge, started saying she didnt want to risk me flaking and what not. Keep in mind i am not the one who has ever flaked; she is.

Rather than argue i left the convo and initiated a soft next. Last time was 3 days. Im thinking a full week this time. She started blowing up my phone again immediately after i left the convo so i just blocked her. Honestly she could have booked the tickets any time that night but she still didnt. I dont see how anyone could think this is a "disagreement" and not out right drama in the form of making demands (ultimatum) and making unwarranted arguments (doubting my word).

Still think she has a lot of positive qualities but she needs some training.

*I initially tried to buy the tickets but the site wouldnt let me for some reason due to my address. Thats why she had to buy them.