Note: originally posted this on theredpill but told it should probably belong here

Haven't posted here in a while. Background - grew up in Melbourne, Australia. For various reasons (all boys high school, nerdy demeanour, etc) was pretty much an incel until my early 20s despite many attempts. Very disappointing to go all through high school + uni without a shred of sexual activity (indeed its the sort of thing from which I'm not sure I'll ever psychologically recover). For the record I'm 6'1", white, generally fit/not overweight, used to wear glasses but got laser surgery aged 21. Looks no better than average. Still a nerd but I try my best to go out and socialize more. After graduating I decided to head overseas and see if my SMV would be higher elsewhere. I taught english in China for 18 months and then travelled for the last six. Pleased to report successful encounters/relationships with about 12 women in that time (not including any occasions where money changed hands). Found the differences (and similarities) of women in different cultures to be quite fascinating. In summary: Pavi (mid 30s, from Mauritius) - actually met this women after graduating but before I left Aus. It took a few months to get the teaching job organised during which I worked part-time. I decided to try salsa dancing for a while. Met her at the Halloween party (I had a Darth Vader costume on). She and her friend were dressed as devils. At some point started talking then dancing with her. Along with another guy the four of us went to a bar after. She was going home with her friend that night so I got her number and we agreed to meet up the next day. Turned out she lived just 15min drive from me. Messaged her the next day, came over. To my surprise she basically grabs me and pretty soon we're fucking. Started off a quite beautiful affair that went on for the next three months (literally a whole summer). Would mostly just go to her house, fuck, binge watch a few episodes of Stranger Things, fuck again. Honestly the happiest I can remember being for a long time. Ended things on good terms around New Year as I would shortly go to China. Pretty much the best sex I ever had. She was honestly a very horny little thing (is this true of all African girls?). Only downsides are her being in her 30s, just under 5ft tall and maybe slightly overweight. Also I really wish I'd had an experience like this ~5yrs earlier. But next I was off to Asia! Fancy (early 20s, Chinese) - first girl in China...and tbh probably the least attractive. She had an ok face, about 5ft tall, though somewhat bad teeth. Matched with her on Tinder a few weeks in. Met her at a bar, then went back to her hotel room. We did the deed although she threw up afterwards. Kept seeing her for a few weeks despite myself. In RP lingo I don't think you'd even call her a 5/10. She seemed aware of this however and seemed suitably desperate. Basically made a show of being willing to do anything in bed. Suck my dick whenever. Her tinder tagline was just 'If you are long enough and hard enough'. Also a surprisingly down to earth attitude with little entitlement. Saw her for a few weeks, but decided I wasn't really attracted to her and that this was pretty much a one night stand I had let go too far out of my own sense of desperation (which had lessened now I was in a better environment). Remained friends after for a time. Paula (early 20s, Chinese) - my fav girl in China. Spoke decent english, quite cute, maybe 6/10. Again matched on Tinder. Chatted with her over a few weeks before eventually met up. She openly discussed her preference for European men, with them being more attractive and 'maybe bigger cock lol'. Began a nice affair that lasted a couple of months. Usually she'd just come over to mine for usual movie & chill (had my own apartment - she shared with 3 other Chinese). Eventually things petered out and she stopped coming over (apparently had a new boyfriend). Sometimes talked to her after. Miss her just a touch. Maine (30s, Philippines) - another match on Tinder. She worked as a housemaid in Shenzhen. One time I paid her after we fucked - to clean the place, not for the sex. Only saw her a few times. She seemed to thoroughly enjoy my dick (would cream all over my bed and I'd have to wash the sheets if I forgot to put a towel down) but again, I didn't really find her all that attractive. Also turned out she was divorced with a couple of kids back in Philippines. Leah (30s Chinese) - one of the more slightly bizarre encounters. Matched on Tinder. Turned out to be a housewife (only still-married women so far as I know). Quickly started talking about sex. Commented on my height ('I'm a tiny bird next to you'). Said she was only free at certain times when her husband wasn't home. In the end agreed to meetup at mine - in the middle of the day (i.e. during my naptime break at the kindergarten I was working). So after morning classes I said bye to my kids, had lunch and walked back to the local metro station. Met this woman, went five stations to my place and fucked her there. Tbh it wasn't the most enjoyable. Her face was ok and her body skinny but she also turned out to be really flat. At one point I had a disturbing thought on top of her like 'Am I basically f#cking a 12yr old boy right now?' This ended up being a major turn off (her husband needs to get her a boob job stat). Said goodbye, went back to work and neither of us messaged the other again. Jess (early 20s, Chinese) - a slightly longer relationship that went on for a few months. Matched with her on Tantan (Chinese dating app). Previous girls were all quite westernized. This one was eye-opening in that I experienced what raw chinese girls tend to be like (Google 'Chinese girl Rainy'). She was ok looking (5/10) though in serious need of a makeup/dressup tutorial. When I first met her at shopping centre we walked around for a bit. She seems nervous and conversation a bit awkward (her english was passable). After a while she just kinda stops and asks 'So what do we do now?' I ask what she means. She said something like 'So do we go home or something?' I realize this girl had quite possibly never been on a date before in her life. We went back to my place that night but just kissed a bit and agreed to meet later. Took her virginity on the second date. The relationship seemed closer to actual boyfriend/girlfriend experience than the others. We ventured out around the city a bit. I visited her apartment once (when her family wasn't home) and surprised to see she slept on a hard wooden bed (no mattress). Her family weren't absurdly poor or anything, its just part of their culture. This explained an episode when she'd come over a few times. She said she didn't actually want to sleep in the bed that night. I asked why, and she said it was 'too soft'. So she slept on the couch that night. Time after that she complained the couch was still too soft, so she wanted to sleep on the floor. We went to a shop nearby and I bought her a little rollout bamboo sleeping mat. We then set her up on the floor. Just as I'm about to turn the lights off I hear this ear splitting shriek from the foot of my bed - 'ROACH!' I killed the cockroach and went back to bed. She still slept on the floor. She would also complain of feeling sick if you gave her cold water to drink. Eventually things fell apart a bit. Although I enjoyed the company, I never really intended to get into a serious relationship while overseas (unless I somehow landed a truly spectacular girl). She had asked me a few times if I was gonna take her anywhere (like to Shanghai for the weekend). One night I wanted her to leave because I was getting up early for work the next day. We got stuck in some vicious loop where she wouldn't leave, and I asked her why, and she said because I was angry...I was angry because she wouldn't leave...and round and round this went for a while before I had to physically shove her out of my apartment door (I am not proud of this moment). She kept messaging me sometimes but we didn't reconcile after this. Emma (30s, Chinese) - one of my favourite relationships. I'd never really had a sugar mumma before. Matched with her on Tinder. Straight away could see something different about this one. She gave her address and offered to order me a Didi (Chinese uber) to her apartment. Went over and fucked pretty quick. She lived alone in quite a nice apartment in a 30 story building nearby. I told her how I was doing two english jobs and earning 30,000¥/month (about $4,000USD). She laughed and said 'I make more in a day than you make in a month'. She ran some fashion business with a few dozen employees. Met up with her maybe a dozen times over the next few months. She was ok looking (not fat - my biggest obstacle) and basically enjoyed me as her tall western toyboy. She'd send me random summons to her apartment 'Come to fuck me now. Hurry up I am horny'. She kept paying for the Didi to hers, would take me out for fancy dinners/hotpot and go to the first class cinemas (if we were alone in the room, she'd grab my fingers, put them on her lap and tell me to get to work). She sent me small payments at random times. Once when she asked if there was anything I needed I mentioned it would be nice to have a bathtub again (only shower in my apartment but I like the odd bath too). She said 'ok' and immediately ordered me one on Taobao for 400¥. Arrived in mail at my apartment a few weeks later. When this all started she'd had a Swiss boyfriend, but apparently they broke up and later the new one 'doesn't like it when I fuck around' so things ended after a while, but quite a nice experience. Michelle (21yrs old, Filipina) - after a year in China I went to the Philippines for a few weeks (aware of its well known reputation). My count could easily have been higher except for some specific circumstances. This girl is easily the sweetest & most attractive I had encountered so far. 5ft-nothing and 40kgs of pure sweetness. Depends on your preference, but I would say 7 or 8 out of 10 easy, with only one major drawback. I matched with her on Tinder a few weeks beforehand and we messaged each other a fair deal. First time we met in Cebu we just walked around pleasantly. We agreed to go to Moalboal for the weekend (when she had work off). It took a little while to get things warmed up (she was apparently still a virgin - and for the record I believe her). We didn't do more than shower and sleep/cuddle together that first weekend. Next weekend we went to another island on a very pleasant trip (like hiring a catamaran for the afternoon and going snorkelling on some reefs/shipwrecks). This time we progressed further and I realized the one drawback. I feel I've been pretty honest with this account so far, so believe me when I say this - it wouldn't fit. Simply wouldn't. I tried warming her up with fingers, using lube, etc, but simply no luck. She seemed intensely nervous when we tried as well, which while awkward, was also extremely cute. We did other things, but didn't quite manage the deed itself this trip, so that was disappointing. (P.S. for anyone who might make the suggestion at this point, no she's not a ladyboy, I had to weed through plenty of them on tinder in Philippines but she was not one of them) We still messaged a lot and I saw her again when I went back to Cebu a few months later. We tried several more times but still have this issue. This is a shame as she's the only girl so far where I actually seriously wonder what it would be like to marry her. TheRP always skeptical about unicorns but Philippines is a country where the 21yrs old, attractive, skinny, sweet-natured virgin girl can still sometimes be found. In Australia/Europe/USA this is unthinkable in 2019, but I have witnessed it with mine own eyes and thank God for that blessing. On the other hand - why, oh why God, did you let me find my unicorn and then trip me up at the last possible moment?? Daisy (40yrs old, Chinese) - back in China I was pining for my unicorn, but matched with this woman not long after. A divorced mum with two kids. I feel I can accurately describe her as an absolute MILF. Like the literal Chinese equivalent of Stifler's mum. After matching on Tantan we met for a long riverfront walk, which got to 2nd base. One big point in her favour - she had the biggest breasts I've yet encountered. Maybe a DD in western terms. You could bury your face between them, and she was barely overweight at all. Its not common but some Chinese women are stacked! Like many Chinese women I've encountered, they tend to be severely undersexed. It was enjoyable how much she'd genuinely cry out when impaled on my dick. She also liked sending me naughty pictures and we watched porn together a few times (I don't think she'd ever really seen it before - internet heavily censored in China). As she had two kids to look after, we usually met up at lunchtimes, so I once again lost my naptime break. This affair continued until I left China. We also did some sport training together she got me onto. Once, shortly before I left China, I had lunch at her place with her kids, to whom she introduced me simply as her 'foreign friend' so I'm not quite sure what was going through their minds that day. Months later she still sends me messages regretting that she's 'in her 40s with two kids' and how as a result we 'can't travel the world together'. I guess its nice to be in someone's thoughts anyway. Rose (early 20s, Philippines) - my second trip in Cebu. Aside from trying to properly bang my unicorn I got a little bored and tried to see just how easily girls here could be lured on Tinder. Honestly? The results blew me away, almost like ordering a pizza. This girl was quite attractive (maybe 7/10). After matching we met up for lunch the next day. She was a bit shy. We walked around the mall for a bit and after a while went to Dunkin Donuts. I asked her if she's ever seen 'Stranger Things'. She said no. I told her I had it on my laptop back at the hotel. She said 'ok'. Two episodes in and I'm sailing the red sea. That's really it. That's all it took. Didn't see her again after that though. Bella (30-ish, Chinese) - similar to the previous girl. Matched on Tinder, met at the mall, had dinner. Used the same 'Stranger Things' line with the same result. (Went out with a few more girls in this period but didn't close the deal, this account just of those where I got to 4th base). Francine (43, Brazilian) - after Philippines I flew over to Europe where I've been the last two months. With my white god factor shut off I've only had one lay in Europe (and not even with a European girl). I've approached quite a few at hostels/parties/clubs but this my only success story. Was in Budapest for Halloween Boat Party. She actually started talking to me. Apparently thought I was handsome (kept calling me 'Lindo'). Went back to her hostel after boat party and fucked on her bed (hung up a sheet and tried to be a bit quiet in the 8-bed dorm). Hung out with her and her friend for the next few days before we both departed. She really liked me eating her out and was happy to return the favor. Honestly seemed a bit of a nympho. Kept doing things like drinking a mouthful of champagne, then kissing me so it spilled into my mouth. Also had fake boobs, which I hadn't encountered before (wondered at first why they felt so firm). She's the oldest woman so far, but still one of the more attractive, though my Chinese MILF takes the trophy for biggest tits. And that's it! Those are the 12 women I've been with in 2yrs years overseas. A few further observations:

Going overseas as a tall white guy, particularly from a feminist shithole like Melbourne, can really raise your SMV. Sure you're not necessarily going to attract really beautiful girls, but even me, a borderline-incel back home, can match pretty reliably with 5s and 6s without too much effort, gaining a great deal of confidence and experience in the process.

-although I tried a few times, still had no real success with western/white women while I was over there. Dated one tall, beautiful Russian girl for a while, but never got beyond a peck on the cheek and honestly think she was really using me for free meals after a while (or I was just the only guy in our city taller than her in heels)

Asian women may not be quite as attractive as whites, but most are quite skinny and their men are so feminine and useless its not hard to stand out. Think Big Fish in a Small Pond (except Chinese is a pond with 700 million women)

Chinese women in their 30s are probably one of the easiest demographics on the planet to seduce at this point. If all else fails, give it a try. Some of them are pleasantly feminine and attractive

In China especially, I repeatedly got positive responses to a larger than average penis size. This topic could be an article in and of itself. I would say that there's definitely some truth to the idea that Asian men are generally smaller. Maybe 4-5inches on average, while Europeans are an inch or two bigger (I am less sure about Africans). As a 6'1" guy I went from being fairly tall (like top 10-15%) to very tall (like top 1-2%, would often stand on a train platform with 200 Chinese and be half a head taller than anyone). I think this probably translates into dick size as well. Average in the west is big. Some way above average (so if I have say 7inch) you're a porn star. Most startling evidence of this though was a woman my sugar mamma mentioned - a friend of hers, also a wealthy, decent-looking, Chinese woman in her 30s. Apparently she'd gone to America previously and was now a committed member of the church of big black cock (for realz). I was shown some pictures she'd sent of her having threesomes with some very generously endowed black men (I'd say maybe 8 inch). I'm not sure how common this behaviour is, but certainly not too rare. My sugar mumma also showed me pics of one Italian huge guy she'd met, maybe 8-9 inches, but complained that 'it was too big, so we couldn't have sex'. So I guess its not all bad news for Mr. Average. This stuff does happen folks!

Its based on just one experience so far, but damn I gotta get my ass to Brazil. My next big trip will definitely be S. America!