Long story short, I was one of many young men who had yet to learn of the red pill lifestyle and thought the most efficient way to win the favor of a woman was to shower her with attention, validation, and emotion ( 🤢). Needless to say when the opportunity for pussy came knocking on my doorstep, I very quickly found myself in the “Let’s be friends” test/trap.

I responded more than poorly, thinking I’ve failed at a mission that in my mind I wasn’t even worthy of. I groveled to one of her friends and let her in on my inner monologue about anxiety, depression, & self-esteem, explaining why I was timid and indecisive, wondering why girls reject me so quickly, and mentioning how deeply I felt for her friend (face-palm). She (predictably to any RP men out there) immediately shared my feelings with the girl I was seeing. I once believed that women respected a man who is open and honest with his emotions, but now I know it comes off as needy and repulsive and such complaining turns a woman off quicker than just about anything else in this world.

I am since far over the situation and very comfortable with myself and my masculinity despite my mental health challenges (anxiety) as I am grabbing them by the balls daily and simply accepting of myself as a whole. She’s still pretty attractive and certainly doesn’t have anything better going on, so I thought she would be a good opportunity to put some RP theory in action.

What I do want to know however is that having sinned so grievously and emasculated myself so horrifically to these women, is it even worth it? My frame is indeed stronger, but I just can’t imagine her giving up the booty without an amount of shit-testing from her and her friends that I simply am not willing to go through because her value to me isn’t proportional.

To my fellow RP men that have been in this situation before, is a simple change of frame noticeable enough or will it be tested relentlessly if you have been deemed a beta in the past?

TL;DR: Like a true Beta I spilled my guts after a shit test thinking it would please a woman which emasculates me horribly to her and her friend group and now I want to know if it would be worth going back in for the kill now that I have a strengthened and superior frame, given that I don’t care enough about smashing to go through extensive shit testing from her and her friends.