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5

Manipulating you into thinking you're the one that screwed up and not her. If you take her back it will only make her act worse and worse.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:37 AM
7

Just assume attraction and go for it. You shouldn't shit where you eat but you sound young and this job probably isn't your career.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:47 AM
3

You have to be prepared to walk away from a relationship at any time which is really easy to say but fucking hard to do and maintain through the course of an LTR. As soon as start slipping you start losing the game and generally get more needy (this is where the oneitis creeps in). You don't usually notice the changes in yourself because there subtle, but it just keeps getting worse and worse and so will your LTR's behavior. Oneitis is bitch.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:38 AM
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I feel lucky to have her. It's only your turn. Never forget this. Problem is with me, is that I don't see myself interested in dating anyone else. I don't see myself chasing girls with my boys anymore. It's not a lack of abundance mentality it's the opposite. You can deny abundance mentality all you want, your whole post screams oneitis. You not seeing yourself chasing other girls is a big problem and effects you subconsciously and led to your oneitis. You need to end this relationship and bring…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:04 AM
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No way in fuck I would ever consider it personally.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 06:03 AM
1

Don't take plates on dates.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:56 AM
1

Don't worry about it and pretend like nothing happened. Hit her up to fuck again. Keep fucking her good.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:21 AM
1

Gain her respect by being a good father. Show your daughter and her mother that you care and respect yourself, and they also need to respect you. Don't be a dick to her, but you don't owe her anything than to be a father to your daughter.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:41 AM
9

How do I make sure my ass is covered if our relationship is ever found out? Save every text message and anything you have that proves what you and her did was consensual. Otherwise start treating her like every other coworker and stop shitting where you eat you stupid fuck.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:37 AM
2

I've never planned dates like that, I usually always wing it. We had planned to go to the beach and get doughnuts and I didn't what we could do after that - do you suggest planning everything up until you take her home (assuming you are taking her home?) It's important to have a plan, but at the same time you need to be able to improvise and wing it. Come up with likely scenarios that will arise, like if things go good at the beach, what's next? Take her to a cool spot with a view, or a place wi…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:21 AM
3

Well, substitute Germans in bunkers for cum being shot at my girl every second I sat around hoping things would get better. Good shit OP.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 12:49 AM
1

It's not a shit test or disrespect. It's banter. There wasn't really much she could have replied to the fact that you were carrying things. When you texted her after 30 minutes, you shouldn't have apologized and you certainly didn't have to explain yourself. You didn't do anything wrong so no apology necessary, and you killed any mystery when you told her you were carrying shit. Look up DARE not DEER. did I hold frame and not look bothered or bitter? Decent enough. But you are texting her too mu…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 12:06 AM
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for a moment I didn't know what to do Before your next date, have all this lined up. Know exactly what you want to do before you ever leave your house and you'll have the confidence you need throughout the date. I couldn't really read her and tell if she was into me, Always assume attraction. Worst case scenario she wasn't interested and you are in the exact same spot you're in now. If she likes you, but isn't quite ready yet she won't hold your advance against you, and if she does fuck her, nex…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 11:53 PM
1

Sounds like the plot of a porno. She was a hoe fo sho.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:57 AM
3

She belongs to the barracks.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:38 AM
3

For science
/r/askTRP23/05/20 02:24 AM
1

but conversely I would like to know their number You'll never find out the real number. Never.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 02:14 AM
2

She is COMPLETELY dead to me You wouldn't be thinking about these messages 1.5 years later if that was true. Stop lying to yourself and delete them already.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:26 AM
1

In the link in the address bar, replace the r in reddit with a c and you will get your answer. Looks like he was just using some links. Edit: Looks like some healthy self promotion in those links as well.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:40 AM
10

Pete deserves your username if we're being honest with each other here.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:26 AM
0

Step two: look into frame control.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:12 AM
0

You have a lot of work to do. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:10 AM
0

I'm just trying to get plates and being lonely while I do it. Don't be so defensive, he's giving you good advice. Your whole post comes off very beta, and your defensive response really cements that. Your title implies you are looking for a girl because you are lonely and you literally just wrote that you are lonely. You're missing something and a woman isn't it chief. Fix that first before you go looking for a plate and you'll have a much easier time.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:55 AM
2

If a girl came up to you your interested in and say I herd you was dancing with a tranny? Who the fuck are you that you think people are going to know about this brief interaction well in advance of meeting you? Unless it ended up in a viral video or some shit nobody is going to know about it you ruhtard. I think you need therapy but not for the reason you seem to think.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:33 AM
1

I think you handled that as well as you could have. Plates break and it's rare you get one that can last much longer then a few months at a time, eventually they want that LTR or find another Chad. A&A, pressure flip, redirect, change the topic, whatever it takes to get her to keep fuckin and when she breaks she breaks.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:23 AM
23

Don't worry if someone thinks your an asshole, you know what you want and you're doing it.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:17 AM
3

She either fucks or you go find someone to fuck, it's that simple. Don't communicate shit, just try to be physical with her and if she refuses withdraw your attention for the rest of the night. If she doesn't get the hint, cut bait and find another girl. You have no abundance mentality and she knows she can get away with this.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:14 AM
12

Saving your money, especially during a global pandemic isn't a bad idea either.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:45 AM
2

Blocking someone is pretty weak IMO, but I can see how it's necessary for some people who can't control the urges they have. Either way don't give an explanation other then "It's time to move on." Look up posts on the main red pill sub that talk about DARE and not DEER. Dont: Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize. Do: Deflect Agree and Amplify Repeat Exit.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:15 AM
1

Spin plates, stop catching feelings or this shit is going to keep happening. If I were you I wouldn't consider another LTR for a good 2-3 years to get your head straight.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:08 AM
1

Nothing more, nothing less. Don't have a conversation, say I have something to tell you and get out of the conversation. You don't owe her anything, and you aren't trying to get back in a relationship with her. You are moving on.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:03 AM
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Is there any other redpilled solution for this kind of situation? You need to move the fuck on man. Girls don't break up with you man, they just treat you like complete shit until you break up with them. You need to be a man and end it. You know why? I made her feel unsafe, unsatisfied, unhappy to the point that she now sees no future together with me. You are now trying to negotiate with her to gain her attraction for you back. It doesn't work like that. Your relationship is dead. Move on.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:58 AM
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So nothing. You have to understand she isn't special and there are other girls out there that will care about you.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:55 AM
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Tell her you're moving on and being in constant communication with her is holding you back. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:53 AM
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what should i do Stop worrying about her leaving you. If she leaves, she leaves and there's other girls out there to take her spot.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:46 AM
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I believe it is a blue pill idea to accept the narrative that porn is good for you. I don't think anyone BP or RP anywhere believe porn is good for you. There's plenty of information out there, look up nofap. Careful though, nofap is not a superpower like many of the weirdo's out there will make you believe, but if you have problems with porn addiction it's a good avenue to look into.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:43 AM
5

Agree and amplify was definitely the way to go, there were so many witty comebacks you could have had dialed up. It's pretty difficult to be quick witted while your working out though, next time you are jonesing to get a pump in excuse yourself from the conversation.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:36 AM
10

Count the number of rings inside her pussy.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:43 AM
1

By this point I had revealed my body count (which is 1, she did think it was a lot higher), started getting affectionate etc. However, I wasn't afraid to not give her any attention I didn't show her much affection Which one is it? Be honest with yourself, because it's easy to slip back into beta habits.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:41 AM
2

Sure it's fair of you to assume that and to be hurt by her actions. But that's how she justified it to herself in the moment and at the end of the day even if you did have the talk she probably would have done what she wanted anyways. Vet your girls better and don't assume anything next time even if she is talking about great great grand kids.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:28 AM
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or instance she’d stay up till 4am talking to other guys on call. Lol that's not a good sign. She’s always got on easier with guys and talks to them in college Girls that only have guy friends are a massive fucking red flag. but doesn’t hook up with them out of college Lol sure she doesn't. You have no clue what she's doing you naive fool. I’m the closest there is to doing so. Come on man you don't really know that. You can't. It’s like she’s playing some psychological warfare game with me. You …
/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:06 AM
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She told me and I quote "we never told each other we were exclusive". But it's kind of implied since she told me she loved me all the time. Kind of not really man. Men are the gatekeepers to a relationship, sounds like you just left the gate open and let her wander right in and start living there. If I'm running multiple plates, and one of the plates seems like LTR material, but while being a plate, was fucking other guys, would I still upgrade her to LTR given the fact that she wasn't loyal? Yo…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 03:54 AM
1

Do you have a question?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:11 AM
3

You want her to stop texting other guys, and seem to really like her and clearly have at least the start of oneitis for her. That to me sounds like you want a relationship, that or you have some control issues. If you don't want a relationship at all I would cut bait all together with her. No need to torment or distract yourself thinking about the other guys she's texting, especially if you have other plates.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:00 AM
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I don't think there are different levels of plates man. You have oneitis and shouldn't be giving two shits about who your plates are texting as long as you are getting what you need from them, if they are truly plates. If you tell this girl what she can and can't do she will either fuck off or push for a relationship. Either upgrade her if that's what you want, or ignore it.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:55 PM
1

But I wanna know if I look as good as I think This right here confirms what I thought with my original post. You aren't "big" you weigh 85kg and I wouldn't have to look at any pics to tell you that.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:37 AM
1

What do you mean by vein as fuck? I mean you must know you look good. You wouldn't be posting topless pictures like you do if you didn't think that was the case. What does someone telling you that you look like a superhero or a normal athletic person do besides stroke your ego? How about I rephrase your question here. Do I look good, or do I look really good?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:07 AM
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Maybe never, maybe in a few days. Every situation is different and we don't know her or what other possible suitors she has. You need to learn not to give a fuck or your going to keep driving her away.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:55 AM
10

Women are kind of like cats at times. If you dangle a toy in front of them they will play with it for hours, but if you just hand them the toy to play with they give no fucks and move on immediately. You gotta dangle the toy (relationship) in her face, otherwise the fun and thrill for her isn't there. You've already given this cat your toy, find another cat now.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:45 AM
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Who cares if you look big or small. Obviously people say you look big in person, you have a healthy physique. On the internet you are getting compared to Mr. Olympia and quite obviously look pretty small. I really hope you aren't looking for validation from a post like this because that in combination of you IG page makes you look vein as fuck.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:19 AM
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I think that is also followed shortly after by having kids. Unless you plan on having kids, don't ever move in with a girl. Moving in and getting married doesn't change shit and probably just makes it worse.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:12 AM
13

I think you’ve been watching too much American pie. Too much porn more like it.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:21 AM
1

Hit her up with an exact date, time and plan or don't hit her up at all. One last shot. Hey Lisa, come over friday night around 8pm, i've got a nice bottle of wine with your name on it.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:08 AM
8

what’s the proper rp response to this? Leave her on read and soft next. She either gets her shit together, or you go find another one. She's playing games and needs to fuck off.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:04 AM
2

And even more specifically, a whole lot of them are seemingly perplexed, arguing that isn’t this—equality, even when it comes to divorce settlements—what women (and specifically, spooky feminists) wanted? Sorry gents, but the answer is no. And for several reasons. Proceeds to list zero reasons.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/04/20 11:29 PM
5

Sounds like you ran into some drunk party girls, who continued to be drunk party girls after you left them. Why did you call after the shower, why not just go over and see what the deal was? You had an invitation already.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:13 AM
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After i hugged her she said "i felt your dick on my stomach" me being so taken a back i just said "sorry" with a chuckle and she responded "its okay, i liked it". Don't apologize for something like that. Ever. You didn't do anything wrong. Just today i realized that after finding out i was a virgin she must have felt superior to me and that gave her the confidence to say that. Or she just wanted to fuck you and take your v-card man. She was flirting with you, not trying to flaunt her superiority…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 03:54 AM
5

Fuck no. My last LTR pulled this shit and I knew better but I still put up with it for a couple months thanks to oneitis. Even when we were having sex it was terrible and nowhere near the level we had at the beginning. Fuck LTR's.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:35 AM
8

What am i missing? Nothing, you know what the deal is here. This is one of those unfortunate sentences that you have to add "with you" to the end of it. But you already know this when you said: I know that she wouldn't say no to brad pitt or chris Hemsworth regardless of how insecure she was. In an LTR if the sex dips down to nothing, it doesn't rebound anywhere near what it was. Also once/if she gets into shape she will start getting more attention from guys and need you for less and less and w…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:28 AM
1

What does this have to do with the red pill? You should do whatever the fuck you want to do man.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:12 AM
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Now I kinda have the feeling that she‘s trying to move this thing into another direction. I only want to fuck, I don‘t need an LTR. Is that her plan? It most likely is. Just keep doing your thing, if all you want is sex then keep to that. She can either play ball or go find someone else to take her on dates. Not your problem, just hit her up to quarantine and chill and see what she says.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 02:01 AM
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She's progressing every time, unless you have a real abundance of options I would still go for it. As long as things don't slide backwards (ie you are back to making out only, or the period excuse comes back up again) you aren't expected to go on long expensive dates, and you are enjoying the time you spend with her I would keep pushing on.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:35 AM
4

You're answer was good. It feels weird because it goes against the blue pilled conditioning you've received for years. Most of the shit you read here will feel pretty strange until you start experiencing success, which you will. My answer is usually More than 0 less than 100, but there is quite a few ways to defuse that bomb. Don't have canned answers, it's always best to come up with something on the fly like you did. Never answer directly, and having experience like you are referring to is a p…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 04:14 AM
2

I meet girls from instagram Not off to a good start here. till i made a sex joke through call What was the joke? i went begging her for forgiveness. Cuz that works. You need to read the sidebar clearly. "you are acting like a 10 year old and thats not what i thought about you and it seems like you dont have any social life" She sounds like a very sane logical girl in all honesty. I've read 5 sentences you've written so far and I would agree. i still cant recover from her rejection which i write …
/r/askTRP14/03/20 04:11 AM
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I think that she is not really sexually attracted to me, she only likes me because I am very affectionate with her. Trust your gut. Sex never picks up when you get into a relationship either so if she's rationing it out like this now, i'd hate to see what kind of a dry spell you'd be on in 6 months. 5 dates and she refuses to put out is too much, at the very least she should be giving you a crazy BJ by now. Then I asked if she felt like that with other guys that she had dates, and she said no be…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 04:04 AM
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I am just worried about the don't shit where you eat rule. Ahhh so you are aware of the rule. I'm not sure where in the rule it says its okay when its "the easiest way." She seems like the kind of girl who I could just fuck and we'd go about our business, but I'm still hesitant about this. You don't know shit about this girl you stupid fuck, quit thinking with your dick. This whole thing boils down to if you care about this job. You aren't in university anymore so hopefully you got a job in your…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:27 AM
6

They have daddy issues and these guys fill the father role. That and the guys are obviously beta bucks.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:11 AM
1

It really sounds like you are trying way too hard and putting a lot of pressure on yourself to bag a 7. Do you have a mission? Because it sounds like your mission is getting with a 7 which doesn't work.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:08 AM
1

Dangle the toy in front of the cat and they will play with it. Hand it to them and they ignore it.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:00 AM
1

During the breakup she talks about her not being interested in sex anymore Unfortunately this is one of those statements that require you to add "with you" at the end of it.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 01:57 AM
1

How can I combat this other than the obvious way of getting laid more. Search the main red pill sub for abundance. There are tons of threads that cover this.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 01:41 AM
3

im not ur guy, fwiend
/r/askTRP13/03/20 01:26 AM
7

Sounds like you want to but you are too much of a pussy to get it over with. If you're thinking about it more than just in passing or daydreaming, or your LTR is ever mentioning it, end it.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:17 AM
1

how do I get past this "my life and entire personality is a lie" thought? As soon as I started actually seeing the results from the work I was putting in. Once I actually started spinning plates (I mean actually having no strings attached sex with 3 different girls in the same week), seeing gains at the gym, and just feeling better mentally and physically then I ever had before I knew there was no going back. No offense, but if you are here asking how to get laid you haven't fully internalized t…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:34 AM
1

Agreed. VW is definitely a good place to start, although I never really though of my Jetta being a "red pill driver car" lol.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:10 AM
4

Oh wow fuck I didn't notice they moved all those off reddit, sorry my guy I should have clicked on them before I posted. Mods must be putting in some work this weekend, but if you copy the links off the side bar and paste them into the search bar you can still find some of them pretty easy.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:28 AM
2

Trp.red is saying moved yes. But the main red pill sub is still accessible as is the side bar.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:14 AM
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You can still access the side bar on the main sub.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:08 AM
1

How would I get the message across without seeming passive or needy. Look up dread game on the main red pill sub. If a girl does what you described to me I will either reply 2-3x longer than they took or else soft next for the rest of the day and or the next day.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:02 AM
1

Np man. There aren't too many threads that really stand out in my head, but that was definitely one. Props to u/TotalBasturd for that gem.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 06:22 AM
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I remember that one, it was on the main sub but it wasn't years ago, several months maybe. I'll see if I can track it down, there was definitely some good stuff in it. Edit: Found it, sent you a PM since I don't think you can link reddit threads here. Edit 2: If anyone else is curious it was called "Men are inevitably trapped in a game of domination"
/r/askTRP07/03/20 05:25 AM
3

There's always going to be someone better looking, with more money, hotter girls, faster car, bigger house, nicer boat, etc. even if you are in the top 1%. You are in control of your own life, if you want those things put in the work. Maybe you won't get leo dicpario pussy, but you can still get good pussy if you put in the work. Don't be a bitch and whine about your bad hand in life, put in the work and make something of yourself.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:03 AM
2

You are giving way too many fucks and clearly have oneitis over your LTR. Spend some time reading the sidebar and stop being so needy.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 01:30 AM
2

It gets easier. It's counter intuitive to blue pill conditioning, it can feel really wrong because it's almost like you are punishing yourself at the same time, but it's what you have to do if you want to regain frame in this relationship. If you don't regain frame, your problems are going to get much worse.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 01:09 AM
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During the date, we decided to meet 2 days from then and that I'd pick her up. I try not to do this with dates, especially the first date. You want to keep her guessing if you like her and when you are going to see her again. Knowing that you set up a date 2 days later, chances are there are no other girls in your life that you are gaming either. Girls are almost like cats, you need to dangle the toy in front of them for them to be interested. If you just hand it to them they don't care about it…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 12:58 AM
1

Not if you play it like nothing happened the next day, look into dread game and how to do a soft next in the sidebar. You need to start dreading this girl more so she has some kind of fear of losing you and starts making you more of a priority.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 12:51 AM
2

You've already got answers but I agree you gotta get a new dog if she is the one who signed the papers. The way you describe the end of your relationship there is no way in fuck she would give you the dog even if she wanted to and couldn't care for it herself. Get one that is a completely different breed so you aren't constantly reminded of her and your past relationship.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 12:45 AM
2

Ignore. Soft next for the day, then reach out like nothing happened and you were just busy.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 12:41 AM
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You can sacrifice your own goals sure, but there's no saying that you can or will fix any of your dads issues. Usually more money or help just ends up making the problem much worse. If you want to help, find him some for of credit counseling or financial planner to help him get a grip on his own finances. They can coach him on what to do with his house, establish a proper budget, etc. You need to get the fuck away from the sinking ship before you go down with it.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:23 AM
1

Just wear a body condom and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:18 AM
7

You haven't been redpilled for 3 years, you've been a bitch for 27. First of all nobody gives a fuck that you are 2 months away from your 28th birthday. Put the video games down, stop watching porn and start living your life. Hit the gym, read the sidebar and start talking to people and making real friends (Ie actually start implementing the red pill). But you aren't going to do that because it's harder than jerking off and playing video games.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:16 AM
1

Because if having a vagina and crying rape doesn’t count, then nothing. Then stop worrying.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:53 AM
2

how do I get rid of her if she ever tries to start shit? Ignore it. Or would she? Nobody here knows this girl and what she is capable of. Yes women are capable of doing shady shit, but that doesn't mean it should be giving you fucking nightmares. A better question here is, what does she have on you that you are so worried about?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:15 AM
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Your ex has moved on, and you have not. Can she come back and try to fuck you over? Sure, but so could a lot of people i'm sure. You can't do anything about it, man up and move on FFS. It's been 3 months already.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:08 AM
2

I keep obsessing about sex Women can sense this. I can't think of much that will drive them away faster. Unfortunately, i even ask people on forums like gonewild who tell me stories about their flings with spanish women and how they fucked them. Wow so you like you cuck yourself online then. I'm guessing you watch A LOT of porn huh? Do you think these guys are telling me the truth about all this? Maybe, maybe not. Why do you care? Yes people fuck spanish women, it happens. I have also paid women…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:57 AM
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Hit the gym hard, then cook yourself a bomb ass meal with as many of you favourite foods as possible. The gym to shift your mood and attention to turn that negative energy into a positive gain, and the food helps forget about whatever bullshit was bothering you.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:37 AM
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It sounds like you are both thinking about if not actively looking for the exit from the relationship. You are giving her what she wants by offering to live together (which is a mistake), and now she is finding reasons not to follow through with it. You're the prize, and you should have gotten a hell yes to that, not a well maybe I need to think about this more now. Trust your gut, rip off the band-aid.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:37 AM
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I'd rather cut my dick off and throw it in the tall grass than be a cuck.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 02:34 AM
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If she's talking about ending it (especially on a consistent basis), the relationship is already over. Rip off the band-aid.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 02:33 AM
8

I am 19. I guess my question is, how do I make my results much more consistent where I can hit the club and secure a lay with no effort? Keep doing what you're doing, you're 19 and getting results clearly. There aren't many 19 year olds on the planet that walk into a club and slay every single night, unless they have celebrity status. As you gain more experience it will just get easier and easier as long as you stay focused.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:24 AM
5

If you care about your job do not pursue her. If you don't care about your job shit all over the place who gives a fuck. I really want her but don’t know how to Approach other then scheduling a meeting This would be one of the creepiest ways to approach of all time. Do not do this even if you don't care about your job.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:19 AM
32

Why are you talking politics with your girls? Seriously, I don't know which side of the political spectrum any of the girls I've ever banged would be on. I get it for vetting down the road maybe, but to be looking for that right off the hop is craziness. Most girls don't have a fucking clue what they believe in anyways.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 04:46 AM
2

I didn't ask you why you were here man, we already know based on the title of this post. You are here asking why she blocked you, don't pretend you don't care about the reason why.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:51 AM
1

I mean you don't say shit in a dm, find a way to bump into her in real life. A good looking guy with a great personality and high value like you shouldn't have any trouble pulling in real life. Once you have some real interactions with her, she knows the super high SMV you claim to have and is showing interest in you then it would have been pretty easy to say "Hey! That's a nice dress, I bet it would look even better on the floor of my bedroom ;)"
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:49 AM
1

You are here asking why she blocked you, clearly you care about what this bitch is thinking lol. Come on man...
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:37 AM
1

Well clearly she doesn't seem to agree with this fact, or else you wouldn't be here making this post she be gobbling down your nob from that fire you posted on her IG.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:29 AM
2

It's a very low value move you pulled. You don't know her at all and she was clearly off put with your style of "flirting." High SMV men don't go commenting eww on random girls pics they don't know, dweebs like you do.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:26 AM
2

No wonder she blocked you lol.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:13 AM
2

Not as attractive or as much status as you think obviously.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:11 AM
13

Most people don't even save 10% of there annual income every year, let alone over 50% which it sounds like you are. Start telling yourself that you aren't living to save, you're saving to live. Start living man, tomorrow isn't guaranteed and you can't take it with you.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:24 AM
3

Or is this just not as big of a deal as we make it? In my city almost nobody lives in the downtown core where the clubs are at, so it's very common to live 20 minutes away from the clubs. So that is a complete non-issue as far as I would be concerned, not sure what your city would be like. You don't make out the whole way home, you have fun and banter with them while going hard kino and escalation.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:20 AM
1

Crazy good read, i'm surprised I didn't come across that one sooner.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 02:06 AM
2

Out of curiosity, how does one misunderstand that they are married? Crazy bitch?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 02:29 AM
2

Like some next level shit test to weed out a wimpy guy. Thoughts? It's not next level, this is extremely common. Keep doing what you're doing and find out.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 04:56 AM
1

This is going nowhere fast and I can't tell if I'm digging a hole or am I holding frame....?? Digging a hole. It's easier to frame it like "I want a partner that is going to last as long as I plan to" instead of "it's your job to be sexy." Why are you planning to upgrade an overweight girl? No abundance?
/r/askTRP21/02/20 04:54 AM
5

Do I follow the “if you’re not banging, then you’re not hanging” rule? You have no idea if she's not banging yet though. I'd hit her up, isolate, escalate and kino my way into finding out. You should be able to figure out pretty quickly what her intentions are and if they aren't banging then make an excuse to get away and do your thing. If she does bang make sure you don't catch feelings, because she will cheat again.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:44 AM
1

and she said it was because she didn't want it to turn into a problem. If she didn't want it to be a problem she shouldn't be talking to him in the first place.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:39 AM
1

Why does any girl have a facebook, snapchat, or instagram? Sure as fuck not to be getting attention from other dudes when she's in a relationship with me. Are you really so delusional to think that your girls want 0 attention from every other guy on the planet except for you? If she wants attention from every other guy on the planet she can have it, but she won't get it from me. Why did you come to asktrp and make a post about your girlfriend being a hoe, and then get defensive when everyone is …
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:51 AM
1

she always talks about herself and never leads the conversation anywhere, is never interested in anything going in my life I bring up etc This part in particular of your op is what I was referring to. It's pretty rare that this isn't the case in my dating experience, and is definitely something I watch for in terms of giving a girl an upgrade.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:43 AM
9

but without the butthole Might as well delete your snapchat and start over then bro.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:23 AM
2

This is how most chicks are, get used to it and let them do all the talking.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:19 AM
2

How is it unrealistic to think that a girl is just texting/talking on the phone with a dude for attention? Why does your girlfriend need attention from dudes that aren't you? Jesus your hamster is running a marathon. Her buying you shit and being "obsessed" with you doesn't mean she isn't banging other dudes. Ever think she's buying you those things out of guilt for banging other dudes?
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:15 AM
0

She's giving you trickle truth at best. This was months ago and it still bothers you, trust your gut because your subconscious self is probably picking up other things too.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:12 AM
6

She could have just been looking to use you for some easy dick, or she could be playing games to see if you'll get thirsty and send a double or triple text. Just play it cool, no more contact until when/if she reaches out.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:41 AM
5

Maybe you aren't completely blue, but you're definitely blue. Love doesn't exist, its bullshit and you need to open your eyes to that. The girls are leaving you because you are providing way too much comfort and not enough excitement and dread. Then they hop back on the CC to get pumped and dumped by Chad after Chad, and then once they realize they don't like this either they go back to billy beta. And what advice you would give to me? Reread the sidebar, especially anything to do with abundance…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:57 AM
11

What should I do? Relax. Go to the gym and work out, hang out with your boys, do whatever you gotta do to get your mind off this. The fuck are you going to do, buy a pill and shove it down her throat so you know she actually took the pill?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:46 AM
10

$10 she's with the supervisor by the end of the week.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:02 AM
1

She was definitely into it a lot more than I was. That's exactly how you want it to be. Sending more texts to her doesn't mean more comfort, and we have no idea how much comfort you've given her. Obviously you have to come off as attainable, but it's a pretty fine line you have to walk. As you've already been told, you need to be more vague in terms of what you say about other chicks you're seeing. If you had either not volunteered that information, or given vague answers when you were inevitabl…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 05:54 AM
0

What could I have done better? You haven't really given much info on how the two of you interact, but based on what you wrote not much. I feel maybe I didn't give her enough comfort that she had a chance of attaining me? Maybe, maybe not. She's a 5, how much comfort do you really want to give a 5? Given the situation, do you think chasing after her is appropriate since she probably needs more comfort? Absolutely not. Should I forget about it and soft next? Bingo. Plates break, the end.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:26 AM
1

Got drunk, made out, woke up the next day and asked her out, she said she wanted to just keep being best friends. I said I like you, but that's not gonna work for me, respectfully cut her off and went three months without talking to her. She was afraid that you were going to be needy and clingy at first. Fuck I would be too if I messed around with a girl and after ONE night she wanted to be my girlfriend. So I have literally zero idea what's going on in her head You demonstrated that you weren't…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:20 AM
2

Your mindset switched from I have pussy, to I need pussy and girls have clearly picked up on that. Whether you think you are or not, you're acting thirsty. Look into abundance mindset on the main sub, and while you're at it read (or reread) the entire sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:10 AM
2

Even if you do help and try to fix this problem, there is always going to be another problem. You are not captain save-a-ho, her problems are her problems. The only way i'd help is to get her mind off her problems with a good dick down.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 03:35 AM
1

Genetics. Attractive women have better genetics (or desired traits) which in turn means your kids will have better genetics. Even if you don't want children, it's hardwired into each and every one of us male and female.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 07:31 AM
14

Because you cry on internet forums instead of putting in the work to better yourself. The information is there for you in the side bar if you want to improve.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 07:28 AM
1

You and her both already consider this to be an LTR so you can't just "mentally downgrade" her now. Read up on dread game and start using it.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 07:12 AM
2

You owe her nothing and your setting yourself back staying in contact. You gave her two weeks, now move on and stop responding. She'll figure it out.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:53 AM
2

Next.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:56 AM
1

You don't get to indirectly slide into that pussy, why does she get to slide into the LTR role?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 03:12 AM
3

She had her period a week and a half ago and you're worried about stomach pains and a sweet tooth. It doesn't even sound like she's worried about being pregnant, so why are you? Chicks complain about stomach pains and want sweets all time.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:46 AM
3

She has no interest in you. Your words. Move on.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:09 AM
12

wtf is that shit. Oneitis.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 02:55 AM
9

username does not check out.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:11 AM
10

Always assume attraction.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 06:28 AM
9

When they start talking about leaving the club with you man. This was an easy finger roll layup and you Mutombo'd yourself lol.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:48 AM
1

Movies are complete shit for dates, especially the first couple of dates. I would prefer to do literally anything else than take a girl i'm trying to get to know to a movie.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:55 AM
15

Definitely a red flag
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:31 AM
1

you can do snap stories right but you can also do them wrong Which is why the old guys you refer to tell you not to do it. You gain next to nothing for doing it "right" and you lose a fair bit doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 05:49 AM
1

also don't post yourself smoking weed you look like a dumbcunt doing that unless you a dealer. FTFY
/r/askTRP29/01/20 05:47 AM
2

That’s up to you. Clearly this has been bothering you for some time, trust your gut.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:44 AM
0

Sometimes you don't do anything. Nobody knows if she's cheating, but more importantly nobody (except for her) knows if she isn't. Don't be naive and think she isn't based on what she is telling you, just keep your eyes open and stop (if you are) thinking she's special and not like the rest. You can do everything right and still lose in the end because AWALT. Just recognize this as the giant fucking red flag that it is and proceed accordingly.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:47 AM
3

Badbot
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:36 AM
17

Now I'm no dummy and I honestly dont be believe she was cheating on me You don't know jack shit about what this girl is up to. You listened to her words and ignored her actions. Her actions are telling you she likes another guy enough to start crying at the thought of losing him. That should be reserved for you and you only. You did not play your cards right, this bitch should be walking.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:36 AM
1

You are posting this from another account now? Seriously, ask this fucking girl out instead of posting this shit every day for a week man.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 04:43 AM
1

I fail to see any other requirements for being ready for TRP. Because there quite obviously are no requirements. There's a reason why people say the same things here over and over again like: Don't talk about fight club Don't shit where you eat Text for logistics Etc. It's because it's the best strategy. You do whatever you want man, but you'll always have an uphill battle in front of you.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 08:01 AM
1

It doesn't mean they were ready for the red pill yet. If they found it on there own at a later date, it's possible this didn't happen.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:42 AM
2

There's a reason why this gets said over and over again... Let people find it for themselves, its the only way it really works and gets through to most people.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:30 AM
3

Why does it have to be either or? IMO it's best to wear different hats at different times.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:33 AM
2

I wouldn't buzz it yet. If it keeps getting worse then for sure, but might as well enjoy it while you still have it.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:22 AM
5

In picture one I couldn't even really tell you are dealing with a receding hairline in all honesty.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:02 AM
1

You work at a movie theatre, I wouldn't worry about shitting where I ate there. You won't be getting accused of rape lol, just keep it moving.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:12 AM
1

Ask her out again. If she swerves hard next.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:11 AM
1

This bitch sounds crazy. Be thankful she is showing you this side of her now and move on.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:09 AM
27

Your LTR just had a long romantic walk with another guy and you're worried about recovering? Maybe nothing happened now but something is brewing there, i'd be upping the dread level big time if not nexting.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 12:01 AM
3

What are your thoughts on this? Should I reply? She's definitely looking for comfort. I would reply something, quick and easy and then switch the topic of the conversation all together. "Hey don't worry about it, just find us a bar with some good wings we can meet at next time." Or something relevant to the two of you guys that you like to do. On the subject of her wanting a promotion, I would be willing to give her one once I see her again and she can prove she is worth it. Should i tell her th…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 07:55 AM
2

Does she really just want me to stop texting her? No Why does this message make me feel uneasy? Because she is touching on real emotions and is clearly pushing for a promotion. Am I reading too much into it? She has feelings for you, and doesn't like the texting every other day. She clearly wants more from you but is speaking in womenese. What should I respond? Stop texting this girl so much. Tell her you want to see her when you get in town and you'll be in touch. Then keep doing what you were …
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:16 AM
1

I usually text them saying I'll be at x meet me at y and they have class or some shit. Usually they'll be like I get out at x wanna meet up but I'll have class or some shit. What do It's good they are throwing an alternative time at you, that means they're interested. You just gotta work with them and find a time for both of you that works. Being busy definitely isn't a bad thing.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:45 AM
0

At 17 that's going to be much easier said then done. Quit trying to have your cake and eat it to, just break up and fuck more girls.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:37 AM
2

This is the ideal situation. She has no commitment from you and is smartly keeping her options open. She probably knows she isn't going to get that commitment from you (at least for right now) and doesn't want to seem like a slut if she meets "Mr. Right." That doesn't mean she is only looking for a beta, she could be looking for another upgraded Chad as well.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:30 AM
3

it's interesting because i know im her best option Thus why she is making you wait. She doesn't want to just fuck, she wants you to start providing. i said we wouldn't have sex Why the fuck would you say that? i was thinking just invite her straight over for dinner in a few days Do it. what do you guys think? Sounds like you are thinking and trying very hard to be alpha.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:26 AM
2

Who cares, just fuck her already.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:21 AM
2

While you were looking up telegony and microchimerism did you come across any articles about hypochondria?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:32 PM
1

She's definitely losing attraction, probably because she doesn't think you actually have the courage to ask. Just hit her up, you might surprise her and be able to build the attraction back up in person.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:57 AM
1

Because you waited too long to ask her out. Ask her out. If she says no move on and maybe means no. Quit wasting your time, shit or get off the pot. And don't half ass ask her out. Come up with a plan for a time and date and tell her to join you. If she's not available at that time, but proposes another then work with her. If she's busy with no alternate time or date mentioned, move on.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:39 AM
1

She matched with you. That means she's into you, just ask her out already.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:26 AM
6

Bitches be cray. Move on and keep fuckin.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:56 AM
186

It sounds like he's used to you being the Robin to his Batman, and now the roles are reversed. It happens when you start improving yourself, start growing your social circle more and don't look back.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:54 AM
11

You shouldn’t take shit from anyone, but you should respect the experience they possess.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:16 AM
6

Don’t go out of your way to not look at her, just think of and treat her like every non attractive woman in your life.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:13 AM
4

No pull it out and blatantly record her actions in front of her. This act alone should stop her from doing anything too stupid.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:34 AM
1

I've actually never had sex in my life before her outside of 3 hookers. I was depressed, anxious and basically rotting to death throughout my whole teens Do you love to be dramatic? You had sex with four women before you turned 21 regardless of paying for them or not. A LOT of guys can't say that and they aren't "rotting" like you are. You were all of those things because you are mentally weak, not because you weren't having sex. I didn't have sex until I was almost 19, I definitely wasn't rotti…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:07 AM
1

You have oneitis. Yes i've read this terrible fucking post you made full of the most beta shit I've read today. The only problems is I always initiate, but every time I see her even though I'm always the one initiating she showers me with affection and we usually fuck 2 times a day. This has been bothering me but things still seem to be working quite well. Stop worrying about her initiating, your a man and your job is to lead her. If she's down to meet up on your time, and fucks you good stop be…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:47 AM
9

3 months isn't the end of the world, you really sound like a soft little bitch. You've had a setback and it happens to literally everyone. Do you think (insert your favorite tennis player here) never had a setback in his life?? Use this to make yourself even stronger and better. You know what to do, you've been doing it the last 3 months you said. You are the only one that can control how you feel, suck it up and put in the work.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:32 AM
6

Sounds like you got your first taste of a highly interested girl. You approached in an honest and genuine way that wasn't some canned PUA line, and hit if off with her. My best success stories have come the exact same way and it was really eye opening for me too. I'll never forget the first time I had a girl super into me, it was so refreshing and honestly eye opening because I saw some of the mistakes (or things I didn't really like or enjoy) she was making and recognized that I was always doin…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:26 AM
15

I'd suggest talking it out is the last thing he should do. She will say what he wants to hear and gaslight him the entire time, it sounds like that's already what she's trying to do. If he brings it up again, she will know it's bothering him and use that against him.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:16 AM
27

Or I could keep her on and decrease investment while I secure new plates? This is your best move IMO. Do you know if she has even for sure booked the trip and put money down? Lots could happen between now and then, but I would start lining up other plates and making an exit strategy sooner then later.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:13 AM
4

great me and you will have a horrible time next weekend at x place" The perfect response. If I had any gold it would be yours.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:09 AM
3

You gotta give it a little bit of time. After a 30 minute recharge you should be good to go again. If not you have other problems.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:06 AM
1

Am I being a retard even considering gaming her? If she can effect your career in any way shape or form, yes.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:04 AM
2

Don't say shit.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:30 AM
54

Save every text message and piece of evidence you possible have and get the fuck away from this girl ASAP. If you are around her and she pulls this shit again pull your phone out and start recording everything.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:29 AM
0

Hey you do you. I'm pretty close in age to this guy and also live in Canada, this whole fucking post is cringe to me. Edit: Jesus I just realized I have friends in Burlington Ontario with girls that age lol.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:33 AM
2

Whatever time works best for you. 7:30-8ish usually works best for me, and it's late enough in the evening to expect that your date would have already eaten so you aren't having to pay for a meal.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:56 AM
7

I lost 50 pounds last year and started really loving the attention I was getting from people because of it. My family, coworkers, friends, pretty much anyone that saw me regularly would pay me compliments, ask what I did to lose weight and in general treat me better. I started struggling with this too, and even took a few pics of myself in my old pants showing off the new waist line. But every time I want to post a pic like that I think of all those douchey posts I saw other people make doing th…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:53 AM
3

See if you can arrange some cheaper activities for these dates. If she is only into seeing you at very pricey venues then that would be an easy next.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:37 AM
2

3 date rule is a common thing girls have. For sex maybe, not a kiss.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:36 AM
5

Way she goes man, if that is the case just hope she boomerangs back eventually. Trust your gut for sure.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:35 AM
3

She's running FDS game on you for sure. 3 dates for a kiss? How many for a fuck?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:32 AM
13

Watch her actions and not her words, sounds like your turn is coming up on the end of the road. There's a chance she's sick for sure, but my money is on another guy entering the equation. Just proceed and hit her up like usual, if you keep getting no's without another time suggested you know what the deal is.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:30 AM
1

Treat it like any other shit test.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 03:22 AM
6

No matter what you say between now and Tuesday you have a high probability for a flake, it's just too much time. This chick is more than likely going to be racking up matches and you'll move down the priority list. Make sure you have a backup plan for Tuesday, and don't get your hopes up.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 03:21 AM
1

3 Is very solid advice.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:31 AM
3

Fuck man you keep coming here and posting about this chick. It's getting frustrating to read man. Apparently she told him that I have sex tapes of her, and he laughed and said ah yes he probably masturbates watching the videos. Bro if my girlfriend told me her ex has sex tapes I’d be out the door. I call BS on this. You've been posting about this chick for weeks, if she told you her now current fiance has videos you'd be back here posting again about it. Also because I know she “loves” me or is …
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:42 AM
8

Fuck no, the correct move is to move on from this chick. This will be a problem you will have to fight over for the rest of this kids life. My niece is 11 years old and she still fucking only eats mac and cheese because my brothers baby mama lets her do that shit. This Christmas I had to end up making her mac and cheese after the family made a huge turkey dinner with all sides. If you HAVE to stay with this girl and make it work you are going to have to do a better job of accepting this kid thou…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:55 AM
3

Happy new year! Lets grab some drinks this weekend
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:45 AM
2

You should've just kept her as a plate. I give no fucks about the morals my plates have, as long as they aren't nasty hoes.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:44 AM
2

My question is how should I go about trying to make moves or should I just pass given the age difference. She likes you, yes you should bang her. Keep being you, and doing what you've always done. If you start changing for her, you won't be who she liked anymore. Just know it's only your turn and enjoy the ride while it lasts.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:42 AM
5

Should I just give up on trying to find an LTR? Yes. Stop trying to find an LTR, look for people you can spend time with. If you can spend time with a chick, actually enjoy spending time with that chick, and gives you what you need then start thinking about a relationship.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:36 AM
3

we share the same politcal views to the T, and i’m her second body. Those are terrible reasons to stay in a sexless relationship. How does one become someone's second body? Regardless stop looking at it like giving up, and look at it like moving on. Which is what you need to do.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:34 AM
4

Have you looking into intermittent fasting at all?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:48 AM
4

She claims that she doesn’t have time for a relationship and thinks I deserve someone better. You were trying too hard to be a nice guy and clearly had feelings for this girl. Feelings she didn't share for you, or didn't gain as fast as you did. she doesn’t have much free time. At all. So I’m confused whether or not she’s being serious Watch her actions and not her words. If she wanted to be with you, she'd be with you. How the fuck are you supposed to get over someone in 3 weeks if you ever rea…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:46 AM
5

Keep carrying on like before.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:33 AM
6

But how can I get over being so stupid to fall for Oneitis when i should have known better? Stop being so hard on yourself and use this as a learning lesson. Don't make the same mistakes twice. Has this happened to any of you guys? It happens to pretty much every single person. Is pain and heartbreak necessary to burn this information into your soul and kill the beta? Yes. Exactly. Will i be better from this experience? As long as you learn from this and continue to improve absolutely.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:27 AM
1

Well that's not at all what option C says at all. You talk about "continue pursuing a relationship" as if you have already been pursuing it, and you mention getting your hopes up for a relationship. You don't do that 1 month in.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:09 AM
1

Why are you considering an LTR with a girl you've only known a month and haven't had sex with yet? And why are you still considering LTR'ing this girl when she's posting pictures snuggling with guys who aren't you??? Seriously, you and this whole post are about as beta as it gets. Read the sidebar and don't bring this guy up around her ever. Get her on the third date, kino, escalate and smash.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:01 AM
2

Seriously, she sounds like a terrible human being.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:20 AM
11

You shouldn't care about what this bitch thinks. You are trying to take care of and improve yourself, if she's got a problem tell her to hit the roads. You'll find higher quality girls if you keep improving and forget all about this one.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:12 AM
6

OP exactly this, you're good. When she does eventually reach out act like her freak out never happened.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 02:32 AM
5

You are her orbiter. Let her go. And in the future never ever talk about kissing, (or "suggest kissing in a funny way") it's something that should happen. You should be applying kino, escalating, and then going for it.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:20 AM
1

Relationships are just TRP on hard mode. If you want one, don't let the internet stop you.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:12 AM
6

Did I just disown her and erase our entire relationship? Stop thinking about something that clearly belongs in a burning dumpster.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:39 AM
1

This needs to be higher up.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:43 AM
1

Did she know your friends before you she met you? If so she's not obliged to invite you to everything just because you've been talking for two weeks. If she met them through you, hard next the lot of them.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:39 AM
7

Shady but the content of the messages are good. Watch for other red flags but that alone wouldn't be a next for me personally. At least not yet.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 07:15 AM
1

Well said. Your parents usually gain much more respect for you after you start living on your own successfully for a while as well.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:17 AM
0

Don’t give her your full availability ever. Just invite her to something at a particular time and place, like “drinks at (whatever bar close to your place) Friday night.” Or whatever you want to do, just make it somewhere and something you can escalate and apply kino. Obviously a yes is what you want. A maybe is a no, and a no without any alternate date means she’s not interested and you should move on.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:57 PM
2

“aren’t you leaving too?” Yeah, you coming with me?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:37 PM
9

Don't worry about it. If she loses interest in you over that she wasn't very interested in the first place.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:18 AM
5

How did she respond?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:06 AM
2

You should have included this part in your main post. Fuck yes you should cut your losses here, you should have done that the moment she stopped wanting to have sex with you. You are way too young to be considering marriage, and when you stop having sex in a relationship the relationship dies. Move the fuck on and don't look back.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:14 AM
11

She is trying to put you right back into orbit. Ignoring it would be your best bet.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:05 AM
2

Trickle truth is a real thing and you should definitely trust your gut. With that said I would just keep my eyes open for more red flags before hard nexting.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:15 AM
1

No worries, good luck
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:12 AM
1

If you have a habit of double texting that's an issue, but if you keep it to logistics at least in the second text you shouldn't have much to worry about.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:04 AM
1

The same thing you say to girls with 100's of pics man. This shit isn't hard and you don't need to use shitty PUA lines.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:57 AM
11

Your plate didn't break, she's waiting for you to lead her. Don't ever expect a girl to make plans, even if she says she wants to or that she will. If you want to see her Saturday, hit her up with plans. Stop expecting girls to lead you, you need to lead them always.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:55 AM
7

If it is then I must not be normal. In my 30’s with zero urge to have kids.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 05:19 AM
14

Username does not check out.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 05:18 AM
0

If it bothers you, don't let it show to anyone. Learn to not give a fuck about stupid bitches and what they have to say or think.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:51 AM
8

Why is this chick still tryna start shit with me??? Because she's a petty bitch. Why did it bother you enough to post about this bitch? Just maintain frame and don't let bitches get in your head.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:29 AM
2

Don't
/r/askTRP02/01/20 12:23 AM
1

While giving kino and escalating along the way.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 12:05 AM
1

That's like me asking you to netflix and chill when EVERYBODY knows what that means. No it's like you asking someone to netflix and chill and then when they get there asking them if they brought a TV or device you could then watch netflix on. It's fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 02:03 AM
1

That's just dumb, no matter how aloof you are about it.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:57 AM
1

Jesus 24 is not old age and it's never too late to start improving yourself. You are clearly blue pilled with red pill goals in mind.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:56 PM
3

Are you inviting these chicks to chill and smoke and then saying you don't have any weed when you meet them?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:52 PM
7

Even with no overlap this girl can still find a way to fuck you over, create drama, and make your life hell. Don't shit where you eat and for the love of fuck don't hit her up through her company email, slide into her DM's on another platform like the rest of the creeps do if that's your MO.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:49 PM
11

Not every tinder girl bangs on the first date. Sounds like it's up to you to decide if its over.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:57 PM
3

I’ve tried pulling away, which does nothing as LTR doesn’t seem to care Dread is definitely the right play. Up the dread even further, make yourself busy the next time she asks to hang out. Go to the gym more frequently, talk to other girls, etc. Be prepared to next this girl, it sounds like she isn't interested and if that's the case she's probably looking for or found the next branch she's looking to swing to. All the time with her friend is giving her the opportunity.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:34 AM
3

would you see her value as much less even if you KNEW she definitely wants an LTR and is not seeing other people? Yes because there is no way to KNOW what she wants. She doesn't even know what the fuck she wants and you can't make a hoe a housewife.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:55 AM
1

Exactly this. My first thought was "Damn you must have a huge pussy then!" but I like your first one better.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:37 AM
1

Her pussy must have been gushing when she read that, I can't believe she deleted it! Seriously that was easily the worst response you could have had, you were butthurt AF. Next time agree and amplify, or pressure flip... or just don't send nude pics to chicks. Read the side bar, specifically the part about shit tests, all the info you need is there for you.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:34 AM
1

She's trying to get you to validate yourself to her and it's working as you are clearly in her frame. If you know you've got a big dick why is anything this girl is saying getting to you? This is some elementary shit.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:07 AM
4

How about a million dollars in the bank by 30?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:52 PM
5

So my(23) girlfriend(22) for 6 months moved to another city to focus on her studies. In this city, she has no friends and feels very lonely. This is why you don't do long distance relationships. She has a guy best friend (Mark) who she knows for 5-6 years and feels like they're sincerely good friends. She once lived with this guy for 3 days at his place where he tried to make a move on her but she refused (not when we were dating). She keeps beta orbiters, and keeps in touch with guys that clear…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:56 AM
6

Wow my guy, i'm furious reading this shit. How are you buying any of her bullshit?? She cheated on you emotionally AND physically. If the shoe was on the other foot she wouldn't even consider talking to you, why are you entertaining any of this bullshit? You should have told her to take a hike the moment she said she was having another guy that tried to get intimate in the past live with her for 4-5 days. What the hell did you think was going to happen?? Seriously, this whole this is fucked and …
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:40 AM
13

Yes you should. Needing time to work on herself meant she found another guy she would rather spend her time with. Keep improving, don't set yourself back by reaching out to her again.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:34 AM
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I also feel like if we never rolled the dice with a girl who had the potential to cheat that would eliminate 95%+ of girls. That's the idea. 95% of women are not relationship material, and this girl falls in that category. If she cheated on him, she'll cheat on you. You also only know her side of the story, don't take her reasons at face value. Chances are there are other red flags you are ignoring, or haven't seen yet. I would not think about promoting a plate that admitted to cheating on her e…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:31 AM
1

Ignore it completely.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:45 AM
3

Basically when he said that's weird I just continued like he hadn't said anything Perfect, keep doing this. Next time I'm thinking of saying something like "takes no energy to be a lazy skeptic". I could just destroy him verbally with insults Breaking frame won't help. If these people are in your social circle get better friends, coworkers or randoms on the street keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:16 AM
1

Just be more careful about what you leave laying around and you'll be fine. If she finds a stack of books all about depression you'll have some actual questions to answer.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:07 AM
12

Is that a red flag? It 100% is if you're considering promoting her. Keep this girl purely a plate and you have nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:53 AM
1

Just went and found your previous post. I'm curious what you think you saw when you saw her "Hymen split" lol. Any girl that sends nudes to 100-200 guys is obviously no virgin. Sounds like you learned a less at least.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:48 AM
3

Jesus Christ stop calling her your ex boo. Don't reply, and don't dig through the trash that is a past relationship. Bang her friends instead.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:42 AM
0

Gain some abundance and take her off the pedestal.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:17 AM
2

Exactly this. Her maybe was an in but OP couldn’t lay off the fake alpha and killed it.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:44 AM
2

I know the reputation of that place is shit, but if the closest one wasn't a 5 hour drive from my place i'd still consider it. I pay $28 bi-weekly for mine and is really the only option for a decent gym. Only other option where I live is about $70 a month.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:19 AM
1

Move on and find another unicorn if that's your strategy. Just don't expect anyone else to follow your example because most guys don't think of women as "fuck toys" if they don't see marriage immediately with them like you seem to.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:08 AM
1

Okay. She's a 9 unicorn that has a great personality, no red flags, blah blah blah. Then what straight to marriage, white picket fence, 2.5 kids etc? No you fuck and figure out if you're compatible in that part of the relationship as well.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:54 AM
3

How do you know you want to be in a committed long term relationship with someone without sex though? There's a reason people don't wait until marriage to have sex these days.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:48 AM
8

Women are going to do what they want, just like men do what we want. There going to have sex regardless of what we think or do, and they obviously have much more access to it then men do. I'm only one person, and can only raise her n-count by one. One sexual partner will not turn a housewife into a hoe like you seem to be saying. If she continues to fuck guys after me continuing to raise that count and "damage" herself then that's on her.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:43 AM
7

I don't need sex. It's enjoyable, but nutting drains my energy. Then why are you posting in a sub dedicated to male sexual strategy?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:24 AM
9

Jesus i'd love to find a decent gym that only charges $10 a month.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:20 AM
8

24 hour gyms are where it's at.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:00 AM
6

not sure if this makes her an LTR or not but it’s definitely not an exclusively relationship. Then it's not an LTR. I’m annoyed but I’m not pissed. And she noticed that almost immediately. As soon as she gets in the car I tell her to tell me what happened. How did she get so caught up when she had so much time leading up to the party... You were asking for her to take responsibility for her actions. Most women will never do this, even if you approached with a neutral tone. and then tries to flip…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:58 AM
3

Look at her actions, not her words. Her actions are clearly showing you she isn't interested.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:32 AM
1

No problem. The whole point of a soft next like this is to discipline her. If she's messaging you with ultimatums instead of apologies or expressing some kind of concern or regret for her actions, chances are she's going to keep pissing you off. Don't put up with it.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 07:05 AM
3

You're 19, you haven't failed at anything yet. Stop feeling bad for yourself and start working on all those things. Start by getting off your electronics going outside and talking to people. Figure out what matters to you and start working towards getting whatever that is.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:49 AM
1

40+ is definitely high, but the main concern with high body count is pair bonding. From what you describe that really doesn't sound like an issue. If her pussy is clean, you have no other options, and she is treating you the way she does stop obsessing over it. No good ever comes from asking that question.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:47 AM
1

You sound like an incel.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:44 AM
0

The Weeknd
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:41 AM
3

If you're enjoying her company and presence, and she is positively effecting your life then just go along with it IMO. You aren't really investing anything, and it sounds like you're getting a pretty good deal out of it. The moment this stops being the case, or you find another girl more worthy of your time then move on.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:40 AM
1

Good luck on your virgin hunt then. More pussy for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:33 AM
6

You're on the right track, but that could come off creepy depending how you delivered it. "One time that you know of" with a grin and a wink maybe. Handle it like a shit test, and there's lots of advice on shit tests in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:31 AM
5

If she sent you that message today, she was expecting a response from you today. If you act nonchalant about it and proceed like nothing happened and reach out to her when you feel like, she's still in your frame. If she acts like a bitch when you reach out you better be prepared to walk away.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:25 AM
1

Are you seriously going to limit yourself to virgins the rest of your life?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:22 AM
3

Delete all that shit about your ex and don't ever post bull shit like that on social media ever again.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:20 AM
6

Agree and amplify, then go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:18 AM
2

Would I enter her frame if I complied with her ultimatum? Yes. Should I continue this soft next? If you set a 3 day soft next, you should stick to 3 day soft next. Is the cycle complete? It's complete when you say it's complete. What's my next move? Hit her up when you feel like it and act normal like nothing happened. When she asks where you've been tell her you're busy and change the topic.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:17 AM
1

That was sarcasm... This is a really terrible low quality post that belongs on r-slash-relationships and does not deserve a real answer.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:34 AM
3

You just gotta own it like a man and apologize sincerely. I'd go for a replacement lighter as well, but be prepared for her to dislike it no matter how equal/unique/sweet it is. Shit happens and that's really all you can do at this point. Unless it's got some kind of crazy deep sentimental value, she should accept and move on. If she doesn't than that's a sign you need to consider doing that.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:08 AM
2

I barely get to see her and it's starting to annoy me Being needy is a terrible quality. Why do you have to see her so bad? It's not like she's dating other guys or anything. She's legitimately preoccupied with work. Sure she's not. I can't ask to see her more often without coming across as needy. Then stop being so fucking needy. Not sure what to do... Stop being so damn needy and gain some abundance. You aren't exclusive with this girl, find some other women to spend time with. It seems counte…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:59 AM
0

Sex clubs are a really good starting place.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:47 AM
1

Should I try to make amends with P? Give P, E and V all a break. Make yourself seen as little as possible by all of them. It's possible this coming shit storm can blow over, but it's not likely if you keep up with the status quo. Should I not go out at all to avoid drama? This is exactly what you should do. How fucked am I? Very. STOP FUCKING ALL THESE GIRLS! Stop drinking with your coworkers, it sounds like you have a good job and need to be professional. Find a new routine and get some friends…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:43 AM
2

If she actually liked me, wouldn't she make herself available to hang out? Yes of course. You have your answer, she's not as interested as you think. Is she wanting me to ask her out again more directly, rather than me having her let me know when she is free? Who cares, you've shot your shot 3 times and you still don't have a date. Time to move on. If she genuinely likes me, will she take it upon herself to let me know when she is free? She would have done that by now. Move on. I genuinely like …
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:25 AM
4

Did i give my self up too easily with the dick pic, and sabotage my hookup? You either lost her attraction through your conversation, or her game all along was to get your dick pic and bounce. I don't know the real TRP stance on this one, but i'll never send a dick pic fucking ever. I'd keep it moving and if she reaches out, text purely logistics from here on out.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:21 AM
19

Having a strong frame and leading while never expecting girls to take the lead. Not asking when there available, giving them a time and place. Not telling them to text me when they are available, telling them i'll text them when i'm available. Abundance mentality was another huge one.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:15 AM
30

She knows nothing about me or my whereabouts except my Snapchat. Ghost mode activated
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:02 AM
8

Between the two of us, who is correct? Neither of you. You *and your friend need the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 04:05 AM
1

Do I respond? Is this even worth it? Only you can decide if its worth it or not but you've clearly got an uphill battle in front of you. She's looking for comfort from you and it sounds like you've played your cards well to this point. I'd probably tell her not to worry about it and then line up some other dates putting this one on the back burner for a bit.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:48 AM
3

Her tinder date probably bitched out and didn't lead her to sexy time. Fuck her good.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:29 AM
17

Not shitting where you eat is one of the core tenets around here because this kind of things ALWAYS happens. Hopefully you learned a lesson and never make a stupid decision like this again.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:46 AM
2

If you are following the 3/2 rule as close as possible, sending a double text every once and a while shouldn't hurt the attraction with an LTR.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:43 AM
2

Should I be pissed? Of course not, she's a plate after all right? If she's truly a plate, you should both be fucking other people. If you aren't fucking other people and she is, you gotta work on that. Just hit her up when you want to bang next and pretend this never happened. Just be mindful of this whenever she approaches exclusivity with you.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:35 AM
2

Don't beat yourself up dude, AWALT. You definitely learned a harsh lesson, use it as motivation to improve yourself and start spinning plates.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 02:08 AM
2

You're cucking yourself making excuses for her shitty behaviour. Would you ever "slip up" telling her that you had a girl in your bed? Probably not. Do you think girls have guys over sleeping in there beds that there not fucking around with? Again probably not. Hypergamy is a bitch and when she told you about this guy she was showing you the next branch she was swinging on to.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:53 AM
4

You did fine, blocking her was the right thing to do. She knew what she was doing with that slip up, you better believe that was intentional. It's fucked up that she hopped on the CC so fast, but AWALT and you know if the shoe was on the other foot and you were the one with someone in your bed she would be upset as well. Honestly you could have done without any of the texting, I would have ignored everything she had to say after her phone "glitched out." Hit the gym, game other bitches and don't…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:39 AM
2

Don't lie, just don't answer directly. Say something like "first time at a party" or "first time on a concrete floor" or "first time with a (whatever color hair she has)". Or just straight up don't reply to that. Definitely don't tell her straight up.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:12 AM
2

If you give it a week you'll show her you aren't thirsty, and it gives her a chance to think about and reach out to you. If she doesn't reach out in a week its not a good sign, but i'd take a hail mary chance and ask her out one more time. Just try to set plans a day or two out and have a backup plan in case she flakes. If it's a no without any mention of an alternate day or time then next.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:09 AM
8

You triggered her ASD when you asked. Don't ask next time, lead.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 12:39 AM
1

I never said they were the same thing. If you follow TRP and get laid regularly than you really don’t care about or receive super powers from not jerking off.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:22 PM
12

If you have sex regularly, which is the goal of TRP, not jerking off makes no difference. I have sex a few times a week and if I get the urge to jerk off I will, then I go back to living the exact same life. If I were in your shoes OP with some drunk stinky guy sitting at my table I wouldn't have a problem telling him where to go even if I just jerked off in the bathroom at Wetherspoons 5 minutes prior. Nofap is very much a placebo, and some guys need that absolutely but it doesn't give you supe…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:31 AM
11

Regardless of whether or not you text first, quit spending entire days with tinder thots if you want them to chase after you.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 04:25 AM
6

$3500 to skip 2 years of agony sounds like a deal. I'd be grinding as hard as I could to save that money and get things looked after so I could be banging unhindered again.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:54 AM
2

OP do this and stop talking to everyone else about this immediately. The more you say the more trouble you can get yourself into.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:38 AM
3

OMG can confirm. I would never with a ONS anyways, but that seals the deal.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:26 AM
13

So my question is would it be better to be confrontational with her Never do this with a chick or should I just play dumb all together and act unfazed by the games she’s playing? Bingo.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:19 AM
2

You're a fucking idiot. Stop shitting where you eat immediately.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:18 AM
15

Find someone else. Don't ever agree to a break again, if she's not banging that guy you don't like you know she's doing some emotional cheating and lining up that next branch to swing to. If you get back together things will only be good for a short time and then go back to shit again, move on.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:12 AM
10

Is it common to chat up girls, then just blow them off and jerk it instead of going out and getting laid? No, no I don't think it is.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:52 AM
16

Why don't you just message her and find out rather than asking strangers on the internet?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:50 AM
1

Yes and its not worth it. It's easy to go back to beta tendencies with people you've been beta around in the past.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:21 AM
1

Nowhere in this post have you mentioned being with any other girls, which means your frame is more than likely still shit. If you go back and try with that girl your frame will more than likely break again. Don't do it. Go game some other women, you'll be better off.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:14 AM
1

But I'm just confused why she still sees in me and why she continues to stay in contact. Attention. You are her orbiter and she's using you for the attention you continue to give her.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 07:48 AM
1

Saved
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:45 AM
1

shes just really so feminine it feels so good to always have 24/7 acess to a feminine bitch u can fuck whenever Imagine what it would feel like if you had TWO of these girls? Put in the work you lazy fuck, there's lots of girls out there like this. Kinda worried ill have trouble finding a feminine one like her again Have you even tried? Question i now have is should i block her of everything? This girl isn't the problem. It's your weak-ass mentality mixed with full blown oneitis. You shouldn't b…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:57 AM
11

Do you have a question? Stop digging through the trash that is a past relationship, and if you are serious about "working on yourself" why the fuck haven't you stopped drinking yet?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:35 AM
0

Don't give the ghost any attention whatsoever. Literally treat her like a ghost that you can't see. If she approaches and talks to you give her the absolutely bare minimum amount of attention possible.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:31 AM
2

A woman who truly wanted a relationship to work wouldn't do this. They know its shitty behaviour, and chances are she wouldn't put up with you speaking with a plate/ex. If nothing else some heavy dread should be applied, if not a hard next but whatever you do don't try to talk to her about it.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:49 AM
5

is there any TRP advice on flipping a situation like this? Move on and game other women.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:39 AM
8

Watch her actions and not her words. Her actions are telling you she's into you, and it's very obvious. Obvious enough that you haven't read the sidebar. Listen to her friend and your friends and leave this crazy bitch alone. This post absolutely reeks of scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:38 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:35 AM
12

Red flag confirmed. Regardless if she's cheating, will cheat, or has thought about cheating, she knows your not cool with it and continues to do it. That's disrespect and shouldn't be tolerated in an LTR, let alone a girl you're contemplating marriage with. That's a pattern of behaviour that will repeat itself, trust your gut.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:31 AM
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She's tired of getting pumped and dumped by Chads for now. She settles for a beta for a while, then gets sick of him and rides the CC again. Rinse and repeat until she gets knocked up by Chad, or hits the wall and settles for a provider.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 03:48 AM
1

If you're going to try anything with them invite them out for a drink/activity without using that trash line, and if you get more flakes move the fuck along. You've been talking to these women for 6-12 months, you should have moved on 5-11 months ago. I'm just being direct with what I want Women don't do direct. That's good with your bros, but absolute shit with women.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 02:37 AM
1

Don't worry about it. She was clearly looking for all your time and attention which she doesn't deserve. A safer bet for a girl that isn't so needy would have been inviting her out for a drink near your place (or coffee/dessert if underage) and then relocate things to your place after you've spent some time applying kino and escalating.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:33 AM
4

I’m trying to keep my cool and deflect it with how she doesn’t want to know about the girls I see regularly in my city. You're breaking frame here and showing her it upsets you. Stop doing that ASAP as the more she knows it bugs you, the more she is going to keep doing it. What should I do to assert dominance and get her to quit shit testing me about other guys? Withdraw your attention. Go cold and maker her earn it.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:55 AM
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I think you're title is a little misleading unless you're referring to society in general. TRP is all about doing whatever it takes to make yourself the best version of yourself including improving your looks to the highest level possible.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:48 AM
4

Find activities that interest you and lead them along with you. Could be almost anything if you are confident in what you're doing, doesn't necessarily need to be a traditional date idea. Lately i've gotten into Archery and have taken a few chicks with me and it's always ended up great as it gives you lots of opportunity to Kino and escalate. Other times i'll invite them over to play Mario Kart. Just do whatever interests you with them, although I wouldn't be taking them to the gym or MMA class.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:03 AM
1

Any way to approach this? You shouldn't. It's sounds like you have a real scarcity mindset mixed with oneitis for a clear whore. But if you're going to anyways, tell her (I mean tell her, don't pussy foot around and ask when she's available or to let you know when she's available) to come over one night and watch a movie. Chances are she balks at that, but if she doesn't apply kino and escalate when you get the chance. If she refuses your advances then you have to next.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:38 AM
2

Fair enough, though it's not easy to wade through all the BS on that sub to find anything even remotely of value. The hatred of men far outweighs anything else in that sub. I know TRP isn't a whole lot better, but I legit believe a majority of this sub doesn't hate women, but are more angry with them and the bullshit lies we're fed by society. FDS is worth skimming through, but it's easy to drown in BS there too.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:24 AM
3

I understand your point. My point is that's fucking non-sense and any "high value man" aka Chad with any sort of backbone wouldn't put up with FDS strategy. TRP strategy is to understand there biological point of view and use it to our advantage, FDS strategy completely ignores that aspect.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:10 AM
4

I think the hypocrisy of it all is my favourite part. The wall isn't real, (insert somewhat attractive celebrity in there late 40's) looks great for her age. Not understanding that "for her age" is establishing that she is well past the wall and that most women aren't anywhere near that attractive at that age. Then they rip on a guy like George Clooney who they would all fuck in a heartbeat.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:05 AM
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How exactly do they expect to get and keep a "high value man" that some seem to genuinely want with tactics like that? That's why I disagree its the female equivalent of TRP. TRP strategy is to fuck the shit out of her so she enjoys it so much she comes back again and again without commitment which actually makes some sense.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:57 AM
7

so I know when it’s time to ghost if a girl ever does it to me. Exactly this. I saw a plate of mine like this shitty meme on instagram, then later that night I saw the same meme was the top post on FDS. I realized then that she was also either directly or indirectly running FDS game and immediately ghosted.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:46 AM
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I've been lurking it for a bit since I saw a post here about it. They preach about leveling up and attracting high value men, but the "strategies" they share will only ever work on weak beta types. It's like they read the red pill and have seen some of the actual strategies we share and have success with, and say fuck that if a man ever does any of these things he's low value and don't accept it. Meanwhile any man with a shred of dignity would ghost these bitches the moment they try to pull some…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:30 AM
3

Hit her up with a reply like, "Then let's meet up. Saturday night, 8pm at ____." If she balks or flakes, hard next.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:08 AM
1

I've been with two girls who dropped this bomb. One I was already in a relationship with just brought it up in a normal adult way after we had been together for about 6 months. She felt it was important that I knew that, and in a way it brought us closer together as the weight was off her shoulder knowing that I was okay with it and I was one of only a few people that actually knew about it. It didn't change a thing between us, and I just kept that in mind and really just avoided the topic of ra…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:14 AM
10

Why would she want to be with a boy when she can be with a man?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:56 AM
1

Obviously had something/someone more important come up and clearly shows how much respect she has for you. Either hard dread or next.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:46 AM
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