Self-esteem question

tripmepls · 2019-12-05T21:21:54+00:00

Meditate, self-reflect, and find a way to truly understand yourself. Everyone has insecurities, but very few people actually understand them. You have to understand your insecurities to control them.

JimmyHILFIGER · 2019-12-05T21:53:32+00:00

It's internal, the only person who can change it is yourself, look deep into yourself, aknowledge flaws and strenghts but remain emotionally detached.

Domebeers · 2019-12-05T22:51:51+00:00

I want you to write a list of the things that make you insecure.

Revisit the list the next day. There are things on that list that you have put off 'till tomorrow' for forever now. Those things you can take action on. There will be things on that list that you can't control. Recognize you can't control it.

Inner peace is much harder. They say there have been like 9 buddhas in our age. That's 9 people out of billions. It's made up, it's not real. You can find moments but if you find out how to achieve it all the time, please let the rest of us know.

Dragolet · 2019-12-06T03:03:05+00:00

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Zombiespire · 2019-12-06T04:12:00+00:00

I know you would want a direct reply, but I got something good. In Joshua Pellicer's book The Tao of the Badass his second chapter goes in length about confidence, and how you can perceive yourself with higher esteem logically. Literally changed my life in weeks, look into that.

Dragolet · 2019-12-05T21:56:39+00:00

Is there any literature to read?

Title	Self-esteem question
Author	Dragolet
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	December 5, 2019 9:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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