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How are we any different then for going to the gym?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:55 AM
1

What's your problem? Aren't I agreeing with you?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:45 AM
1

Sorry Goldberg, it's a White Goy Summer now.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:45 AM
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I am so sorry this happened to you. From what I can see you did basically nothing wrong and nearly everything right. Perhaps this Instagram thing was the root of it all, but how could you have hoped to prevent it? Shelter her from it? Lash out and restrict her freedoms causing you to lose frame? Monitor her communications? Take away her phone? Honestly what could you have done within reason and sanity? This story genuinely breaks my heart, and it hurts to say this, but all that can be said is yo…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:47 AM
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It's 3 SETS of 10. Reps means repetitions. I like the Kinobody Greek God Program. For weighifting, if you're going beyond 10 reps for all 3 sets, your weight is too low. You should always be operating in the 5-8 range. Make sure you start ALL the way at the bottom with the lightest weight so you learn how to perfect form and build a foundation for your body. If you don't you'll create imbalances and injuries and fuck yourself out of months of lifting.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:14 PM
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Act like a sociopath obviously.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:04 PM
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She's either telling you the truth, making it clear she-s not interested in cheating, if she was she wouldn't have mentioned it until after you've already fucked. If she's lying, that means she is going as far to lie to communicate she is not even slightly interested or open to changing her mind. I doubt you're George Clooney so there is little point in trying. Point being, it's a rejection. The real question is how to roll with a rejection gracefully.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 08:59 PM
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Sir this is a reddit on how to break up with people over the slightest infraction, not how to preserve relationships.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 08:53 PM
2

I don't give a fuck. It's my life, I'll use my gifts to pursue what I'm passionate about.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 08:37 PM
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To make enough money to send my kids to private school. To move people with my writing. To have a large and loving family. Everything I do down to doing hygiene every morning is to actualize these goals.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:09 PM
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When I was in the military I had a bunch of active friends who were constantly arranging outings with the boys. When I came home I realized all my old friends were complete hermits. Because they already have girls and one is engaged they literally don't care to do much of anything outside their house and it pisses me off to no end. Point being. Active friends who share your perspective are out there. Finding and friending them is the question.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:03 PM
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I can't add much to what everyone else already said but the science of it is objective. Women have a short fertility period, once they get to 40, the chance of birth defects and complications skyrocket. Then in their 50s they hit menopause and it's over. That's fact no matter how you look at it. The impact on the psychology of women then is obvious.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:59 PM
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I'm not even one of the guys here who says to next at the drop of a hat, but she changed her story on you like 5 times. Let's look at this objectively. She was definitely lying to you about something, without proof you can only speculate as to what, but she's lying to the one person she should be completely upfront with. Was ypur behavior stalkerish? Probably, it's debatable. But were you right? 100%. Whether or not she's innocent of any sin, this entire fiasco will likely irreparably damage the…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:53 PM
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You're completely right, once upon a time years ago, this reddit was about looking at reality without rose tinted glasses and reevaluating our lives to we could actualize our dreams and goals. Now it's a MGTOW cult, with the mirror reflection of the Feminazis we loved to criticize. All the advice you will get from from members of this reddit, no matter what position they may hold in this community or how "veteran" they are considered, is worthless 95% of the time. The sidebar is for the most par…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:37 AM
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That's the kind of thing you always play by ear. Having hard set rules for little shit like this is autism. It depends on region, how far each person had to drive, did each person drive to get there? Is she responding to texts or acting like a flake? Am I in a patient mood? Taking her personality into account. I have more than once been occupied with something longer than I anticipated before a date, so it's not unreasonable to assume it could happen with someone else. Point being, it depends ca…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:38 PM
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There are no women with rational political views unless their views are shaped by their boyfriends/husbands. There is never going to be an interaction with a woman that will benefit when you've never met, with them knowing we're far right ultra nationalist monarchist cyber nazis.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:21 PM
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I don't know a single person that goes to the gym besides people I see at the gym.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 11:00 AM
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Congratulations, you found out you're still human. Learn from that pain, don't cheat because it obviously doesn't make you feel good, it makes yoi feel terrible. I don't think your gf finding out is as inevitable as you think, even of it was, what bearing does it have? Are you trying to decide if you should confess before she finds out? What good would that do? She will be just as angry and heartbroken either way. My opinion is you should make it up to your LTR without telling her by being a bet…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:11 PM
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First actual redpilled advice I have seen in a very long time here.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:53 PM
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Clothes should be clean (no filth or tears), make sure it is the right size, I mean PERFECT size, do not compromise, go to a tailor if you have to. Assuming you are lifting, always get clothes that are slim fit or skinny fit. Slim fit everything if skinny is too much for you. Pants and shirts. Apply those fundamentals, and you have a lot of freedom on what you choose, work your way up from there. In my experience its the choice of shoes that make things too formal. And basic t-shirts/v-necks alo…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:26 PM
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Yes there is. There is a reason I developed shin splints, and there is a reason my fucked elbow has fucked me out of two months of lifting. Because I overdid it, went too hard.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 08:33 AM
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Doing taxes is easier, but that should be your CPA's problem anyway. You can still become a de facto husband and wife (move in together, declare life long loyalty, even have children) without getting legally married and being legally liable for the outcome of the marriage.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:24 PM
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Bro you're going to drive yourself crazy if you're that self conscious about everything. Your body language of your self conscious overthinking will then become a self fulfilling prophecy of you acting like a sperg. You need to learn how to be comfortable in your own skin, and also get used to recovering from embarrassing moments. How often do you see people stumble over their words until their sentence becomes gibberish and they have to start over because they're tired/scatter brained/it's Mond…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:52 AM
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Frequently consume new art or review art you've already consumed with an analytical scope, read books consistently both fiction and non-fiction. Read and learn about philosophy in general, about a variety of things. Always look to experience new things for the sake of experiencing them, to see if something eventually just clicks. Have you tried kayaking? Have you tried playing an instrument you're curious about? Have you tried volunteering anywhere? Most people are in a constant process of self-…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:43 AM
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We're in the same boat, I would say get as far as you can into getting the perfect body and making yourself as attractive as physically possible. That way when we get to our first classes, we can make the strongest first impression possible, and in my experience first impressions are ALWAYS king.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:32 AM
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I think you just met an insane person. I don't think this encounter is worth taking to heart.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:01 PM
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Dude I dig that giga chad pose in the 2nd pic, fucking awesome dude.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 08:13 AM
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Only way I see you stop being disgusted with yourself is resolve not to keep doing promiscious shit like that and confess to the Lord lol.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:26 AM
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Bro I feel you, I'm 23 and going in the Fall. I have pondered often if there is any chance I will mesh when it's likely going to be primarily post high school kids. I might have to try and tap in to my younger self a bit, but that challenge isn't unfamiliar. I went into Basic for Infantry at 20 roughly, and even that 2 year gap of real world experience put me on another planet as opposed to kids who transitioned from high school life directly to military life. Also the fact that in person classe…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:10 AM
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She's a horny teen, she'll come around eventually if you just apply your fundamentals. Escalate, pay attention to her signals and consider when you should back off, but escalate first before you make that call. If she doesn't want to bang you first week so what? She'll probably come around next week or the week after. If she's a virgin then that means she actually had the integrity to not be a whore up to this point which is VERY impressive for a woman. Also if she's truly a virgin, if you go th…
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:35 AM
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Bro I just got out of the Army and I cannot express how hyped I am to finally go back to a physical school and not be in sausage party hell. I am incapable of pondering how on Earth you would even consider online schooling. Do you not remember all those fucking times we had to go to the library to god damn Anti Terrorism 1 and "VA Benefits" on JKO for hours? HOW HAVE YOU FORGOTTEN?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:24 AM
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Calm down Brad Pitt from Once Upon a Time in Hollywood
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:19 AM
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Personally, I focus on my role models. I think of the mental anguish and misery they went through over the courses of their lives, and how they found the indomitable will to keep moving forward. I think of the way they visualize their goals and motivation and how it makes strength flow through them, enough strength to push through hell. ​ I think of the chapter on confidence in the book The Tao of Badass. I can't fit the whole chapter here or this would be a ginormous post, but I'll try to conde…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:29 AM
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I'm not blaming just men or women you fucking egg, how simple can you be? The psychological damage caused by meaningless and promiscuous sex cuts both ways, just because people don't realize the damage it does doesn't magically make it not exist. In the same way that pretending you don't have a brain or a liver doesn't make you immune to alcohol poisoning. I'm quite confident I am more familiar with cause and effect than you are since you just want to act like a degenerate.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:36 AM
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Fucking thank you. Also thank you for noting that this isn't just about women either.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:34 AM
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I'm not fucking white knighting, this literally cuts both ways. Also since when are we trusting women can be trusted to be adults and make responsible decisions? Slut shaming, religion, community pressure, etc. are the only things that keep women in check, certainly not their "maturity," "sense of responsibility," and certainly not their "rationality." Just because retarded hippies 50 years ago decided everyone should be a promiscuous degenerate does not mean we need to add to that problem.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:33 AM
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The fact you're too smoothbrained to comprehend how oxytocin works and sexual trauma doesn't mean it's disconnected.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:26 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:20 AM
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"Sex is consensual" So is the consumption of drugs and alcohol, that doesn't make it good for you. Just because young people are capable of making choices, does not mean they need any help in making poor choices, and if the factor of what is an ok choice or a poor choice depends on YOU, YOU have the power to leave a person better than when you found them. Is there any force that obligates you to do that? No, you can thank the sexual revolution for that, but we shouldn't interpret that as to be e…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:19 AM
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Public education is low quality brainwashing centers. Always keep your brain turned on, your guard up, and think for yourself.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:48 PM
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Keep a gun and a cell phone handy to call the police if they actually show up. Don't respond to his texts, ghost him and block his number. Don't go back to that venue. Unless he is autistic or psychotic, he's not going to spend his life tracking you down, and he can't find you with just a cell number. You are still mega sperg retarded though.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:40 PM
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The pump and dump of female virgins and berating them for being too clingy. That could have been your or someone's potential wife, and now you just ruined her and turned her into another modern shit woman who will go on to hit the wall or have poor relationships the rest of their lives. Great job asshole.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:36 PM
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If you're that curious, cultivate practical skills. Stock up on guns and ammunition for defense, stock up on food that lasts a long time, primarily canned food. Learn survival skills like how to grow food/hunt, marksmanship, starting a fire with minimal materials, learn how to work on your own car. There is too much to posdibly go over. Do your own research into doomsday preppers, there are books and guides on this.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:08 PM
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Funnily enough just had a girl thst seemed interested ghost me because I was doing this. I fucking hate Tinder
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:45 PM
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Remember all women are not equal to you. Read the Quran for encouragement, and no woman will intimidate you.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:44 AM
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It is literally as simple as stop watching porn and don't jerk off more than once a week, and imagination only, focus on girls you actually know.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:01 AM
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Boo fucking hoo you have a hot girlfriend what's the problem?
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:51 AM
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You can read a book for everything, doesn't mean you have to. I could suggest setting weekly quotas (goals) for yourself that are ultimately flexible but require completion. For example gym is a 3 day per week quota, meaning if you didn't go on Wednesday, then you absolutely have to go on Thursday and Saturday to catch up. There are books out there on time budgeting/management and discipline that I haven't had the chance to read, but shop around.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:53 PM
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Bro, if you can deal with all that, then more power to you. But I insist you keep your guard up for the duration of that relationship, because I really don't see it ending well. I HIGHLY advise against ever moving in with her.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:00 AM
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Truly the most nightmarish conundrum of all. The balance between settling into a career you are passionate about, and the reality of can you even make a career out of it? I do highly envy those who can cast off the chains of wealth and the rewards it can bring, because they are content with what they have.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:56 AM
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I feel you, but you're not safe here either. This echo chamber is simply less strict.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:53 AM
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"Self-improvement is nothing but masturbation, self-destruction however..." Everyone has to be drunk on something to keep pushing on. Here on TRP, at least in its culture, it's less about what you choose to strive towards and more about adhering to strict doctrine. If you dare want a wife and kids you're a bluepilled cuck, if you don't next women for the slightest infraction you're a cuck. With motives like these it seems the goal is not to better men, but just to ruin as many women as possible,…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:50 AM
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People come up with endless excuses for why they don't do what they should. Most people don't go to the gym because they think they don't have time, many don't cook healthy food because they think they don't have time. Probably the majority of introverts do not go out most weekends to socialize, meet people, and grow their social muscle because they're convinced that weekend HAS to be reserved for such a "rough" week. For almost every matter of time in existence, there is almost ALWAYS two expla…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:25 AM
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I'm a traditionalist. I like how on FJ you don't get censored or banned for having illegal opinions, as opposed to here.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:48 PM
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Read my reply to OP, that should suffice. Let me know if it doesn't.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:57 PM
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No, like stop letting the feeling of exhaustion or the small amount of free time you have control what you do and how you feel. At one point I never went to the gym because I felt I always got off work late. Unless it was "perfect" like an early day, I would not go to the gym, because I insisted I "needed" the time after work to rest and recharge. What did I do with that time? Mindlessly browse Funnyjunk and Youtube for hours, wasn't even that fun or purposeful like playing a video game at least…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:56 PM
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Here's a soft skill. Learn to let go of your emotional attachment to your free time. Enjoy doing the productive.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:33 AM
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Bro think of how many young men there are in Wall Street that look up and dream of some day reaching that fantastical height, and cursing their place in the asphalt. There is no industry in this world where success comes automatically. Be thankful that what you are striving for actually has good prospects for the future and is actually STEM. You want to know what I'm striving for? An English degree so I can get into publishing as a writer or editor. How good do you think those job prospects are?…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 10:31 PM
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We finally did it boys! We struck back against women!
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:40 PM
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Holy shit these answers suck. There is a lot of very compelling study and documentation to the harms of porn and masturbation. Nothing has been 100% proven to a science, but that's because there are larger actors stifling that movement. I encourage you to do your research.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:32 PM
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Sociopaths are on another level, don't mourn what never was. He always hated you for reasons incomprehensible.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:08 AM
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First impressions are everything. You really have no choice but to leave them behind and find new friends that actually enhance your life. You don't necessarily have to cut them off, but keep in mind they will never be as good as friends as ones who actually respect you. I'm strongly considering cutting off my best friend from high school because of his impression of me, and because hanging out with him is such a waste of time because he holds me back.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 11:04 PM
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So? Aren't guys supposed to sleep around every chance they get? That's what people here constantly say.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 10:58 PM
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So he can get 19 year old pussy obviously.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 10:52 PM
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Forgive me, I didn't mean your question was wrong in itself, I mean you'll find better answers and those more enthusiastic to answer them in a different reddit. Like fashion or nightlife. You don't need RP's authority on everything.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:06 PM
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This is a question for a different reddit
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:36 PM
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That's not it. I pass on every chick that shows even the slightest fat, disgusting whales. I can spend hours sifting through dozens and dozens of these flesh mountains.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 06:07 PM
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No matter what substance you experiment with, none of them will ever bring you closer to actualization or really make you happier. There's no perfect recipe combined with the perfect day thst's suddenly going to make it all click for you. Just consequences.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:02 PM
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Have you tried not having meaningless sex like a degenerate and having sn actual LTR? You think cumming in sluts would make you feel good? About anything?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:46 AM
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Varies by state a bit. Word of advice, stay the fuck out of the South. Texas and Georgia are hamplanet hell.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:23 AM
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Just how my brain works, it's not a matter of priorities.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:08 AM
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This is my NUMBER 1 difficulty because of how quickly I can form thoughts and sentences.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 11:05 PM
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Good news if he pulls that off he will probably have a to the death loyal wife forever.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 10:54 AM
2

Go the gym I haven't been able to go to a gym in a full year.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:33 PM
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You'll either lose your virginity to a LTR you love and care about, or you'll lose it to a meaningless rando. Nothing beyond those factors really matter, it's all the same in the end.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:04 PM
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Redpill means whatever the fuck people on here want it to mean. To leftists and most women it's purely about sexism. To people on this reddit it's purely about looking at the reality of gender relations and how to actually thrive in the sexual marketplace. In it's origins on 4chan it's a blanket philisophical term meaning to unplug from the established narratives and programming and absorb the truth regardless of how unpopular or against the grain the idea is, true objectivity. This covers every…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:58 PM
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Everyone else is a left leaning degenerate if they think you should be having as much promiscous sex as possible. Ignore those monkies and actively look down on them for being the filth they are. You don't have to settle because you don't need pussy. Yes have realistic standards, but don't compromise for the sake of pussy. Identify women worth pursuing/LTRing and only go for them. Instead of seeing yourself as a sexual failure, instead choose to see that you didn't want whatever trash was curren…
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:18 AM
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Writing and maybe longboarding. Longboarding is partially athletic though.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:54 AM
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The dark triad philosophy should only be for men who suffer from being beta pushovers. You suffer from a different problem that clearly affects the quality of all your relationships. So the short answer is yes,
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:31 PM
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I'm not an expert, but this is what I would do. Alternate between weight lifting and cardio by day, have 1 rest day for the week, so basically both. Both camps are equally important to health, weight lifting barely burns fat, and cardio doesn't build muscle nearly as well as lifting. To be the best you can be you gotta do both.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:27 PM
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The less pornography you watch and times you masturbate the better. But if you ever do either, it's not the end of the world or even a sign you have a problem. There are people out there though that have a genuine addiction and need help like nofap.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:51 AM
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Why don't you just hide it from everyone? There is not a single scenario where people knowing you have asbergers helps you, so is it not better to operate under the facade that you don't?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 07:35 AM
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Look at uglier females and you'll see their dating habits resonate with men much more closely.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:33 PM
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Yup if you ever find a bro who's down to anything like go to the beach or museum, make him one of your closest bros at all costs. I've only found 1 friend who is cool doing any and everything without feeling weird about it and he's a treasure.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:32 PM
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If a bike is missing a wheel then it's not a very fun bike. Unless you happen to like unicycling, which is hard. As long as you have hobbies you enjoy on your own you're fine. Hiking, biking, kayaking, longboarding, anything art or craft related, music etc. That's part of the beauty of hacing a person to love because it fills the world with life and this feeling of adventure. Simple shopping trips become dates, camping is like eloping to the wilderness, stargazing becomes a romantic activity ins…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:19 PM
1

After World War 2 the Soviet Union and influential jews coming from the Frankfurt school srt their eyes on the West. In order for Communism to spread to the West, cultural subversion would occur in every country. This involved destroying the cultural fpundations of those countries: Christianity, patriotism, the family, and unity through connected culture. By infiltrating our media, Hollywood, the news, education, and every major influencer, they trained every generation to despise their country …
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:04 PM
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An hour drive is something you consider to be a possible dealbreaker? A lot of you have never lived in small towns or the country and it shows.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:06 AM
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It's completely against the woman in concept. It is testing the fidelity of the woman, obviously for men we have no counterpart to that.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:59 AM
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Dude you're in highschool relax
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:48 PM
2

Men being "unromantic", or nothing but lying cheaters is just feminist propaganda to help program women in their hatred of men and discourage them from ever marrying and settling down. Which is a tool for various political agendas
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:11 AM
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"After we broke up" Why do you care?
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:00 AM
1

In my experience coming back to the "just be yourself" platitude, one of those works a lot better for each individual over the other. For each person it feels more natural to be Jim Carrey over Clint Eastwood, then to others it is vice versa. Instead of hunting this impossible persona for yourself where you're more roleplaying a man rather than being one, it us better to find a rolemodel that is compatible with who you are. The level of energy or extroversion can vary, but the alpha frame remain…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 04:17 PM
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Give yourself more credit for your accomplishments, as only you have seen everything you have accomplished. No one knows and understands yourself better than you, don't let people who understand you less have such authority over you. In each scenario, look at each matter objectively instead of having your or anothers feelings decide the outcome. For example, if you were among a large group of flat earthers, and they discovered you were a round earther, and they all began ridiculing you for your …
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:54 AM
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Do not spend all your time yearning and pursuing validation and recognition from others that will never come. Validate and recognize yourself. If people can't see your worth, they're mouth breathing retards who can't see shit. Fuck em.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:19 AM
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Jewish Communists from Russia operated since the 50s to empower women in order to destroy the family unit, inspire degeneracy, and weaken Western civilization as a whole to advance their interests. Be real, you really thought women did all this by themselves? Without funding from someone with actual power?
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:37 AM
1

All I can say is to live free to pursue one's passions is to be wealthy in spirit. When you base all happiness, your comfort, your self worth, your anxiety on money, you become a slave to its material. I suggest breaking down your desires as to why you actually want them. And if receiving those desires actually brings you closer to your long term goals for life.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:45 AM
1

You go to college for networking, social opportunity, and the degree (as in the piece of paper) to put on your resume. Which is essential if you want to be competitive as a potential employee in the market. As for education or skills, those are acquired anywhere. You'll learn more about anything through personal study and research than what higher education could provide. Just manage your expectations and understand at the end of the day that is not what college is for. Understand what you are a…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:29 AM
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I suppose just talking with her about how to change the relationship is completely out of the question sociopath
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:02 AM
1

If you don't use Hinge it's automatic, you still have girls liking your profile eventually. That way you only invest time if someone pops up.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 05:57 AM
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Does it bother you? Then yes. With politeness and no demand, add a please out of courtesy and request it without expectation and indifference to their answer. If it does not bother you then do nothing. Exist and live as you are.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:39 PM
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Is it really so hard to have a non confrontational conversation with someone to just tell them you would prefer if people did not spread stories of your personal life like such? How have you become so paranoid and suspicious of women or others in general you feel the need to come to this board for advice on their possible ulterior motives and consequences? Seriously bro it is genuinely psychotic.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:29 PM
2

Hit her with the: "K"
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:34 AM
1

Base your lifestyle off your INCOME NOT YOUR NET WORTH. I have about $35,000 saved up, but I will be unemployed in a few months. Meaning I have no intention of behaving like I have that much money
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:31 AM
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You cab't be serious
/r/askTRP19/09/20 04:45 PM
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Online dating is porn for females. Sometimes it's validation straight from your phone, sometimes it's instant cock. But like all pornography, you're not sure what you're looking for, but you will know it when you see it.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:08 PM
0

Dumping her while her Dad is in the hospital is a female ass move. Try to work on your relationship and just wait a bit before twisting that dagger. It's your choice but I want that into perspective.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 04:19 PM
2

Haha I am no source of assurance. I'm still in the process of getting out at the moment. In around a year from now or so, I will start my college education on English Composition. After that I will most likely take up jobs as a Freelance Writer, there's tons of opportunities on Indeed.com. Right now I'm taking it one step at a time and will do more career planning when I'm in college for 4 years. Currently I have too much going on at the moment to bother my mind with anything else. I am still cu…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:52 PM
0

It's ok to be vulnerable, just not weak or exploitable. You shouldn't really share anything sensitive if you think it can be used against you somehow.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:10 PM
1

Dropping women because you're developing feelings for them like a normal human. Bro you deadass need a therapist, that is not normal. That type of thing is evidence of trauma. I'm not even taking the piss when I say this: Who hurt you?
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:10 AM
3

Kinobody Greek God Program, just Google it
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:58 AM
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Kinobody Greek God Program. He also has alternate ones that stem off thst one. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:33 PM
2

That fits the 3 strikes you're out rule.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:31 PM
1

Longboarding. I fell and broke my collarbone and it got me out of physical labor for two months hell yeah
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:00 PM
2

If you're still considering it don't throw it off the table just yet. The benefits can be life changing. Just don't go infantry like I did.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:05 AM
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Im truth I have always been a writer since middle school, but I had no confidence in myself because everyone always beats you over the head with "STEM GOOD, ART BAD". So I joined the military, for direction, for challenge, for security. That decision led to a great deal of pain and suffering in both the body and mind. One night in Syria on a guard tower I realized; so painfully exhausted I wanted a stray bullet to give me sleep, so fucking miserable I was far more concerned about the toxic shit …
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:10 PM
1

Of course, part of why I joined for insurance. Serving for 3 yeats gets me at least 3 full years of paid education, then pay the last uezr to get my bachelor's.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:45 PM
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Just one was enough for me. Was going to go to Afghanistan before our unit was flagged for it's abnormally high rate of suicides, divorces, and SHARP cases and were deemed nondeployable. Thank Christ to be honest. Yeah I have plenty of friends and family for support, but no one for serious TRP stuff outside the internet. I'm in the process of getting out so still infantry. I want to go to college to study for English and become a writer. Freelance writing will probably be my promary occupation t…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:06 PM
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Hmm I think my best moment is when my patriotism died in Syria. The military to me was the last safe haven for strength, honor, and loyalty. But it was in Syria under the oppression and torture of toxic leadership and inhospitable conditions on our base and workload when I realized. The Army and everyone in it doesn't hive a shit about me, in fact even when I do my best they still treat me like liability piece of shit or a plaything. All loyalty and admiration I had of the American military died…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:37 PM
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You didn't do anything wrong, she just wasn't interested, probably wasn't interested in anyone. She was likely just using Tinder for validation snd boredom. It's basically female porn. You're just one of tbe thumbnsils she clicked on.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:29 PM
18

Fuck Idk man, this wasn't in the sidebar
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:25 PM
0

You are seriously overthinking onlime dating. Especially since it never goes anywhere 95% of the time. If you're bound to get nothing, what does it even matter what you say? Don't be outcome dependent upon at outcome that doesn't even exist. Say something provocative, say something witty, say something retarded, ask a question. Just don't say "hey."
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:40 AM
2

Love requires upkeep. Like a panting it could be preserved for all time, or without care it can be left to rot. For that one or both parties are to blame for its death on some level.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 10:41 AM
6

I know 31 year old privates
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:07 PM
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This entire post is you venting and you already know the answers. Stop procrastinating? Yeah no shit. If you're wondering what I did when I felt directionless, I joined the Army for 3 years until I discovered who I was.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:14 PM
1

Just wear your chain and turtleneck sweater.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:04 PM
1

Geez dude chill. Look up a program that outlines your schedule for you. I like Kinobody's Greed God program. Read the workouts, do them. Oh shit what the fuck is a sumo deadlift? Better look up the tutorial on Youtube. Eureka you are now a gym rat.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:24 PM
1

I didn't have a very secure self esteem until 2 years after I was in the Army. That was when I stopped wanting other's validation and trusted my own. I let everything I achieved be my evidence for my value, not other's baseless criticisms and insults.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:14 PM
2

Just feed her something harmless. She just wants to hear about your relationships with your family, you don't have to dump your issues on her. You guys are all damaged as fuck and do not know how to communicate.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:57 PM
4

Semen retention is a myth. It's just the opposite of post nut clarity and relaxation being pent up horny energy you direct to something productive, like approaching women for example. Ejaculation is always fine if it's with someone else
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:53 PM
1

Maybe it depends on your area but weekend activities are still on. Was at the lake last weekend and it was packed, no masks.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:36 PM
3

There is a good chance you are heightening your voice without realizing it. Don't soeak from your throat speak fron your chest. Did you know people tend to pock up people's voices\accents if they listen to them for a long time? Try watching people with deep voices like cr1tika1s old youtube videos. Try imitating it until it becomes more natural. I notice my voice is deep as fuck around strangers and pitches up around people I know it's a dumb habit.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:46 PM
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Go outside a major city or go to Texas. America sucks dude.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:40 PM
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I am sorry I took a month to reply I meant to but my life assploded. I'm an 11B in the Army, that's infantry. Tbh I say go for it. You'll either find your dream career in the military or you stay in for just 3 years GTFO because you hate it then go to college for free for what you actually want to do. The 3 years I spent here allowed me to do a fuck ton of soul searching and realize who I really was, I used to be too scared of going to college for writing because I wasn't sure if that was what I…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:39 PM
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Weigh what is more important to you. Doing something you're passionate about, or job security and making money. Syria helped me realize people anxious about job security and money are cowards.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:43 PM
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That's good I like that
/r/askTRP12/07/20 05:30 PM
2

The opposite will happen, an infinite amount of privacy and solitude will empower you to watch porn and masturbate whenever you wish.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:25 PM
1

Why engage in retarded casual sex when you can just have one primary concubine you bang whenever you want?
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:56 PM
3

That's not good. That means that porn isn't helping you cope and is doing damage on all fronts. If you keep letting porn numb you it will actively damage your interaction with real people.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:45 PM
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These fucking comments lol. Why is everyone so damaged holy shit. If he puts more value in creating relationships with girls than just busting a nut it means he's a normal human being with upstanding character not corrupted by Jewish propaganda that all he should be doing is just fucking every woman he can. No one will ever be happy that way. Eventually if you're not a child you realize fucling randos is not fun. If you could have gotten a more intimate and genuine experience from watching porn …
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:41 PM
2

What role does porn play for you emotionally?
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:32 PM
6

Try to listen to her feelings on why marriage is so important to her and communicate with her you don't need a legal document to be in love and have an amazing relationship. Tell her whether or not you two are married doesn't change how you feel about her and you never said you wouldn't ever marry her. Throw in you want her to understand your feelings as well. Please don't listen to douches on here and start thinking of automatically "nexting" her for such a simple relationship road bump I hate …
/r/askTRP11/07/20 05:22 PM
2

Fuck no. Give me slim cardio bunnies anny day of the week. So sick of this country of fat chicks
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:24 AM
2

You eventually learn to let go of neexing it and just do whatever you can.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 01:11 AM
1

This was so hilariously /fit/
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:42 PM
1

To get a reminder that women do not know what they are talking about, ask them to define what being creepy is. I guarantee you they'll just say they feel it, and present you a series of examples.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:30 PM
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Pursuing women is part of self improvement, not separate. You want to ne better at interacting with them and seducing them when you come across them, they are a part of your overall self improvement schedule. Example: Monday, Wednesday, Friday is gym. Saturday is going to the beach with your boys. Having fun and getting out there is still as important as everything else. Don't get bogged down in reading a million books as that's going to turn into your excuse as why you're "not ready" yet.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:12 PM
1

That's not quite it. Polarizing is not beating around the bush and making it clear you are interested in someone romantically or sexually. Thus the woman can clearly understand the context of interaction early on and decide if she is or is not interested. Gets past the confusion on whether or not the interaction is platonic or not and avoiding the awkward friendzone phase
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:06 PM
1

Wtf is the matter with you you didn't even talk about the issue before you went nuclear? She probably would have complied if you asked her to stop you impulsive sociopath you didn't even give her a chance ti fix the situation.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:50 PM
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Try to talk him out of it that he's making a mistake and will soon make an irreversible decision that will ruin his life and make him strongly consider suicide down the line. Transitioning and surgery is a dirty, disgusting, and brutal thing. I have never seen anyone truly understand what they are getting themselves in to until it's too late. It is one of the most horrific and revolting practices that has no place in our modern society. Later when they look back on us in history, our children wi…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:39 PM
1

How do you expect anything to change if you don't exercise the discipline to act upon breaking bad habits and forming good ones? Take things one task at a time, take your list of problems, prioritize them on that list, and focus on one task at a time. I'm in the Army and when I got back from Syria I got addicted to fast food and eating out for a long time. When I an apartment it was really making problems for me financially so I needed to force myself to eat at the Army DFAC which was free and h…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 04:31 PM
1

By showing you don't care if she doesn't care that you care. If you drift into clingy territory, then back off. You don't need her, her not reciprocating your love doesn't hurt you. If you drifted into creepy territory, think of it as a form of rejection and pull back. The profound difference between alpha and beta orbiter. When a beta orbiter's initial and subsequent advances are rejected it's a national fucking tragedy and he'll do anything to change her mind. When an alpha's initial advances …
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:54 PM
1

There is nothing beta about being in touch with your emotions. Happiness, excitement, passion, longing, are still emotions you can freely share. The difference between alpha and beta is being in control of your emotions and reaction to them, vs your emotions controlling you. Get over your Clint Eastwood fantasy, women don't like robots.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:41 PM
1

Be less vague or everyone will just keep giving you shit advice.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:56 PM
1

Nothing beta about carrying some mace or bear mace even. Don't let your pride get you or someone you love killed because soyboy liberals want virtue signal points,
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:54 PM
3

In moderation. It's fine for a man to be comfortable with who he is and his flaws that he is perfectly happy being the but of a joke. But if that's the core of your sense of humor that will communicate low self esteem over time.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:28 PM
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I doubt anyone likes having their actual flaws pointed out regardless if you're just teasing. Teasing is supposed to be generally meaningless, if you're criticizing that often over teasing it's going to have a different effect.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 04:25 PM
1

Yeah I got a similar thing, back home I got a buddy who's getting ready to marry my dream girl. Helpful around the house, decently sweet, she has a limited social life with nothing outside her family and boyfriend (less risk of cheating, hoeing, and her family keeps her accountable). She also doesn't have any particular dreams or ambitions, meaning she's not going to end uo being driven to be anything other than his girlfriend; making her the perfect woman to be an accessory to the man's life. I…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:34 AM
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Don't give up. Just because this sub forces you to focus on every failed marriage or one where the woman screws the man doesn't mean there isn't a woman out there you can trust. We often criticize women for acting the way they do, but we almost never criticize men for choosing and marrying those women to begin with. TRP should activate a healthy and intense caution and skepticism when appraching marriage. You should know a woman completely before you decide, "I want to spend the rest of my life …
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:05 AM
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Women aren't the only ones who enjoy my appearance. Your physical appearance affects your interactions and power dynamics with everyone. When I look at old pictures of me I can't help but see how fucking scrawny and dorky I looked. Now looking in the mirror is a pleasing activity to me, how fortunate it is the body I will spend the most time with visually pleases me as well as others. The thought of making a girls eyes dilate when she sees the way my back flexes as I do a weighted pull up is an …
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:42 PM
1

Look up what a tonguethrust is and stop doing it. Your tongue's resting position should be on the roof of your mouth. If you're a mouthbreather, conquer that bad habit asap. Look up Jawzrsize.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:29 PM
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Maybe if you were abke to convince her to see a therapist to help her get over her trauma from one relationship.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:25 PM
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It's not wrong but what's the point? I'm in the Army and I don't even workout for performance anymore, I'm so mentally checked out of it looking like a midnight snack is all I care about anymore. When your performance/strength doesn't serve any purpose, doesn't have any actual life challenges to face and overcome, it starts to feel empty. That's why I joined the military.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:23 PM
1

I would say still do calf raises with weight and bodyweight thigh exercises so you don't get that chicken legs douche look
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:20 AM
1

https://www.manscaped.com/blogs/news/what-is-skinsafe-technology-in-the-lawn-mower-2-0 Not saying you're wrong but their website says the blades are ceramic. In my experience the more against the grain I trim the more uncomfortable it is, especially if the hair is quite long. Maybe you should try going at different angles and not pressing too hard. I couldn't trust any other trimmer around my ballsack.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 12:15 AM
2

What do you mean? I have the 2.0 and it's great.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:01 PM
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Option 1: Get waxed. Super efficient, easy, and clean way to purify you're butthole. Requires some balls though obviously, not that bad if you're not a puss. Option 2: Buy a Lawnmower 3.0 from Manscaped, get a hand mirror, take a deep slav squat in the shower, and use the trimmer to trim the entirety of your butthole and gooch. The Lawnmower doesn't nick so you can really go to town.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:23 PM
2

H&M is my fuckin go to for shirts, they're v necks are perfect.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:47 PM
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Anything over slim fit looks like ass. No one could possibly have the thunder thighs and calves from hell to fit well into regular fit jeans. As long as you're not scrawny as fuck there's nothing gay about it. Clothes that fit are always king
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:45 PM
2

I cannot agree with you more. Make no mistake I still agree with much of the red pilled views of women not being what they used to be, they don't understand what they want, and can't truly be trusted as equals. That doesn't mean we shouldn't fall in love and appreciate amazing women when we find them. Instead people here go super jaded and want to burn all women. We can still love women without letting them hurt or take advantage of us. It's about standing up for youself as a man and having boun…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:43 PM
2

Obviously the foundation of the term comes from the narrative of The Matrix, but it's use as a current philosophical and/or political term is generally separate. Didn't think I'd have to explain that as I figured we were on the same page, but I clearly respected your intelligence too much. "in 2000s" is so intentionally vague it makes me laugh. And the "Manosphere"? There's almost nothing to suggest 4chan wasn't the core of that "Manosphere" to begin with. The most active usage I have seen of th…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:35 AM
2

Don't try making it dumber than it is. Just because this specific subreddit has dedicated the entirety of its essence to sexism to the extreme and pick up art does not mean it speaks for the idea of the red pill as a whole. This subreddit is not a founder or a broader reflection of the concept period. This subreddit has co-opted a well established term on the internet, and because you likely discovered it here, your brain tricks you into believing it must have been invented here. This reddit is …
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:14 AM
1

Look you can pretend to be OG all you want, but the fact is you're not. "Amoral sexual strategy" is the most painfully narrow minded idea of the red pill. You're narrowing down a concept that deals with interpretation and cognition of the world and reality to how to pick up chicks at clubs and get laid or your money back! What are you a fucking teenager? Grow up
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:42 AM
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There's just a few fundamentals that are important. Decent size on shoulders, chest, and arms, low bodyfat, not scrawny in the previous muscke groups and a slim waist. Think upsidedown triangle. You don't necessarily gotta be a tank to be a winner, you just gotta adhere to the general shape.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:13 PM
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I thought monk mode was putting your challenges on pause while you focus on self improvement. Like instead of actively hunting women or advancing your career you're taking extra time to improve yoursekf before you try to face those challenges as you are. For example a dude stops going to bars every weekend to get rejected by women over and over and instead takes time to lift, read, improve health, improve appearance, and meditate for about a month.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:43 PM
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There's nothing wrong with meeting women to conquer your anxiety. Anxiety around the opposite sex is really common and not going to faze them, they'll support that if anything. But if you give off vibes you just see women as objects and conquests, they will be rightfully concerned about your mental state. It will sound like sex addiction which often operates in tandem with depression.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:37 PM
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Huh I didn't know that. I will still stand that 4chan had the greatest influence in popularizing the term throughout the internet, it's how I was exposed to it after all. ESPECIALLY during the previous election. I agree with you completely, the childish degeneracy born out of repressed anger for women on this reddit is awful. You have this entire sidebar with great information on unplugging and self improvement, and they direct all that energy into becoming comically sexist narcissists. And now …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:00 PM
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You talk like a fucking cartoon character. "Red pill is ours now" lol no it is not you donut. Some obscure subreddit who got the term from a documentary, who got the term from meninists, who got the term from 4chan is incapable of overwriting over a decade of internet history. The idea is so pants on head retarded it's laughable. Not saying these dictator mods support those values, but anyone truly redpilled does. Unless you have an abundance of chromosomes try reading a book sometime.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:50 PM
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I don't think it's part of the instinct, it's more of a coincidence of our biology. When a woman has sex it can be a very big decision, because she his very likely investing in carrying that man's child for 9 months and enduring the process of childbirth. When a man has sex it is far less dangerous (from a evolutionary perspective) as they are not forced by nature to face the consequences. Also the fact that men only require several hours to recharge before they could impregnate another woman, w…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:32 AM
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It is evidence those areas of your brain have become deadened or burned and/or you shouldn't be having sex with someone so meaningless to you. This is a very prevalent issue with modern day thots, who ride the cock carasol and then have difficulty the rest of their lives forming emotional connections with romantic partners, because they traumatized their brain with promiscuous sex.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:06 AM
1

That is so incredibly incorrect it's not even funny. Look up what oxytocin is and get that pseudoscience put of here.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:37 PM
1

The fact you took her virginity makes her potential unicorn material, I just want to throw that out there. DO NOT let her go lightly.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:06 AM
2

There are times for fun and laughter, and there are times for seriousness and strength. Only an idiot acts the same way in every situation.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:00 PM
2

I have literally never seen an alpha male that didn't have a warm outgoing side.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:11 PM
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"She would be all over me which turned me off" Going to have to explain that one to me chief
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:03 PM
2

My bad, was thinking of the wrong channel. Like Stories of Old is still a fucking brilliant channel though check it out for true inspiration.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:00 PM
2

Check out the youtube channel Like Stories of Old pixie dream girl video. He did a video on this movie that explains very well. The problem was a one sided emotional connection and a self serving relationship.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:20 PM
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So much this. Obviously all the girls with a personality reject you when you're just a narcissist, or when you "next" girls for the slightest infraction. We probably shouldn't have commented because now temp bans are incoming
/r/askTRP23/05/20 09:19 AM
2

Bro, the fact you gotta trick yourself into being a good person is really fucking sad. Unless it is your mission to go out and conduct your own charities or volunteer, being a good person is not some daily thing you routinely do, it's opportunities you come across. It's tests from the universe, or times of chance when an individual or a few need help. If you see a friend needs a ride or asks you for one, what's your initial reaction? When you see someone struggling to carry or move something, do…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:31 PM
1

Having self respect and treating people like shit are not synonymous. The only women who will be attracted to those kind of guys are needy, insecure girls who need validation from anyone. Any girl with some dignity will be put off and reject you. Obviously this is different from teasing, which is playful. Being cocky depends how you present it. You don't need to tell everyone you're the shit, because that's overcompensating. But when you get shit tested by anyone, your cockiness dhould reside on…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:42 PM
1

If you look at any action hero these days how many of them are Clint Eastwood types? They almost all have either a positive attitude or a good sense of humor (either dry and sarcastic, or upbeat and witty). If doing the Clint Eastwood Witcher archetype doesn't feel natural to you, then don't center on that. It sounds gay but "be yourself". As long as you still maintain confidence, frame, and don't act like a beta and you'll be fine. You shouldn't put so much effort into being a character, you ne…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 03:29 PM
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God did not put doctors and medicine on this Earth for us to be dumbasses and pray. Ask yourself this, do you pray to God for food? Or does God have us farm the land and raise the sheep ourselves? Do you pray to God for healing? Or does God have us treat the sick and fix our own injuries? Listen bro, you are very young, and your odds of survival are very high, but your Mom has lost her fucking mind. You gotta take your life in your own hands and exercise basic logic.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:42 AM
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Dude if she seriously isn't going to be there for you when your father died, posiibly the most important figure of your life, she is a worthless cunt from hell and you would need to get rid of her eventually anyway. Everyone, and yes including men, is entitled to the grief of those they love. There's no answer to seek here because you didn't do anything wrong. Narcissist roasties like that don't deserve your dick, money, or affection. Find someone who doesn't deserve to die alone like the selfis…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 02:12 AM
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I would say only react if they cancel more than once, especially more than twice. One of those reactions can be next
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:39 PM
2

That and "read the sidebar" is also seriously unhelpful. It's not wrong around half the time, but could you at least be a bro and direct what material to reference? The sidebar is unorganized and random as shit, it's not like a book I can scan.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:45 PM
2

Do things you would normally do at home in a public place where you like the atmosphere and/or service. Study at a modest restaurant after you eat dinner. Read at the library, even if you didn't get the book there. Write at a cafe or coffee shop. Workout (if calisthenics or basic cardio) in a nice park. Coordinate social activities with friends every weekend or every other weekend. Associate certain activities or tasks with a place outside your home instead of doing everything at your computer d…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:11 PM
2

Joining the military, becoming a soldier, living as a warrior, is an intensely personal decision. It is for this reason that the experiences and unique challenges we all face almost always causes equally intense emotional turmoil and disruption to their lives and souls. Having their expectations met, and fulfilling their journeys, is profoundly important to every individual. I consider it to be my duty to prepare every aspiring warrior and/or soldier for the unexpected experiences that shock peo…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 07:41 PM
3

I don't want to talk you out of it. I don't regret enlisting, facing the challenges I did, and the person it's helped me become. I yearned for a gauntlet, a trial by fire, somewhere to channel my warrior soul. Something a desk job or college class could not possibly give me. And with ISIS running rampant in the Middle East, and in Europe as well, the endless attacks and rape of my people. I didn't care about money or status, that wasn't important to me. It was too much to just be a bystander to …
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:54 AM
2

Absolutely. So tired of this shit like you wouldn't believe. So excited to get the fuck out of Texas and go to College for the first time, maybe thenI can truly start over as a man, start meeting women and live a more fulfilling life. That is something the Army could never provide me, and certainly not Killeen.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 12:08 AM
1

As someone who watches Let's Plays every once in a while, I can't grasp it. Watching others play multiplayer for hours is so boring. I can only watch stream highlights, or singleplayer Let's Plays, as that is more about the character/comedian playing the game, seeing their reactions to certain things. If your commentary isn't interesting or entertaining, there is no logical reason to watch unless you're purely interested in watching the gameplay of a game you don't pwn.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:14 PM
1

Taking up sports as an interest, unless you are genuinely interested, in order to be part of those conversations is the most painfully needy idea ever. Try to nurture relationships with people that have similar interests, if necessary steer conversations back to overlaps when you get dropped out of the interest like that. Or just wait for them to be finished. It will be a cold day in hell before I ever give a fuck abput football.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:08 PM
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Policy is borderline irrelevant, especially in school settings. It is pretty much entirely popularity contest. Focus on being popular, likeable, and attractive, and you'll win the vote because none of those students actually give a remote fuck who wins.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:14 PM
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I wash my sheets and pillow cases with the rest of my laundry. Helps with acne
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:10 PM
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Oh dude you are describing the assholes I have had to deal with since I joined the Army. Basic had fucked me up, so I showed up to my platoon super anxious, quiet, socially awkward, introverted, loner behavior. Got me an eternal reputation as the "platoon autist". This year, and after I got back from Syria, I went through tons of huge changes in how I carry myself, how I talk, walk, interact with everyone, my confidence, everything. And to this day they still think of me as a socially awkward au…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:08 PM
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Just say you have no interest in doing that, that's basically self harm. No reason to drop her unless she forces things on you or acts out of line. It's just going to be one of those fetishes you two do not share. I've heard if people into the feeling of a blade as a source of arousal, but actually cutting themselves? Or others? That's mental disorder.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:43 PM
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Do ypu enjoy spending time with your friends? Do you enjoy talking with them or anyone for that matter? Do you enjoy when your friends or people laugh at your jokes? Bring yourself to focus on the fun parts of being out and interacting with people. It's not a task or chore, you like to socialize and interact with people, even if you aren't friends because it's fun. Celebrate the victories that you did good by going outside and doing something, made your day open to great opportunities, instead o…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:39 PM
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I assume you're talking about volume of voice, louder is better than quieter. Every really quiet person I've met has always carried an aura of patheticness to me. It shows low presence and makes you look like you want to make yourself small and unnoticed. You can be a man of few words, depending on your personality and style, but when you do speak it should have power and be easily heard. Don't go overboard and shout all the time (I occassionally get told I'm being too loud), just make sure you'…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:20 PM
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Why are you even here? There are places and threads to be blackpilled as fuck and it's not here. This place is for people actually trying to improve themselves. I reversed my intovert brain into an extrovert one in just a few months with some basic lifestyle changes and shift of mentality. Like bro, I get pulling the short straw on genetic factors can be frustrating, but it is a complete waste of energy to spend the rest of your life moaning about it. It's the hand you were dealt, and you only g…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:13 PM
2

What if girls never give you signals because they're just never looking at you? I feel invisible at every bar I go to. I'm very fit but not notably muscular, fashion is good I think, hair is on point, facial attractiveness maybe average at best but I try not to think about it. It feels like women are always slightly caught off guard when I approach them, and I can never bring myself to interject into groups. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:58 PM
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If you like fish try starting with cooking filets. You can get big ass bags of skinless boneless tilapia for real cheap. My favorite thing about it is that it's pretty hard to mess up and overcook fish. Beef is quite difficult to cook correctly in my experience. Look into a rice cooker, rice can be the main thing you use to feel full after you eat, you'll need to add some flavoring into it though.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:05 PM
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People here are way too concerned about the feelings of a lesbian. Boo fucking hoo it's his sister, family means precisely jack shit unless you have a close relationship which they obviously don't. Shitting where you eat doesn't even apply here unless she can threaten your livelihood or life. Seriously though who gives a fuck what a homosexual woman feels? Sounds like a complete burnout and most likely a junkie
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:43 PM
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I do not see my modern pastimes and productivity as mutually exclusive. No one can spend every single hour of every day forcing themselves to do something productive, eventually people take breaks. If you're not wasting your entire life you don't have to worry about minmaxing every minute you spend on this Earth. 70-90 years is a long time relax.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:43 PM
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I'm saying a lot of stocks are only bound to get worse with the impending apocalypse. I probably lost 40% of my mutual funds value in just a couple weeks, will probably take months or years for that to recover. Just because stocks are low doesn't mean they can't go lower
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:56 PM
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Why not both? You don't have to "quit" your hobbies. If you wanna work on self improvement or read a book then do it because you want to and have been meaning to, budget time if necessary. Doesn't mean you can't enjoy a game every once in a while. The method of procrastination does not matter, it only matters if you are procrastinating at all or not.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:54 PM
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I think you should play games that don't make you so angry and just ruin your day. For Honor was that game for me for a long time. Try switching over to singleplayer or co-op games for a while so gaming can actually be an activity that relaxes you after thise long days.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:41 PM
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Spread of degenerate values like promiscuity and "LTR BAD" Also if you don't internalize intensive hatred of all women and treat them as nothing but objects you're nothing but a beta cuck. Guys seriously, I get marriage is fucked up right now, I get feminism and the sexual revolution has ruined the dating market and modesty if women, I get Veronica didn't want to be your gamer girl in high school so you've decided to become an insufferable narcissist and project your angst on every woman you mee…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:37 PM
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DO NOT FUCKING INVEST the entire stock market is taking a shit right now so you will only lose money.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:11 PM
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Lol dude fuck that guy. Who says after a long day of work, an hour at the gym, and after cooking dinner you can't sit down and play a video game for a few hours? It's no different from watching shows or movies. If there is something you need to do, turn off the TV and do it, if there isn't, kill some time however you feel like. Too many people go down the road of insane amish monks I swear.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:08 PM
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I've been trying to figure out alternate social venues but it just doesn't seem to work out. Maybe it's just the Texas/Austin area, but I just keep surrounding myself with older people and no particularly high value women. Do I have the interests of an old man? Only place I consistently see women my age is in the nightlife and 6th street, which is seriously not my strong suit, or cup of tea really.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:34 AM
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Where do you find these kind of women? Do they exist below 25? Is there somewhere besides nightclubs they can be found?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:11 AM
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They have such an incredibly shallow understanding of how romantic interaction works that they believe the more positive attention they shovel toward a woman the more interested they will be. As if they are attracted to whoever shows the most undying love. They basically think relationships are the equivalent of Sims 3.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:07 AM
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It highly depends what you are dropping and who you are dropping it to. If we're talking things like dating tactics, cold approaching, shit tests, that is all free game. If you start talking about how the wage gap doesn't exist, Feminism was pushed by corporations to sell them products, the sexual liberation was pushed by Communists to break down the family unit in the west, or women receive lighter prison sentences for all offenses, you're stepping into danger territory.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:59 AM
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Try the book Models by Mark Manson. Can help rebuild you from scratch through baby steps, but the one thing that is inescapable is you have to apply yourself somehow, take a risk and accept, not fear, accept that everything might not go perfect and that's ok. You will be ok no matter what happens. Also reward yourself mentally when you do something bold even if it didn't workout. "I wasn't able to meet any girls at this concert, but at least I gave it a chance and had a good time." Or "Damn that…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:39 AM
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The main problems with porn and masturbation is thst it distorts your brain's sexuality. Your brain becomes to used to the instant gratification of seeing tits or pussy by just pulling out your phone, to the point women in real life will find it more and more difficult to arouse you. Next issue is deathgrip syndrome. A hand is not like a vagina. A vagina is soft and wet, your hand is tight and rough. Depending how you jack off, the nerves in your penis become used to the tight friction of you sl…
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:21 AM
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Hard times create strong men. Keep fighting bro, you have a purpose in this disaster story.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:23 PM
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That is part of it. Stoicism is choosing what you allow in your environment to affect you, and your environment affecting how you grow and feel is a natural part of life. I'm more referring to having a positive influence to whatever is around you, that you choose to be involved in, especially that you care about. Your friends, your family, your clubs, your workplace, your community, your nation. What truly defines alphas is that people are attracted to follow them, because they know he will lead…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 03:02 PM
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Self determination, living a life with a purpose, leading/bettering the people and the environment around him, protecting and providing for his woman and children, and living a life of stoicism.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 02:56 PM
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I'm just going to avoid them at all costs. They don't follow the teachings of the sidebar, and their advice is always hostile and unhelpful. Everyone is better off only interacting with the community and not provoking them. Don't respond to their insults, just pretend you didn't see them.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:32 AM
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Careful I hot banned for two months for talking like that
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:15 AM
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The question are you actually being impacted emotionally by him or are you just hostile to his negative energy? If he's not affecting your life in an adverse way, I'd say keep supporting him. Him losing one of his oldest friends is not going to help his mental state. I understand you are not obligated to help or deal with him, but he is still your friend
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:22 PM
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Really that is some serious boy's club shit.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:44 PM
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No Kendall isn't quite right. Compared to her Kendall has slight flaws, a slight downward inward eye angle that's unappealing, a thicker nose, her upper cheeks at the cheekbone are way too full if she smiles even slightly, and unappealing eye depth that is painfully obvious when she wears her hair back, which is most of her pictures. Also she's darker than the girl I'm talking about, even in makeup, so skin tone comparison doesn't match. Never understood why they were seen as the models of the c…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:36 PM
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Amazing women don't exist because they do not age as well as men and plateau quickly I didn't realize it was possible to be this shallow without being a woman.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:28 PM
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Exact height probably 5"8. Weight unknown but she's tastefully slender, not much exercise but obviously a good diet. Supposedly half Mexican and White but looks completely White. Brown haired and brown eyed. I'd have to think about celebrity for a bit, I can't think of one that has her soft features off the top of my head right now. If you play video games at all think of a brown haired Triss from The Witcher 3. Never met her sisters. Yeah I'm sure if she stopped taking care of herself she could…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:25 PM
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Look I understand your skepticism, but you don't know what I'm seeing you're just convinced I'm lovesick with some average ass girl. But I am telling you, this is a girl that literally has no flaws in any of her facial features or body, unless she just stopped showering and let her hair and skin go to shit. Thwre is no logical explanation how a girl like this exists and isn't getting railed in clubs every night
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:12 PM
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I understand that. She is so gorgeous it's fucking stupid, she is stunning with and without makeup that I have no fucking clue how my bro scored her. In my opinion "10s" will always be subjective and is when a 9 meets a person's specific kink making them dream girls. While men can only be in universal agreement about a woman's attractiveness up to 9. Trust me I'm not retarded, I know how to analyze attractiveness down to a science.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:03 PM
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Omg dude I am starting to love it when people here start black knighting every time you DARE to suggest, that perhaps 3.5 billion people are not identical. Like BRO, you either hate women, or you're a beta fag, there is NO INBETWEEN
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:59 PM
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Lol stop projecting
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:53 PM
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I do know such a woman, my best friend's girl. 9/10 on attractiveness, my 10/10. Does his laundry, always loving and mindful, and the fucking best part. NO SOCIAL LIFE outside of her family and her boyfriend, which minimizes competition and hypergamy. Her only problem is low sex drive outside her menstrual cycle, but I'm confident that's because he fails to attract and arouse her because he is RP ignorant. Unicorns are real and they're out there, I promise you. AWALT is a sort of mental cope to …
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:35 PM
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Most dudes exercise Completely false. By doing any kind of fitness, even fucking yoga, puts you on the top 10% on the planet I promise you.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:27 PM
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What people actually want to say but are too stupid to articulate fucking anything. Don't try to be a clone of something you're not (Vin Diesel, Jim Carrey, or Ryan Gosling). Instead pick up on certain alpha behaviors from all alphas worldwide, and apply what feels natural and comfortable to you. Everyone has different personalities, levels of intelligence, and interests. Trying to be Ryan Gosling from Drive will never work for ypu, because you are probably not that emotionless and quiet, and yo…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:18 PM
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The book Models has a pretty good system on how to overcome the fear of approaching. It involves doing safe meaningless actions to talk to someone in public, then ramping it up slowly with meaningless small talk. Then eventually you get to the actual flirting phase and it won't make you want to throw up the first 20 times you try asking someone out. I recommend you check it out.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:25 PM
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Lol Deadpool is a little off the walls but could be a good source on creative and specific humor. Little comedy tip, things are often funnier if you are being unnecessarily detailed/specific.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 08:18 PM
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Here I'll give you some solid source material to try this. Ryan Gosling in "Crazy, Stupid Love", Scarface, Bradlee Cooper in The Hangover series (also compare to how his friends operate compared to him), and for a fantastic example on what never to be, The Joker.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 07:23 PM
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Do you think you're decently familiar with the systems and sciences of TRP? If no go back to the sidebar and read and internalize ALL of it. If yes, watch and criticize. Frequent this reddit and see how people do things, point out what you see as wrong and right. If you're not sure, look at the top answers. You are essentially vicariously experiencing a variety of scenarios that you can apply to yourself whenever something similar happens to you. When you watch movies, shows, plays, cutscenes in…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:51 PM
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I took my bro horseback riding once. You can find rental horses most anywhere. It would be badass to just have a posse of your boys on horseback like you're doing some John Wayne shit. In every case I've seen, people have a blast horseback riding, and have more fun than they initially realized they would.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:28 PM
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I do not understand why people here have such an aversion to being funny. Everyone here wants to be this fantasy James Bond character instead of the uber alpha males that are real. Did you know Chris Hemsworth was perhaps the most popular person on the Marvel movies sets? Because he was handsome as fuck, ripped as hell, super friendly to everyone, and according to his colleagues, fucking hilarious all the time. Do you think anyone considers Chris Hemsworth to be a clown? There is not a single al…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:23 PM
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It just sounds like you need to work on it, everyone here was at one point someone who struggled like you do. Do you perhaps mean emotionally not cut out? Here's how I think of it. Date as many as you want, they're just dates, only have one girlfriend. That's how it should be.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:08 PM
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Good christ do not even entertain that thought. Estrogen actually has an important role in human males in preventing us into becoming disgusting acne ridden, harry apes. For the love of all that is holy, minimize the amount of supplements and chemicals in your life and let your body does what it does naturally.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:24 AM
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It is not unmanly to cry, it is unmanly to cry because you feel weak, or are having a breakdown. And I'm sorry to say you did both of those, but that doesn't have to be who you are. The reality is, there is something wrong with you. There is something wrong with most people that feel the need to come here. It usually comes down to their upbringing and the experiences that shaped us. Shaped our emotional foundation for ourselves, and how we interact with the world. Because of how you grew up, wha…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:11 AM
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I don't know how to deal with losing a person you care about. The only thing I know you should do, is lose yourself in the pain that comes with losing them. Because that is the evidence you cared about them at all. I know for sure some bastard here will tell you to "next" that person like they meant nothing at all, but a true human being will never be capable of doing that. I am sorry bro. There is no way to ease yourself through painful loss. Do not come to asktrp to validate how you should gri…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:59 AM
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Sorry it took me a minute to respond to this, but I really did want to respond. Marriage and family might really be for you. Many at TRP do too much to discourage marriage and children because of the societal biases and risks against men. These are unfortunately all true, but if we want to be happy it is a risk we often must take and use TRP to empower us and proceed with caution (prenups, no joint bank accounts, setting boundaries for your wife and not the other way around, etc.) The fact of th…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:57 PM
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TRP says to have your own moral standard. What YOU believe in, based off the TRUTH the red pill has shown you. That is literally what I said. That morality and truth are not mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:32 PM
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The Army has taught me some creative things.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:30 PM
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Bro you are driving me crazy. When you say objective/objectivity you mean subjective/subjectivity. Objective refers to what is undeniably true. Subjective is what varies from a person's point of view. Truth is not mutually exclusive to morality, unless you consider morality to be something set in stone by something like society or the media. Morality is simply the idea of what is morally good and morally bad. Many believe morality is subjective to the person and varies between cultures. Many bel…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:54 AM
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Fuck off you degenerate. People do not have an impact on the world? Then what does? Aliens? Nations? That idea made up of people? It is humans, individuals, groups of individuals that impact the world. Do not act like The Red Pill is something this retarded subreddit owns. It is something you hijacked from 4chan, that refers to the pursuit of truth and purge of lies in all things. Economics, politics, race issues, gender issues, everything. You think it only applies to our interaction with men a…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:22 AM
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If I have the choice to fight for a better world I am going to do that. As much as I try to pretend I don't care, I fucking can't. I know I won't have a large impact on the world, but if me having 4-5 kids that make society a slightly better place, and that is me making the world 1% better, that's enough. And I have always made it my goal to encourage everyone to build their own nuclear family with the same goals. So if I influenced 99 others, then society is 100% better. What other choice do I …
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:07 AM
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I can see that. I try to give him a lot of advice because he always seems so oblivious about shit. He says his girl is only horny once a month in reference to her menstrual cycle, and I'm trying to explain is because you are failing to turn her on with your own attractiveness. And he genuinely believes through experience that is just how she is and he has already tried.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:46 PM
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Yeah real alpha males clearly.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:43 PM
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I don't agree with that. Throwing explosives around is a big deal, especially at people. That's when it comes into violent crime territory.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:42 PM
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I wasn't talking about TRP as a whole you fucking egg, I was talking about self improvement concepts.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:42 PM
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I understand the cons or dangers of marriage which is why it's so important to get prenups and being in control of your wife is so important. But it's not worth swearing off marriage and children entirely until things change, because they won't. You're just making society worse by letting poor people and immigrants pump out the next generation. If you don't counter that by raising good citizens and extending your lineage, the country will only get even worse. The only way we will get a marriage …
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:41 PM
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Oh I misread. That's a judgement call in that context. That is tough to decide outside looking in. Still though, in my reaction they wouldn't have gotten the chance to apologize, which is still what you should have done.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:56 PM
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How is it possible to get this butthurt outside a video game.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:53 PM
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That's fantastic. I'm a deployed Specialist in the Army back from Syria and I make 30k less than you. Can still afford my 1br apt for myself, so I can only imagine what I'd be capable of with your salary.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:48 PM
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Someone threw a fucking explosive at you. Frag grenade or firecracker that has the power to permenantly maim. You had the adult instinct to remove yourself from the danger. "But we can't just let those assholes get away with almost injuring us!" That is correct, you should have called the police on them immediately because there are people throwing explosives at pedestrians. That is the adult response, which is synonymous with the alpha response. The only beta move you made was apologizing and l…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:45 PM
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Bro this so fucking much. I've been talking with my best friend a lot about TRP stuff. How I'm working on turning my life around by understanding everything to a science: body language, sexual reproduction, charisma, fashion, fitness, everything. And how my major hurdle right now is approach anxiety. He says I am overthinking everything and I'm overly analytical. That I shouldn't have to change how I stand or sit because it doesn't change his perception of me. He doesn't get it at all. He doesn'…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:34 PM
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Converting to Islam so you can marry an Islamic whore. You successfully got a cringe out of me, good job.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:15 PM
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You guys are confusing the philosophy of TRP, and the community of ask TRP. All of the lessons, methods, and behaviors here are tools to use or not use at anyone's discretion. What is agreed upon in this subreddit, is what builds the culture whether it's moral, or immoral.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:14 PM
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Really agree with this, and that's primarily an issue with this community, where users often berate people for not being sociopathic narcissists. They took on all the wrong messages fron the sidebar,
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:07 PM
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That same logic cam be applied to female attractiveness. When a female decides it's ok to get fat after she gets married, the man struggles to continue loving her. This tells fools that love is fickle and not permenant. While men realize love has upkeep, and maintenance.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 03:32 PM
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I agree with pretty much all of that. Again too many here have way too much hostility towards connecting emotionally with a woman while also staying in line with TRP values and understanding how women can hurt you. We should still feel driven to have these deep and passionate relationships with women, all women. But keep in mind to hold frame, and be in control of ourselves and those around us.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:09 AM
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Lol fuck off degenerate
/r/askTRP02/01/20 03:34 AM
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That is true. But I prefer the time to articulate my argument and persuasive presentation with the ability to double check my research as I go as opposed to verbal debates. Which in my opinion usually devolve into unstructured and unorganized shit tossing at each other. Intellectually speaking written argument has the highest value in intellectual value. That sentence was also redundant.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:34 AM
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That is correct. And considering that some men out there, are fully capable of ignoring a woman's personality and social skills entirely in favor of physical attraction and sex, and that even if you are the most hideous 1/10 female, out there somewhere there is a male willing to fuck you. Maybe a 3/10 male, maybe even a 5/10 male if he's desperate enough and has so little dignity. But there is someone out there. Femcels are borderline impossible. This is why female virgins after the age of 18 ar…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:30 AM
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I appreciate the willingness to debate but I'm not personally willing to reiterate everything I took the time to write and articulate over Skype or whatever since that is reserved for people I socialize with regularly. I would prefer if you simply took the time to read what I wrote and write your reply whenever you feel like, or don't. I get it's a pain, took me like 30 minutes for that one.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:27 AM
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This is the 2nd part of my reply With each person you interact with, even without sex, you can pick up bad habits and pain from that fucked up person. And if you have archaic beliefs about sex combined with dating fucked up people or not knowing the game, you get burned out and jaded over time. It's the quality of the relationship. Not the sex. Sex however can be an expression of the quality of that relationship and more importantly the chemistry. For both guy and girl. There is no such thing as…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:21 AM
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I was really hoping you would talk about actual science and Psychology at least once instead of philosophy, history, and sociology. Or even statistics, but you just dumped a lot of argument, which is valid, but baseless argument. As in the man and woman had assigned roles and couldn't deviate. OR, they chose not to deviate because it worked. Because it is literally in our DNA to adhere to natural gender roles. Males being providers, females being nurturers. Do you think there was social shaming …
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:20 AM
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No it doesn't. Adam Ruins Everything has a decent video on this. Google "Adam Ruins Everything - The Truth About Hymens and Sex" I'd link but I think the bot will remove my comment. It's not a flesh wall. I suppose it could become more flexible like the anus with regular penetration, but expands is seriously not the right word. Blood during intercourse comes from tears, like at the edge of a paper. "Who cares" The fucking OP who is asking for sex advice for his virgin gf? In the post we are argu…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 12:09 AM
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This is completely ignorant of fact. Everything you just said is theoretical and subjective, not one thing you said could be considered being a fact. This fails to take account the effect sex has on human psychology and the brain. It also ignores the first thing I said, that in the MODERN DAY, with no sexual restrictions and social norms regarding sex going the complete opposite of traditionalism or conservative values (anti slut-shaming, encouraged mentalities to not marry or settle down, promi…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:42 PM
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No dude. That is the entire reason that most civilizations in human history insisted or even enforced female chastity is because it leads to better relationships, and better marriages. For thousands of years and that only changed for the West in the last century. The sexual liberation in the 60's and 70's and ALL feminist movements are why women are so fucked up today. There is a direct link to the liberation of female sexuality and promiscuity, and every modern problem with women that is outlin…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:13 PM
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I'm not understanding the conundrum. If she's a FWB, not even a GF, why do you seem like you're in an exclusive relationship? If anything, showing an abundant attention of women will just make both more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:09 PM
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I agree. Lot of good philosophy and lifestyle to improve young men or bachelors here. But this sub is so hostile to marriage, even traditional marriage, that it's more likely they will attempt to convince him to "next" his wife. Obviously most here who prescribe to those philosophies will have no experience or advice for families or children.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:07 PM
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Almost as if AWALT is overblown. Female promiscuity these days is a problematic TREND, but not a rule.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:01 PM
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No way dude. Virgins who lost their virginity to each other have shown statistically to have the longest lasting and healthy marriages. And getting to a virgin before feminism gets her on the cock carasol? Almost completely unheard of in this day and age. All female virgins (these days) are potential unicorns and wife material.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:59 PM
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That is not how a hymen works
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:56 PM
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I'm going to go overboard here because there's a lot to unpack here. Other people here have already explained that "vulnerability" is not just about emotions. It's about being willing to put your mental state at risk in order to gain something, and having the confidence to do that is attractive, because confidence. When you introduce yourself to a girl you are interested in, you are making yourself vulnerable to the risk of rejection, and the mental anguish and humiliation that can come with tha…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 10:42 PM
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Models. Should definitely be in there
/r/askTRP01/01/20 09:31 PM
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You are experiencing commitment issues and a form of sex addiction. My friend I mean it truly, you should consider seeing a sex therapist.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:50 AM
1

My only criticism is the actual system of game he explains seems like it gets seriously complex, and at the same time not specific enough or providing enough examples. It might make more sense to more advanced players who really can reduce social interaction down to a mathmatic science. Still tons of great stuff here that covers mentality and tactics. Something a lot of advice here kind of glosses over.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:13 AM
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https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B3jsxkr2TvSFTHVvRGVfc3hFaEk/view?usp=sharing ​ Here I saved the main book to my drive years ago. Thought I had the extra materials too, but I can't find it. But it's just some bonus stuff you could probably find as good if not better advice for here or on the sidebar. Escaping the friend zone, monogamy vs. polyamory, guide to breaking up (that one was actually pretty useful), and Never get cheated on.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:10 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jv2NQB4gv_s&list=LLL5ksHD2_BeAgkTqV84c-oQ&index=230&t=0s This video should help illustrate the fundamentals of body language that will make people actually see you differently. The fundamentals of body language tend to follow these fundamentals. Comfortable, open (vulnerable positions where you are not defending your neck or chest), spread out (dominate your space), and pride (increasing height by standing and sitting up straight, not trying to be small by keeping…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:30 AM
1

If you have mostly defeated your stutter I wouldn't worry about it affecting your career because it probably won't. Your anxiety about the stutter will probably increase your risk of stuttering so you shouldn't stress about something so trivial. I have met a wide range of different doctors giving off a variety of alpha and beta presentation on the scale. But I think for the most part their confidence in their profession and display of their intellect usually shines through. And that's usually wh…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:51 PM
2

So it sounds like you are invested in surgery of some kind which is good. Also I don't think surgeons are always doing just surgery, they're also working with and supporting patients before and after a surgery. As for the military I think there is an MOS for combat/trauma surgeons, but I believe they are all officers in the military. Anything outside that goes back to the civilian sector funded by government contracts. If you were referring to an actual line medic that's more of a mix of infantr…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:27 PM
2

Correct me if I'm wrong, but even if you got the degree that matches ortho surgeon, that doesn't just qualify you for that one career on the planet. It is somewhat flexible within the field of orthopedics? Also after a google search I now realize that orthopedic surgery is in reference to the skeleton and not just the jaw. So you're just not sure if you will be into bone surgery. Like for myself I am planning on getting degrees in writing that give me very flexible options from marketing, editin…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 08:41 PM
1

I can't tell you how to find out if you like it or not without dipping your toes in the education. But orthopedic surgeon is a badass job. Dr Kheradpir in Fresno changed my life.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:46 PM
2

Also if you feel like crying then cry, but do not sob or wail. Just let the emotion flow out of your eyes if that's what YOU NEED, NOT HER. True men aren't afraid to cry because they have enough confidence to not feel insecure to show emotion. Again dude, it's your Mom. You don't have to act like you don't care. I don't think you're just lying to others, I think you're lying to yourself too.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:43 PM
1

You're not showing enough vulnerability and she can tell you are putting up a stoic act. Nobody reacts to their mom's cancer with "Well that's shitty." You can be honest with her that this legitimately pains you and you're scared of losing her BUT you have to stay strong for her. Listen to the song For Mama by Matt Monroe. Don't even try to tell me Matt Monroe is a beta. She will appreciate the vulnerability you opened to let her in which is FANTASTIC IF NOT ESSENTIAL for emotional bonding with …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:39 PM
1

It kinda sounds like you're talking about unreceptive girls versus neutral girls. Neutral girls are the main ones that require game in order to build attraction as you interact with them. With receptive girls it's simple as going through the escalation process and getting to your objective (the kiss, the number, the date, back to your place etc. Whatever it is you're shooting for in the context). Most regular men are only capable of getting women that were receptive by default. Less have the pow…
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:29 PM
1

Do more research in the medicine field to get a better idea of all the obscure jobs that are out there and what degrees they require. "Doctor" and "surgeon" are probably the most vague, popular, and famous professions in medicine in our culture. But reality is far more specific. Pharmacist, heart surgeon, or dermatologist are actual careers. A "surgeon" is merely an idea.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:22 PM
1

Your friends cut contact with you? Can you elaborate more on this? It is common for friendships to drift apart if you don't maintain and see each other regularly, but cutting contact? That comes from drama usually. What happened?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:12 PM
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The issue comes down to first impression. When she sees your picture she's not seeing your voice, your body language, your confidence to talk to her, how charming and funny you are, or seeing the essence and biological reaction that comes from being near a member of the opposite sex. She is only seeing the most superficial and shallow level of attraction being your visual appearance. She's not swiping right on you she's swiping right on your image, and she's swiping right on 20 other guys every …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 07:05 PM
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You don't have to hate women, just understand them as human beings, and I mean human as the animal. Animals with desires, dreams, flaws, vices, and selfish tendencies. They are like us but female, so extremely different. You don't have to hate women, but never let them control you and never let them hurt you ever again.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:39 PM
1

I'm the faggot? You're nothing but a fuckboy that is as bad if not worse than all the cheating thots we criticize in the west. Just kill yourself
/r/askTRP25/12/19 05:00 PM
1

I don't agree with this. If you wanted something taboo such as homosexuality conversion therepy, no one will ever help you because it's taboo and "homophobic". Therapists can be as bad as everything else in society, and you shouldn't let your guard down.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:45 PM
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It is cultural. Unusual in America and Germany, as normal as a handshake in Brazil, Italy, or France. Cheek kissing has a side effect of being fantastic kino, so that speaks well of the SMV of these guys in particular. It is best if you don't overreact though. Reference the sidebar on jealousy and mateguarding.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:11 PM
2

I'm reading the book Models by Mark Manson that helps with this. Think of it this way, if you know you're not creepy in the way you hold yourself, then you don't need to worry about that. But what you're worried about is harsh rejection, but in all honesty, who actually does that to polite and confident people. TRP has a negative side effect of making us see everyone as malicious, cruel, and rude. You should be under the impression everyone is under the same social norms as you, to not be asshol…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:03 PM
2

Read non fiction or write if that's your thing.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:46 PM
1

I think you should go out with her again as she is legitimate LTR material. Obvious mega attraction, and she cares about her chastity which is model non-slut behavior. I think you should make an effort to get closer and get to know her within TRP strategy of course so you don't go full beta. Point being, I genuinely believe this one doesn't deserve the whore treatment.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:40 PM
1

Gonna be another year before I can do that. Then I return to my parents in California. Believe I would love to be anywhere besides Killeen.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:08 AM
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It's not that Austin is terrible. There's more variety there than anywhere else I can think of. It's just like I said it's logistically retarded to go there without a motel, which will feel like a massive fucking waste if you just got rejected at every turn or just didn't have a good time.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:14 PM
2

Because it's super try hard. They can tell how disingenuous you are. Isn't it often preached to not chase women and live your life normally encountering them as you go? Which is why fitness, work, and a social life are important. I'm not saying you're forbidden from talking to chicks in the library, but genuinely going to the library should be the reason you're there. And if it didn't involve women, would you really go to the library?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:39 PM
2

Ok I reiterate then. Their taste of alphas comes from the media they consume, and their expectation of men has to live up to basically gods in Hollywood or gigantic YouTube personalities.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:10 PM
2

Unless something important is happening (projects, deadlines, etc.) you shouldn't be killing it 24/7 otherwise your social life has nowhere to fit in. Also trp is something you're supposed to do for the rest of your life, not in a burst. You need to operate on a sustainable level for straight years, so when the time comes you gotta go into overdrive, you go back to the original level, instead of eventually burning out and crashing down into the state before you started.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:14 PM
1

"Prevents pregnancy for up to 12 years" Women are fucking wild dude. And I thought the upper arm birth control implant was impressive lasting for 4 years. It was overkill to get that, and looks like an invasive procedure.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:02 PM
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Are you speciffically talking about women who have 0 experience with alphas or even men in general for whatever reason? TV, the internet, and pornography is what scratches their itch for that and give them the thought they can acquire men like that. Lots of emotional masturbation on Tumblr and shit like that to supplement their lack of romantic and sexual contact. They still are probably ignoring some poor beta around them or swiping left on Tinder like they have any value at all.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:59 PM
1

I'm thinking give her a trial period, be VERY conscious of the power dynamic, consistent use of dread game, DO NOT treat her like a onenitis. I don't want to tell you to next her as is the autistic reflex of a lot of guys here, but you do need to punish her a little for the past and probably hopping off the cock carasol for you. You can't even know if she's serious yet.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:54 PM
2

Tell her going raw is giving you too much anxiety and ruining the sex for you. Caveat that with how you learned it's possible to get someone pregnant with precum.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:47 PM
2

I think he's saying he doesn't want to be the guy who pretends to go to the library to pick up chicks. That's really kind of the issue for a lot of guys whose problems revolve around their love life. If they were asexual and didn't give a shit about girls, they probably wouldn't feel the need to ever leave their house except for work and groceries.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:37 PM
2

Also this. People outside of college get as close to a college as possible to find any young women. Because for some reason when you get more than 10 miles from a college everyone around you goes up by 40 years. Really frustrating, if I want to find any women at all, I have to drive 70 minutes to Austin where they don't have backwoods ass sports bars and saloons. But what then? I don't drink so I can make it home that night? I pay $150 for a motel for a night, on the risk I get nothing? Wtf even…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:34 PM
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You're not really giving him any ideas on approaching and meeting new women in his situation and routine.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:28 PM
1

People will use the promiscuity, sluttiness, and lack of loyalty as justification to have casual sex with strangers, and cheat on their girlfriends. It's all ok because they're doing it to spite women. I'm not the one who's wrong!
/r/askTRP11/12/19 06:10 PM
2

Insisting on practicing promiscuity and destruction of marruage and thus the family unit.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 10:14 PM
1

The only reason women go to the gym is to become more attractive and raise their sexual market value. You being attracted and wanting to talk to her is literally the point. If she's single your odds of a pleasant interaction are higher, not lower.
/r/seduction09/12/19 11:16 PM
1

I lol'd super hard at "80% of the post turned into a debate on eating pussy." https://youtu.be/VuIbyvaMMPE
/r/askTRP08/12/19 02:40 AM
2

Makes sense. Do you have a purposeful conversation that "we are officially an item" or is that something you just decide mentally after you've been dating long enough?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:48 PM
1

I would suggest rest days but you aren't being specific enough with what it is that is exhausting you. Like if you're tired of going out every Saturday, just stay in on a Saturday for once. Treat yourself.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:04 PM
2

Damn I never thought about some of those things even though I already agree with everything you said.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:58 PM
1

This article is based on oral sex as a whole in all demographics for both genders. It even says in your article that cunnilingus does not carry nearly the same risk as fellatio which entirely serves my argument. As for your analogy, people typically don't wear helmets and goggles to grocery shop either.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:55 PM
1

If you're only going to the gym 2 days a week you absolutely should add 2 days for running since you're a fat fuck. 1 day for long distance, the other day high intensity sprint circuits.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:44 PM
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So you are actually significantly less likely to be infected from STDs from cunnilingus as compared to actual sex. This is due to the fact many STDs require exposure to the vaginal walls and more often the uterus. That means the main diseases to be wary of are those present on the surface level of the vagina. Of course it is still possible to be infected from cunnilingus, but much less likely. Not saying you should throw caution to the wind with that in mind, just explaining the logic of those w…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:38 PM
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Obviously but the question "if she's clean" applies to anyone. I was wondering if he didn't do cunnilingus unprotected with any first dates or speciffically tinder thots.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:13 PM
10

Out of curiosity what are your prerequisites to eat a girl out? Because I'm super into it.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:01 PM
2

I know you would want a direct reply, but I got something good. In Joshua Pellicer's book The Tao of the Badass his second chapter goes in length about confidence, and how you can perceive yourself with higher esteem logically. Literally changed my life in weeks, look into that.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:12 AM
11

Why not? Would be a fantastic story
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:59 AM
1

Everybody is misinterpreting this. Being funny is one of the easier and effective ways of demonstrating value to everyone. You don't have to be a clown to be someone who is thought of as consistently funny. Think of stand up comedians like Dave Chappelle, Dane Cook, or even Bo Burnham. You think no one wants to fuck them because they're not the strong and silent type? People are thinking of the wrong examples. A very good, albeit fictional, example of a funny guy but also a woman slaying badass …
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:42 AM
2

No man, just judgement. Bullying is essentially a toxic way of enforcing social norms. Problem is, punk ass don't give a fuck about the health of society, that is not why they bully others. They bully others for that feeling of power when they can torment weaker people, those seen as undesirable/unpopular so they don't have to fear any social repurcussions of being an asshole, maybe someone who is watching will laugh at his display giving him an ego boost. All of this is self serving toxicity. B…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:31 PM
1

Question, is it really riding the CC if they stay in relatively committed relationships and aren't insanely slutty? Because it sounds like you have normal girlfriends. Think about it, would you really be capable of falling for a slut? Most men don't, which is why they abandon them. Probably means they aren't the whores we demonize, at least not these individuals.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:04 AM
2

Alpha m for instance is mainly useful for fashion, grooming, hygeine, and some confidence boosting mentality. You don't and probably shouldn't buy whatever they are shilling for. But you can still take their fashion and grooming advice using different products.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:43 PM
2

Looking at either eye is fine. Think of the "eyes" as more of a oval shaped line zone where you should be looking. One eye or the other makes no difference. Either way THEIR eye is going to see you looking straight into one of their eyes.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 03:34 AM
1

Remember dude. What the red pill truly is, is not just truth, but the regain of control, over life, over circumstance, over the sexual market, over everything. It's not negativity, not necessarily. It's not just sexism, racism, and a narcissistic philosophy, what it is above all else is control. The choice a man has in this world is the choice to be a good person or a bad person, to be good, or to be evil. The question of morality is something that men have wrestled with for thousands of years. …
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:56 PM
2

Bars, taverns, and pubs? Which is what he also asked.
/r/seduction24/11/19 06:58 PM
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Literally wife material. Your woman is an accessory to your life, she doesn't have to have one as long as she's supporting yours, and raising your children. Which sounds like she'll be fantastic at. Ambitious women with minds of their own is just a recipe for female initiated divorce.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:41 AM
1

I was looking up how to get girls from church and there was a post here.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:04 PM
1

I find there is a serious philosophical contradiction on trp where we criticize women and society for being sluts and whores and losing their conservative modesty, but we treat women that attempt to preserve some semblance of their modesty and/or chastity as worthless wastes of our time to be nexted. Maybe it's called unicorn hunting because a lot of you dumbasses next them the moment you talk to them.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:58 PM
2

If you find yourself dwelling on the flaws and negatives of women, just think of it this way. Women are basically children. They are irrational, impulsive, but also cute, endearing, and fun. Would you trust a child with serious responsibility? Of course not why expect them to be responsible. Would you consider a child dependable or trustworthy? No, because they barely have the capacity to be those things. Women can be beautiful, warm, pleasant people, or they can be little shits. Enjoy them as w…
/r/askTRP09/11/19 10:02 PM
1

The obsession with not getting "oneitis" and especially "not shitting where you eat" is so retarded. You need to stop treating trp like it's some kind of life doctrine when it is actively fucking up your life and think for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:53 PM
3

Either until Western Civilization falls like Rome or a new Hitler rises up to shock the status quo like lightning.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:52 AM
1

What exactly do you want to dp asan entrepreneur? What industry are you looking to get into?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:50 AM
1

Friend you need to go to the sidebar. Read "how to open and close". You're not looking at life right right now.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:46 AM
2

You realize adults still meet women after college and usually outside of work right? Really think how it is they do that.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:43 AM
1

This gives me confidence for my writer dilemma. And Ernest Hemingway
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:39 PM
2

"She is free to fuck other guys" "...but there are consequnces" ​ *cough* Excuse me? Is there a consequence somehow less minor that breaking up with her completely? Or are you telling me one of those consequences is less minor than such? Are you sure you are not just a cuck?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:44 PM
12

Lol glad you wrote this so I didn't have to. Top comment easily.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:29 PM
8

My life goal is to find a good wife, have a large family and raise them on good morals and traditional values. Making sure my sons don't grow up to be betas. That is the most powerful thing I, and most of us, can feasibly do to contribute to a better society. You don't have to accept the world as it currently is and buy into its game. That's just black pilled. But we cam still fight. If everything was truly hopeless, their propaganda would be unnecessary.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 08:22 AM
0

Media, education, political culture.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:48 AM
5

Blue pill goals aren't wrong, but blue tactics and life styles are. Every beta wants a wife and family, but they can't achieve that because they don't behave like alphas in the sexual market. We can achieve that. The redpill is our counter attack to return to the ways that built civilization, while the powers that be do everything they can to destroy it. If we just commit our entire lives to promiscuity and meaningless sex and relationships, we're no different from MGTOW besides pussy.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:42 AM
1

Here's the way I see it. The ultimate end game is to settle down with a true wife. Yes there is a risk, you know what they are, but we can't spend our lives waiting for that. You're a man, you can prepare for the worst, and when it happens you can handle it. Just don't stop being a man to love this girl. It's ok to fall in love. We have to find our way back to the old world in whatever way we can.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:36 AM
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Never ever ever talk with women about any mental or emotional issues you have. Are men allowed to cry? Yes. Are men allowed to have issues and struggles? Yes. But women will never see it that way. Women insist that men should be indestructible so they can depend on them because they know they themselves are weak in every regard. They feel like if their man has any chinks in that armor, now they feel like they're dating a neurotic woman (basically just a woman) and don't trust you anymore. The mo…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:57 PM
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