I was wondering, which is better? Cold, hunter-like badass or warm, outgoing dude?

I had a tendency to be silent and a bit introverted, as I didn’t want people to look at me (yeah, I know.) I’ve grown out of it though, and I’m able to crack a few jokes at a party and be appreciated, although I’m still a pretty serious guy.

Is it possible to be warm and outgoing, while still being mysterious?