Long term fwb/ex gf/friend...whatever.

Sunday she didn't wanna come over to fuck. Said she's tired. I said "k"

Next day after work she asked how my day was... She never asked me that before. I feel like she is feeling guilty. Also, this was around the same time we both know she would be out of work, and would be available to hook up. But I did not want to seem needy or thirsty so I did not ask if she wanted to hang or come over or anything. I wanted her to be direct and make an effort.

I responded to her question with a few lines...a proper reply. "Long day, but good partner today, etc, how about yourself?"

Her response"

"same"

"Lol"

I left it at that. That was Monday.

I have not contacted her at all. Im assuming I should still wait for her to initiate contact next.

If so, I have a few questions and would like to know the terms for them

  1. If she asks if something is wrong, if im mad, etc. Would "No why would I be?" be the proper response? If she then asks why I haven't contacted her, just say I'm busy with work and stuff?

  2. Asking how my day was again - keep it on the topic she chooses and let her lead?

  3. If she asks to hang out, agree or say I'm busy? Usually she asks last minute and i assume its because she just wants a ride. Should I tell her I'm just about to hop in the shower and I'll text her when I'm out, wait 20 minutes then check my phone?

Any specific parts of the sidebar I should read related to this stuff? Thanks in advance. Dread seems to work on her but I am no where near the level of mastery I desire.