I haven't had sex in almost 3 months. Im 24M. I am not looking for anything serious, I just want to smash different chicks. I work out 3-4x a week. Most of my time is spent between work, gym and home. Coworkers [who I would otherwise bang] have given me IOIs, but I never acted on them because although tempted, I did not want to screw up my money. Im not one to have many friends since I finished school, so no social circle chicks. I am currently around 14-17% body fat. I'm in pretty good shape. My face might not be as attractive- as I have never been one to receive IOIs from women on a regular basis. regardless, I have to work with what I got. Lately, I realized that I had been talking myself out of opportunities due to past rejections. A few days ago, I started to think about things more as a numbers game.

I approached two women today, the same number of girls I probably approached in the last 3 months. first one was at the gym, an Asian chick doing some deadlifts in front of me. I did not want to approach from behind, so I just came in from the side and requested to work in. She was fine with it, and then I was like "No not really" I tried to introduce myself, she looked at me like I had shit on my face and body language wasn't receptive so I got the message that she wasn't interested. I accepted and continued my workout. Was this a goofy way to approach or was it the lack of attraction that caused this? I had a weirdly good feeling afterwards. I felt better than if I never would have approached her anyway.

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The second was on my way home. I stopped at Kroger to pick up a couple of things. I noticed this South Asian looking chick probably about a 6 or 7. I was wearing a fresh fitted T-shirt and had just worked out so I guess I had that pump action going on. When I first walked past her in the meat section, We made eye contact for a second, then I noticed her doing that thing girls do with their hair [pull back behind the ears]. Then I moved into the next aisle where the coffee was. After a minute, her friend & her come into the same aisle and linger in my vicinity. I was genuinely comparing two different roasts of coffee when I decided to approach. She made a brief sound before I went over to her, so I made the same sound while walking over to her with two boxes of coffee in hand. She smiled. I broke the ice by asking what her opinion was on the difference between the two. She explains one has less caffeine etc etc. Afterwards, I get to the point - ask her name & tell her we should get together for a drink sometime. My phone was dead , so I gave her my number. She took it & asked my name. I told her, then and she acted all wow cool name etc. I didn't hear from her yet but I'm honestly not worried about it. It just felt somewhat good to actually give myself a chance instead of letting the AA prevail. After the first rejection I felt a little desensitized and it made the second approach a little easier.

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Are these goofy ways to approach or is there a better way to do these? Also how can I meet women more often ? [In an organic way]. I don't receive IOI often so It seems like waiting for them would be a passive approach especially when I am not extraordinarily good looking.

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TL:DR. - Did 2 approaches today for the first time in a long time. Requesting advice on how to improve approaches and have more opportunities to approach.