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Work, live at home, Buy bitcoin and HODL. You will thank me later
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:35 PM
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Great list, would definitely throw in Rollo Tomassi
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 08:12 PM
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It's so absurd and in some of the liberal metropolis it feels like everyone is liberal. Instagram hoes posting about blm all day is just the trend
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:53 PM
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Left has moved much further to the left than the right.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:52 PM
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lol, that would of been a great move
/r/askTRP21/07/20 12:27 AM
3

Yeah, silence from a man is communication. THEY KNOW
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 10:03 PM
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On Friday I had a chick over, 3rdish date. We went upstairs and it started getting hot and heavy, but at some point some how she asked me if I voted for the president. I told her the truth, she got super defensive so I told her to leave. Next day she is texting me apologizing. Always hold frame and respect yourself and women will respect you.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 09:49 PM
5

yeah it's a generalization. Definitely a lot of skinny black girls out there too
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:14 PM
4

women can smell a man's confidence. With it you can move mountains and without it your a creep
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:13 PM
3

nah black girls are just big, you want the big ass
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:05 PM
1

big ass and small waste is the best hands down every fucking day
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:03 PM
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Just ignore the politics. Keep your job and just give them vague platitude answers or say you don't think about it. It's really insane how the left polices thoughts.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:08 PM
2

You made the right decision, let her go.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:03 PM
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She's jealous of the younger, prettier, etc women you are giving attention to. It's a weird thing, but very common with mothers. Don't let your mother pull that shit.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:04 PM
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Look man live your life how ever you see fit, but citizen dildo does not have a fulfilling sex life imho.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 02:33 PM
1

I went out on date with this girl couple months back, probably an HB8 but definitely an Insta ethot. We banged in my car which was totally horrible, but she showed me her tinder and she had like 800 likes and 500 messages. I don't care how great you are the numbers are stacked against you.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:30 PM
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If you really care about this chick stay away from a 3 some.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:13 PM
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Do not attract women through money or you'll just get women that like you for your money. beta bucks are still beta.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:11 PM
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If you don't want to fuck her then you're done. Next.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:45 PM
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"and I sometimes feel like I need her and I’m constantly thinking about her" Look brotha, it's good to feel things. We're human and having a special connection with a girl is one of the best things in life, but do not 'need' her. You are putting her up on a pedestal that will only lead to your heart being broken. Live in your frame, she's lucky to see you or be with you. Be busy pursuing your goals, she has to come to you period.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:41 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:37 PM
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This ^ as Pook wrote: "As you think, you shall become. The Nice guy mythologies the woman. He turns her into a goddess. The Don Juan mythologies himself. He turns himself into a demi-god."
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:33 PM
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The nice guy and the jerk are two sides of the same coin. Both will end in ruin, but it's a process and maybe this switch to a jerk will lead him to the best state of being a 'man'.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:21 PM
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I was working in politics and met her at an event. I can't remember if she called me or I called her afterward, but the signs were pretty obvious that she was interested. It's a dangerous road to go down, like an addict. I'm addicted to older women and I really wish I never indulged because it's a waste of time and energy.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:58 PM
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So how did I get here? When I was around 25 I started having fucking with this hot 55 year old coug and the sex was pretty fucking amazing. I'm 30 now, but ever since then, I've had a thing for older women. That being said, I spend most of my time in relations with 20 somethings. Younger (legal) the better.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:44 PM
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People and especially women will care much more about what kind of man you are then your haircut. When the time comes where it's obvious and you need to cut it just do it and move on. Focus on being a man!
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:46 PM
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Trust me, you aren't missing out on anything. It's made me recognize the importance of a younger woman for children and a long term partnership.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:44 PM
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In the last year I've banged girls from 21 to 65. You can have a good time with a girl at any age, but generally speaking younger is better. Tight bodies over sagging nasty shit. If a woman takes care of herself she can have a decent body through her 50s.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:25 PM
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She's gauging to see if she can still control you. Do not play her game.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:21 PM
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I could be off base here, just thought it could defuse the situation.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:30 PM
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You have to be ready to walk. The comments about working out and insulting you around her friends are huge red flags. You need to re-establish your frame.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:27 PM
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Yeah, this may be the wrong context for my advice. I completely understand where you guys are coming from. At the end of the day, this is between him and his chick. Whatever you do don't show any signs of jealousy. She fucks around on you then you drop her no if ands or buts.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:59 AM
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This is good advice, other option is to befriend this dbag. Like go out of your way to meet him then invite him to something just you two without the girls. Personal relationships have a way of diffusing threats.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:49 PM
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Well, don't freak out over one time. It's most likely an obstacle in your mind if you are young and healthy.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:44 PM
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First off nice insta. I've struggled with this a bit myself, I only will seriously date a 8+ but I bang probably 5+. I wouldn't be caught dead with an ugly chick. It's just not a good look and if I'm not proud of them then it's not something worth doing. Reality doesn't always measure up to our standards, so bang away but keep relationship status for your standards.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:00 PM
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You know what gives me the energy to work out? Thinking about my ex-girl friend who left me for some gym bro. Fuck her. I'm going to have an amazing body not for her, but for myself. You need to decide what kind of man you want to then proceed.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:52 PM
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Be Healthy erection quality has a lot to do with how aroused you are with the woman.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:43 PM
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You are what they call 'beta bucks', if she doesn't want to fuck then she doesn't really like you the way you need her to. You should probably eject, but more importantly read up Rational Male, The Book of Pook, 3% Man or dive into youtube Red Pill. There are as many red flags as a commie parade bro.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:52 PM
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Confidence
/r/askTRP18/03/20 04:57 AM
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You're fine, you got it!
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:39 PM
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For years. Yeah just got the audio of that, Corey is a solid source.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:52 PM
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Just because it bothers them doesn't mean it's not the right approach. Do not over text/snap just because they want it. Text/snap on the 2/3 rule at most
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:51 PM
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First off don't tell some girl you like her. Just be cool and ask her out or invite her to a party. If she goes along great and if not the next. Seduction should be mutual.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:50 PM
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That last paragraph is money, can't believe how many years it's taken me to completely understand how women communicate. This shit should be taught somewhere
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:41 PM
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I honestly think every woman will go through a hoe stage, some for only a year or two and others permanently.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:33 PM
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You can tell you've reached too much comfort in a relationship when the frequency and or intensity of the sex dries up. You just have to keep your mission, life, and gym as the focus. As long as you are prioritizing your life and goals then you can see her often as long as she feels like she's not your focus.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:27 PM
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comfort
/r/askTRP09/03/20 10:08 PM
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it’s all about perception bro. you just gotta learn to have fun with it, enjoy it for what it is. are you saying because girls are whores you wouldn’t enjoy fucking a super model whore? also things can change in your life at literally any moment so even though you don’t know what to look forward to exactly, all you have to do is know there is going to be something that comes your way eventually that if you knew about it today you would have been looking forward to it. And just to add, you need t…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:18 AM
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Life is the greatest gift any of us will ever have and it sounds like you've worked hard and been incredibly blessed. TRP isn't going to solve all of your problems, but it's like the Matrix movie. Reality doesn't always live up to our expectations or dreams, but the only one responsible for your life is you. Accepting the red pill gives you the keys to the kingdom. You're incredibly blessed to have been red pill aware at such a young age, you have everything in front of you. Your life is importa…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:17 AM
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ding ding ding, it's that dopamine rush with some bad bitches that you just aren't always going to get with most women. Accepting that it's gone and moving forward in life is tough, but there's always more out there in this world.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:28 PM
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My ex- was a miss california and was the best sex i've had, but ya know what? Life goes on and it has a way of bringing new and better things if you look for it and continue to improve. I'll do better eventually and I know that because I believe it.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:19 PM
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You should do what you want to do, but it will definitely affect your relationship with those friends. I wouldn't overly worry about your 'first time' or it being special. I can hardly even remember the first time I had sex tbh, but what I do remember is it being awkward and not really that great because you don't really know what you are doing.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:13 PM
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You make it clear that you want to fuck her with kino and whatever, but in terms of your feels and relationship keep her guessing.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:53 PM
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Don't over-invest. By changing your plans you're moving into her frame. Dinner date is too much for a first date in my opinion, but finding a hot chick that isn't a thot on gram is pretty rare.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:51 PM
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Only two things work time and other girls. My ex broke up with me last October and I dreamed about her last night but it's happening less and less with time. Just have to do your best.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:49 PM
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Look everyone has struggles man. Everyone thinks other people are living better lives than them. The first thing you need to do is commit to the gym and eating more. Eat three large meals and have a protein shake after lifting. You have to take action and project what you want in this world, no one is going to give anything to you.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:37 AM
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That bitch is broken, not worth the effort imo. She's only looking to use you and any other guy.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:34 AM
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Only thing that works is dread and competition anxiety. Best move is to ignore her and post pics/vids with you and hotties on social media.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:33 AM
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Those 'friends' who always tried to out do me on everything aren't people i kept around for long. If you are a areal friend you're happy for your friend's successes and aren't constantly comparing yourself.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:42 PM
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Well, as long as your 'frustrated' they'll stay far away from you like the plague. Find real sincere confidence in your job, hobbies, gym, whatever and realize that's real value. Women or gaming women or having women is not something that increases your value.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:39 PM
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It should be much easier to 'game' her then.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:34 PM
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Honestly to me it just sounds like a slippery slope I wouldn't want to go down. Degeneracy is just a form of overcompensation for a lack of sexuality in other aspects. This shit is becoming more and more common though so it probably would be safe? Don't let them record it obviously.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:33 PM
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She's in your room for a reason, just go for it.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 09:44 PM
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You are overthinking it. Focus on your mission, school, work, gym, whatever. Women are like cats, you have to let them come to you.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 09:41 PM
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you're a shiny object to them
/r/askTRP05/03/20 09:38 PM
2

Great point.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 09:16 PM
2

Not putting the pussy on the pedestal is basically the gist of the red pill.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:32 PM
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In my opinion, you shouldn't feel obligated to do anything for anyone. If you want to be a nice guy and give some old lady or family your seat then do it, but don't bend over backwards for some twat just because she's female.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:02 PM
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You already know the answer
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:00 PM
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wrap it up
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:38 PM
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We all get the feels, control your thoughts and stay busy.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:35 PM
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When women act wack you do not enable that behavior with more attention. Instead, you pull your attention back and by removing your attention you make it clear you don't accept that behavior.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:30 PM
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If this is with an LTR then a three some will destroy it guaranteed.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:29 PM
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Don't drown yourself in red pill information. Soak in the red pill tenents then focus on other things that make you happy. For me, I noticed when I'm at the gym, making money, or learning more about Crypto I'm happy. Your mission and purpose in life will make you happy not worrying about women.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:27 PM
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Over time you'll forget about her and her ass. I've been with a lot of women and many hot as fuck with great features, but there will always be another piece of ass down the road. Give it time.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:25 PM
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Nope. Sex isn't what you are really after. Be a fucking man and improve yourself.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:56 PM
1

All great suggestions, but coach red pill is my favorite all around red pill youtuber. He makes compelling arguments in a really entertaining way.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:04 AM
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If you listen and obey women it'll make them happy, but not more attracted to you. Always live in your frame.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:00 AM
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Yeah you're right! Chasing her would definitely not help my case. Have to refocus to what makes me happier (achieving goals). Don't reply. She'll let you know or she's just letting you down easy.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:56 AM
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There's no full-proof way to avoid how you are feeling. It's part of life and how you handle it will determine what kind of man you are. My recommendation is to spend time with other plates and just commit to other priorities in your life. You can't do anything to get her back, she has to come back on her own. Anything you try to do to get her attention back will likely just push her further away.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 11:02 PM
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You asked the sub a question and yet are incredibly defensive about the answers? Grow up.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:51 PM
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I'm not smarter, but maybe more experienced? Live and learn brother, good luck.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:19 PM
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Most of the time you're right they don't come back. But if you pursue a chick that is overtly saying she wants new dick then you'll look pathetic and just make her permanently write you off as a loser. You can't force things with women, they either want it or they don't. The only 'tricks' that work are dread and maybe posting some pics or videos of you with other hot chicks on social media to get her hamster wheel going. Do not think you're smarter than everyone else on this forum, we are speaki…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:00 PM
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You have to commit to having a lower level of interest then she does. Say 'cool' and do not pursue at all. Maybe even block her number for a couple weeks. Move on mentally if there is anything there she'll have to come back around, but the only thing you can do is make it worse by pursuing.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 09:22 PM
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Too risky.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 09:20 PM
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You are the star and writer of your own movie. What happens next is primarily up to you.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 09:19 PM
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The truth comes out after sex. If you don't feel connected after ejaculation then the girl isn't one you biologically want to have a serious LTR with.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 09:16 PM
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Because in some way or another most men can relate to all of the issues and stories that others share.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 09:12 PM
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Because ugly/average girls know that you'll eventually throw them to the side or ditch them. They are used to being used as doormats.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:08 PM
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Also if you really want to 'bulk' up drink a lot of milk.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:06 PM
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Buy and eat a lot of eggs. They are cheap and packed with protein.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:05 PM
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Ding ding ding. Being rejected from some rando should not effect you at all. When a more serious relationship leads with her rejecting you then you need to assess and take it personally.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:04 PM
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Block, delete, and time. Realize that if you improve yourself you can do better, promise you that.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:59 PM
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This type of text should come out once a month or on a very rare occasion. Send these text too often and you come off as a beta with oneitis. Build mystery, be busy, do not over text and give her a play by play.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:54 PM
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Listen to your gut and next this bitch.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:52 PM
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This is golden. Unfortunately once a woman has moved to overt communication it's usually too late.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 07:45 PM
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AMS, Coach Red Pill, 33 Secrets, Entrepeneurs in Cars, Rian Stone, and obviously Rollo Tomassi.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 09:17 AM
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Interesting way to put it, but hits the nail on the head.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 09:06 AM
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Funny, but largely true for hot chicks.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 08:36 AM
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Get yourself out there. Go to lib/class and chat people up. One by one. Join a cultural org. This is how I made friends in college. Had a blast. just be a friend to anyone in college that you can and network. You need to find some friend groups for the parties, you can do it.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:10 PM
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If you are serious about lifting then take the time to get to know the staff and other regulars. You get out of it what you put in.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:56 PM
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I've heard him recommend the rational male before, he's light weight red pill, but definitely not blue pill.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:34 PM
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Yeah, I really wasted my twenties. You wake up at 30 and realize, holy shit life flies by fast.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 06:40 PM
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Chasing is feminine energy, men should pursue but never force relationships. A woman trying to tame the male beast is much more in frame for both sides. I think when a man over pursues and a woman eventually ends up with them you are usually seeing an example of Beta Bucks as a woman hits her wall.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:47 PM
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I would say Texas or the mountain west, think AZ, Utah, Colorado, or Nevada.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:43 PM
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Focus on improving yourself, have a lot of friends, and then just let the girls come to you.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:05 AM
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it can take a while, put yourself in positions to meet people then just let it happen.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:04 AM
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Relax brotha, life changes and a new girl you are attracted to and connect with will come along. It always takes time. P.S. Block her number and on all social sites
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:53 AM
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They fucked you on the first date, they are sluts. It sounds like the hot sluts that you are struggling with. RAISE SMV
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:50 AM
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You'll feel better once you set your sight on a big goal and are making daily progress toward it. My career has stagnated a bit too and it's been very difficult to cope, but don't distract yourself with boos, focus on figuring out your life.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:19 AM
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Some people aren't open to new ideas, but it's worth a shot to try to show your pops de way
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:09 PM
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here's and old post from the red pill sub https://archive.ph/iYXcR#selection-2993.239-2993.357
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:18 AM
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Everyone gets this, but realize she isn't special. There's some beta AFC out there who would probably drop her in an instant. Do not pedastalize her in your mind, you'll find someone else you like but putting her own a pedastal won't work either way.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:46 PM
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Remember, any relationship is a woman's job. Women have to make relationships work, men can't force them onto women. Give this gal a little space and let her re-engage with you.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:59 PM
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Only times I banged a fatty was after a horrible LTR breakup. But it's gross man, don't make it a normal thing.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:26 PM
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Life is a roller coaster with high highs and low lows. Recognize where you are and that the only way to go is up if you decide that's what you want. There's no silver bullet just you taking charge of your life day by day, moment by moment, and eventually one day you'll feel better about your life. Oh and obviously hit the gym/protein and get back into shape for starters.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 12:01 AM
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Focus on wanting and loving yourself and your life. When you are happy and content in your mission and direction in life then people and especially women will gravitate towards you.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 11:56 PM
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Teach her bro
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:05 AM
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Get over it, I've had a client pay me a year after the deal closed. Business is risk, you manage it by keep expectations low.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:40 PM
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With sex it's two strikes and you're out. If your dick is getting hard for her though then there is potential.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:37 PM
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action dates my friend. Take her on a drive, hike, go shooting, do something and have fun. Think of what you would do for fun then invite her along. You focus on having fun for yourself first and she's along for the ride.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:17 PM
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You must be a nice guy
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:29 PM
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Try bartending on the weekends at a cool restaurant or bar to make friends. I've moved cities a couple of times and as long as you are in 20s to early 30s it's a great way to make friends and grow your social circle. You need to focus on doing things that are social where you can see the same group on a regular basis. An example is like instead of lifting one day at the gym go to a yoga class or whatever. Something you do every week so that you become a regular and become friends with the people…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:27 PM
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Go nofap
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:15 PM
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ding ding ding, credentials are a reflection of intelligence to women.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:08 PM
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Intelligence is gleaned from money, looks, fame, personality etc. "Intelligence" is a lagging indicator not valuable solely on it's own.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:05 PM
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Totally correct, there is a bit of fomo involved there though.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:04 PM
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I dream about my ex from a few months ago at least 1-2 times a week. You have to pretend to forget them and eventually you will. Block and delete on all social media and focus on other women.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:00 PM
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It doesn't really work. Maybe if she's a friend of a friend and you have something in common you can get some dialogue going, but messaging random chicks on IG is for losers. Hot girls you need to game in person.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:34 AM
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Go to a gym, go out on the weekends, if you want to meet people then you need to go where people are.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:33 PM
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Regardless of what books you read, focus on MPO, your mission, and not putting your LTR on a pedestal. Do those three things and you should be in control.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:28 PM
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Just do stuff, get out of the house. You're only 19 you have your entire life in front of you, why waste it?
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:25 PM
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If you didn't give it to her and she was clean when you got together then she cheated on you. Luckily chlamydia can go away with medication and it shouldn't be too expensive, but you need to sit that gal down and have a talk.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:19 PM
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Bud, I didn't read the entire wall of text, but here's the thing. You're only 16, just have fun and make sure to learn from your experiences with women. From what I've read break up with her. If she really likes you she'll come back around and make it clear.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:13 PM
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Seriously, a bitch like that can own you man. Be careful.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 08:28 PM
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She left you because you put her on a pedestal. Any time you put a woman on a pedestal or get oneitis they will leave you because you've created the illusion in your head that she is better than you and so, of course, she thinks she can do better. Just take this as an opportunity to learn and grow and not fuck up next time. Meet girls, date, lift, focus on your mission, it always takes time to get over women you cared about.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:33 PM
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NoFap is the way to go
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:29 PM
3

laughing about inviting him is definitely something to keep an eye out for
/r/askTRP28/01/20 01:59 AM
3

AMS, Coach Red Pill, Entrepreneurs in Cars, Rian Stone
/r/askTRP28/01/20 01:47 AM
1

Don't even have to be having sex with another woman, but you need to have options. Don't marry her in your head until you literally marry her.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:54 PM
1

Look, you clearly have your head on somewhat straight because you recognize you're putting her on a pedestal. But you are definitely pedestalizing her, you need to step back and make sure you put her and your relationship in the proper context which is a compliment to your life not your life. What country to do you live in? How old are you? She's too young and if you are that age too then you are WAY too young. LTR her and enjoy the ride, but take her off the pedestal and have a side chick.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:23 PM
2

Just put yourself in more opportunities to meet women. Day game/approach more, bumble more, etc. You will find someone, but you need to put yourself in the right position and be the right person.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:14 PM
1

Eat, protein, lift. This is a BS line " I’m scared to change myself and become someone I’m not." Either take action and improve your life or continue to be a loser because brotha, at 6'3 at 140lbs you are not going to be attracting the women you actually want. I can tell you I was not consistent with my lifting until one of my ex-girlfriends was leaving me and said "you should go to the gym." I never wanted to hear those words again so what started off as anger eventually blossomed into a habit …
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:29 PM
3

Always rubber unless exclusive LTR IMO
/r/askTRP27/01/20 07:48 PM
4

You're a man. BE A MAN. Just remember she wants it as bad if not more than you do.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 06:45 PM
2

I feel pretty shit a lot of the time, totally understand. I've realized I'm happiest under a couple circumstances. Stay busy, lifting, working out, work, school, whatever. Stay busy on different projects that are improving your life. Build meaningful relationships with family and friends. Cut out as much as possible drugs, smoking, drinking, fapping, video games, and TV. As a man your life only has as much value as you squeeze out of it. Just remember, 'this is water'! https://www.youtube.com/wa…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 06:27 PM
3

Read the above books and then keep rereading any time you need to
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:58 PM
3

If she wasn't a 'looker' then take it as a blessing. Unfortunately, it always takes time to heal from these emotional investments. But you learned a lot of valuable lessons that you can now apply to get an entirely hotter and better chick. Your greatest accomplishments usually stem from the greatest failures. You are here now, learning, growing, becoming the best version of yourself. That is WAY more important than any woman. I just lost a LTR with a fucking beauty queen but you know what? I sti…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:53 PM
2

From time to time I've had PE. Here are my sincere tips: It's in your head. Ejaculation is all mental brother. Get out of your head and try to just feel without being over-excited. Jerk it 20-30 minutes before sex if possible. Even if you need to right before sex you can just extend foreplay until you stiffen up again. Use a rubber. Have more sex, more sex the less PE.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:33 PM
2

You know it in your gut.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:15 PM
2

Have you read Models by Mark Manson? Could help you.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 07:15 PM
1

Valuable post, thank you OP
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 01:02 AM
1

How do you go out with girls 3x a week, and also go out with your friends 3x a week? What do you do when you match with 5+ girls, do you just schedule have of them for next week? I mean 2-3 times for friends and girls. For guys, you really only need 2-3 real guy friends.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:55 PM
1

Everything in life can be fun and exciting, but it's a conscientious choice you make. I've known dudes and chicks like this where they always have fun doing anything anywhere. That should be your mindset, don't see your life as boring habits, but fun and exciting days. If you need to spice up what you're doing then do that! Take a weekend trip, camp, beach, whatever but be active.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:48 PM
3

Go to New York
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:01 PM
1

Balance, I try to go out with friends/girls 2-3 times a week. The rest of the week focus on your purpose.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:00 PM
1

If he's working out it will distribute in a healthy way and be WAY better than 140lbs. At 170lbs he would still have hella low body fat
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:55 PM
1

alk to women you're attracted to wherever they are just don't be an idiot about it. You can talk to women without risking your job.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:18 PM
1

some 'fat' is WAY better than 140 lbs at 5'11
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:01 AM
-5

"don't shit where you eat" is dumb. Talk to women you're attracted to wherever they are just don't be an idiot about it. Ask girls for their numbers then ask them out. Try to stay consistent on lifting and studies but at your age, you need to focus on your social life and having fun. Besides that add another hobby or side hustle that is fun and social into your life. There's more to life than lifting and school.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:53 AM
1

OP is 140 at 5'11. IF he eats 3 meals a day plus drinks a gallon of milk daily and works out every day for 30 days he'll gain like 30 pounds in a month and a lot will be muscle. He'll transform his life quick and women will notice.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:49 AM
1

Think about your future. Go talk to other girls even if they aren't up to your standards. You'll feel better when you are excited about your future.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:04 PM
1

Don't be a fag, go to a real gym 5-6 days a week with a real workout routine. If you really want to get buff quick, go to the gym and lift HEAVY every day for a month and also drink a gallon of milk every day for that same month. By the end of the month you'll have women fighting for you.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:03 PM
1

. It's been a year from when I got tht bj. Girls are repulsed, but I feel like I'd have to be a quarterback lookin I was totally messed up in the head too, you'll get there.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:01 PM
3

Yes it dramatically declines, but you need to put in the effort to have friends and have a social group. Once college years end it can be really easy to lose your social life, but you need it man. In a LTR you especially need to maintain your social life.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:20 PM
1

This is so frustrating. It's been a year from when I got tht bj. Girls are repulsed, but I feel like I'd have to be a quarterback looking douche to get a girl that doesnt want a beta bitch. I'm not that preppy guy and I wont be one. Also embrace your sexuality, women like the horny guys.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:12 PM
1

Realize this, the pain associated with some random bimbo denying you is much less than the long term pain of regret and not taking the chance.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:12 PM
10

"more red flags than a communist parade," LOL GOLD. BTW All bi girls are complete sluts, never a good idea to LTR one because they are fundamentally broken.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 06:05 PM
0

I've seen it work for facial hair, but i've always found their facial hair to look dumb AF
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:53 PM
3

^ this, next and do better
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:51 PM
2

I always recommend the book Models by Mark Manson, long story short be yourself. Just not a needy insecure version of yourself and girls who like you for you will be into it.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:48 PM
-1

Bigger issues to address than the specific message, figure that out!
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:44 PM
1

If you didn't want to marry her or w/e then you made the right decision. There will be a lot of pain and regret 'feelings' but stay the course. You can and will do better, but it may take some time. She was broken and unhappy, you can't fix it and never would have.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:38 PM
6

The very top tier of women aren't really on dating apps and have so many guys blowing up their insta that they wouldn't even have time for tinder or bumble. That being said, there is a place for dating apps to finds some decent plates imho.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 10:22 PM
3

Honestly, there is a million reasons why she flaked. Unfortunately, it most likely has something to do with her perception of you. You should think about your interaction with her see if you can point out where you may have made a mistake then move on. Hit her up one more time, then the balls in her court. I can't tell you how many times I thought I had a great time or date or hook up and the chick went ghost on me. Figure out why if you can then move on. Don't dwell, tis life and it won't be th…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:54 AM
1

It sounds like the approaches may have been a little goofy and forced, but! You made the effort and just as the second approach was easier than the first, the more approaches and putting yourself out there the easier it will get. It is a numbers game at the end of the day, some women will like you and most won't so don't take it personally and continue to approach daily.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:50 AM
2

ks over longer distances than other attractions, but like gravity vs. the other forces, it's not the strongest, that's inner ga 100%, Models is the best seduction book i've ever read.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:28 AM
2

you've obviously not been the same man in 2 different bodies. I've lost over 100# of fat and put on 30# of muscle in under 2 years and I did it for me. period. Oh for sure that will make a HUGE difference, but eventually, you realize your body is just another way to attract. It never seals the deal.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 08:56 PM
2

I don't think you should count or expect fitness to raise your SMV too much. It's a huge positive, but personality and lifestyle are the key.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:51 PM
1

One more thing, start hitting up and talking to other girls now. I've seen this movie myself many times and honestly, I would bet this relationship is kaput.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:46 AM
1

Friend, now is the time for you to really focus. Focus on yourself and your goals, if she is distant then you need to reciprocate that distance by being on your purpose. Do not beg or negotiate for sex, if she doesn't put out after you make a move then you let it go. Do not be a slave to pussy. If she ask for space or whatever then show her the door. DO NOT GIVE UP YOUR DIGNITY. REMEMBER SHE IS REPLACEABLE, YOU ARE THE PRIZE. BELIEVE IT!
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:40 AM
1

Focus on other chicks bottom line. I don't care if you are emotionally invested in them or not, you need to take your mind off this hoe.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 09:10 PM
2

Dude edibles and weed will slow you down full stop. It's a very insidious drug because it can seem harmless, but it's extremely unproductive. I highly recommend you leave that shit in the past, men shouldn't be getting high on a regular basis.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 08:38 PM
1

We all do stupid shit, no worries. Focus on turning your shit around and upgrade, that's the best revenge.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 08:36 PM
1

100%
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:16 PM
1

try all three and stick with which you enjoy the most
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:11 PM
2

who fights? what do you mean by 'kick ass'? I think most hot chicks are on the feminine side of things and that clearly doesn't include wanting to fight.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:09 PM
3

You did the right thing, can't imagine how difficult this must be for you.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 09:29 PM
1

You have a good body for you.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:37 PM
1

She either wants you to propose or wants to break up with you/
/r/askTRP19/12/19 10:36 PM
2

I'm not saying show her your bank statement, but bottling things up inside can make things much worse. Showing a little vulnerability from a position of strength and confidence is better than hiding shame. The truth is always shining through.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 08:28 PM
2

Bitches like guys who have confidence and a plan, the money is a byproduct. In retrospect I should of been more open about my money issues and explained my plan out. Ignoring it and pretending it wasn't happening only compounded the problem.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:14 PM
174

Let me tell you my story... A couple years ago I broke up with my LTR of 5 years. She was great but clearly had Daddy issues and wasn't as intelligent socially as I wanted my future kids to be. Till this day I still wonder if I made the right decision breaking it off, I still dream about her. Well after about 6-7 months I had finally hit the contentment stage. I was seeing a couple chicks, but not seriously. I was happy with my work, gym, purpose, and my journey. Well at that exact time an absol…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 07:47 AM
2

Are you over weight?
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:46 AM
4

I would HIGHLY recommend reading Models and No More Mr. Nice Guy. You need to find happiness and validation within yourself at the end of the day. Plenty of time for you to find a girl.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:37 AM
1

Have you tried different styles of facial hair? Somethings we can't change about our looks, work on things you can control.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:06 PM
2

ghost
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:57 PM
1

Taking women shooting always gets the juices flowing
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:56 PM
4

mewing can help, look it up
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:56 PM
1

How 'Loving Kindness' Meditation can improve your inner-game (self esteem). do you have a link to the original thread? Can't find it
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:41 PM
6

that's not how it works, can have a total babe and still watch a lot of porn.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:38 PM
3

100% here, if you become stagnant she will lose respect for you. You must be focused on improving your life and your mission at all times with high SMV women.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:34 PM
3

I'm 30 and my LTR over a year and half was 20-21. It can obviously be rocky, but tbh our break up had nothing to do with age.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:33 PM
2

Did she have a ring? Was it obvious she was married? Don't be a bitch when some ahole starts yelling at you. Stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:31 PM
1

a lot of tinder is women validation seeking, you didn't do anythign wrong.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:28 PM
3

The hottest and downest girls I've gotten over my 30 years on this planet all came to me. Be social, be authentic, be on your mission, make sure you put yourself in situations with women around and let them come brotha.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:26 PM
1

This is the exact chapter I'm on, good timing.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:40 AM
1

Don't, you need to focus on liking yourself more.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:23 AM
11

I feel this gets lost often in the red pill community. I've been there living a stagnated lazy life and any and all red pill on top of that life is just bullshit. You must 100% be focused on your life and 'mission' to have a fulfilling life and be an alpha. Alpha you is really on the the real you.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 06:25 AM
1

You're too big man, go for a natural fit look. You prob need to lose 40 pounds.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:32 PM
3

Finding a women that you have that special connection with just doesn't come around every day no matter how high your SMV. Just keep doing what you're doing and focus on you. A girl you want a LTR with will appear when you're ready.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:30 PM
2

Get a paternity test, but if it is your child then you need to raise it. You shouldn't let your DNA get fucked up by refusing to give your offspring a father.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:20 PM
5

Think about it, every woman who truly appreciated you wanted to. If she doesn't want to then she'll never be able to truly put in the time and effort to discover the great things about you.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 06:09 PM
1

South Bay is also horrible, moving to Utah soon.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 01:50 AM
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