Confused between making your intentions know and making her wonder where she stands.

wowkwo · 2020-03-06T18:53:23+00:00

You make it clear that you want to fuck her with kino and whatever, but in terms of your feels and relationship keep her guessing.

IXseed · 2020-03-06T19:03:53+00:00

Basically do everything to let the girl know you wanna fuck her without str8 up SAYING you want to.

Flirt with/hit on her. Escalate. All that shit. But throw in the phony shit to help her out. She's coming to your place to do ANYTHING but fuck you but any bitch worth her salt knows what's gonna happen if you 2 are alone at someone's place together.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-03-06T20:45:28+00:00

you're intentions are "what you want from her"

where she stands: "how high she ranks"

they are not connected.

AhIndeed · 2020-03-06T18:32:56+00:00

Your intentions are to maximize your potential with a hot girl on your side. Your intention is not to serve a woman or a be a beta provider. So yes, make your intentions clear, but make sure they arent pussy. As far as you are concerned, you dont know if this girl is wifey material.

RedSkeller · 2020-03-06T18:48:19+00:00

It's push pull to keep her guessing. If you have a true abundance mentality then it will come off with your actions, something best developed over time and comes with experience. When you're with her, it's the ability to be intimate and remain mysterious. Ultimately, you don't care and are a bit reckless because you have other options. If you're completely cold and a dick to a woman, and hurt her emotionally without any sort of tact or playfulness, she will fuck off on her own and quickly.

Mr-Blonde123 · 2020-03-07T11:18:43+00:00

Ime as an older guy I find kino works and you get a feel for them and how receptive they are to your touch. I’ve been successful with lays within an hour of meeting but girls also want comfort. I won’t always go for same day lays, kino and a kiss works to set up a second date if she’s invested , you got to get the balance between them not feeling like a slut and showing your intentions just right. Trial and error, what works for one doesn’t always work for another

nexther · 2020-03-06T18:33:51+00:00

You need to lead. If you tell her what to do, she’s way more likely to do it.

“If you come back to my place, I will fuck you.”

Title	Confused between making your intentions know and making her wonder where she stands.
Author	Alcatraz-12
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	March 6, 2020 6:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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