I always wondered why women say they want one thing but they truly want the opposite

When I read, the themes I stumbled upon included, them being unsure to what they really want, them mimicking other people, them being just generally deceiving, them testing you to gauge who you truly are.

Now I finally understand it, all thanks to my ontetis. I gave her some dread, and she kept hamstring and trying to get on my good side.

Long story short, we were sexting and I asked for nudes. She sent one, then I asked for more, she sent again, then I kept asking for better and better nudes and she kept sending. Until one pose she diplomatically said no.

Literally after every picture, I was disappointed. Lets see why

Did I want the nudes? YES.

Was I asking for more? YES

Was i deceiving her, did i not know what i want, was I following the crowd, was I testing her? No. I knew exactly what I want, In the moment, nudes. After that initial rush of getting them faded tho, another want surfaced. A deeper, stronger want: her to say no. I wanted her to be my unicorn.

Both of these wants are genuine; unfortunately they are mutually exclusive. One of them represents a much stronger and deeper want, a want for genuinity. This want cannot be fulfilled by expression, it can only be deducted. This want is at the base of everything, but is never mentioned; however, everything that is mentioned is related to it.

This is why women test, relentlessly.

This is why high value men test. Not because they do not know what they want, but because they know that the answer for their deepest desires can only be reached by observing actions