How do you accept defeat?

MisfitPL9 · 2020-05-26T02:59:20+00:00

You accept it buy admitting you dodged a bullet ( going off your post history )

She was a high level thot with major red flags. You werent beaten by anyone so dont beat yourself up over it

thrwy75479 · 2020-05-26T03:07:50+00:00

Work on what you can control, let go of the rest.

alphaonthecomeup · 2020-05-26T03:36:49+00:00

Accept what happened: you broke up with you gf. Don’t idealize it though and say you were defeated boss.

It’s highkey about the mindset you have, try to change some of your thoughts - you won , now that (non perfect) girl is his problem, hope he enjoys MY left overs and the taste of my cum.

You also gotta stop focusing on her and focus on yourself and how you’re gonna level up and bag a bitch that’s badder than her.

In 10 years she’ll be ehh and you’ll still be bagging badder bitches then her IF you do the right things and set yourself up.

I understand that shit so gonna hurt tho, I am still hurting too cause of my shit, don’t think I’m high and mighty, but yo you’re alive and you got one life, try to minimize the time you wallow and max out the time you are feeling good about whatever it is that you are doing.

Good luck

Conflicted1121 · 2020-05-26T03:01:46+00:00

You quit comparing yourself to others. You don't have model looks, who cares. Many of the greatest men in history didn't. Build on your strengths and don't take branch swinging so personally. It happens to everyone

Coolmariner1992 · 2020-05-26T07:01:13+00:00

You were not defeated my friend. Was only your turn. Now is his. Then will be from another one. And so on, until she finally is old and finds a beta bucks.

Meloxian · 2020-05-26T18:03:52+00:00

Go suck his dick like your ex since you think so highly of him.

Look man, for your own sake understand this - some motherfuckers were born lucky; tall, good looking, whatever; girls give more of a fuck about behavior than looks.

Theres 3.5 billion girls out there, if you become alpha you’re going to fuck a hell of a lot of them.

This isn’t the old west, the town is more than big enough for the two of you to get your dicks sucked, but you can’t control him so it doesn’t matter, focus on youZ

latrobe1000 · 2020-05-26T08:31:26+00:00

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Guarnerre1995 · 2020-05-26T09:16:28+00:00

Its his problem now. Move on

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-05-26T15:10:49+00:00

Work on what you can, let go of what you can't.

Title	How do you accept defeat?
Author	latrobe1000
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	May 26, 2020 2:53 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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