This goes for two girls. Ive known both of them for years. Been friends with both, received nudes from both. Both have gotten boyfriends but they still talk to me. I barely compliment them but they compliment me occasionally, arguably more than i do. One of them moved away from their boyfriend(still with them) and is now 30 minutes away from me. They now only talk to me when they’re struggling now. Never for advice, but what I would do if I was her boyfriend. The other one regardless that they have a boyfriend still regularly compliments me. I am a disgusting perverted person and(frankly) don’t think either of their relationships will last with reason. Is it orbiting for me to stay in contact and should i just move on? Or should i wait until shit hits the fan with both. (clearly i think theyre attractive and wouldn’t mind a fuck(this hasnt happened for either due to distance which isnt a problem anymore) .) My confusion here is that i don’t know if this makes me a beta for “waiting” and having them as temporary friends while they’re doing whatever or if this makes me alpha since they’re generally the ones giving me attention on the side indicating they’ll want me if anything goes wrong since idc either way.