Why is everyone so hostile when I prefer statistics over personal examples?

What’s wrong with favoring realism and statistics over that “one guy that made it” (BRUTAL SCIENCEPILL WARNING)

Can we just be realistic about how it is statistically likely that I was genetically destined to fail. (Stay out if the truth hurts)

Before anyone says I’m being pessimistic, I’m being realistic with the facts. I do In fact understands that personality matters however looks are technically more important because they come first when you don’t know a person’s personality, they decide if you want to get to know that person in the first place. Meaning A man's personality only matters to a woman if he meets her basic looks cutoff firs

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This IS NOT. A PITY PARTY FOR THE PEOPLE BUTTHURT ABOUT NOT BEING ABLE to accept the truth for the way it is. I’m not saying it’s completely impossible because we do have some short or ugly men that just get by with women. However the majority of them are either rich, famous, or were born before the time of the rapid expansion of Online dating.

I am looking for a good argument that can change my view besides some random just posting a picture of some RICH and FAMOUS short/ugly Dude and telling me that “X” trait doesn’t matter

I just want to say, Try being optimistic when you were dealt a very shitty hand and people call you lazy for saying that you cannot get anywhere, try being optimistic when women treated you like shit for just being around them. Never having a first date, or a hug, or even holding a girls hand.

Due to my looks, I was romantically outcasted by women, socially outcasted and treated like a creep everyday in my developmental years and always had to fend for myself. I TRIED this “buy this book, wear a nice suit” nonsense, it doesn’t get you nowhere and I LEARNED that the hardway. Both by researches investigating human interaction in looks and my own personal experiences.

You want to know What I learned what makes women not want to get to know me?

Reason 1: I am 5’3, making me look like a child to most people (I often get asked if I’m lost if I’m in a public place)

FACT, most women are around 5’4 in the United States from the CDC

Also fact, the majority of women will refuse to date a man just for his height alone if he’s too short, it gets worse, I didn’t factor in race or height.

A man's height determines his dating pool. Over 94% of women reject men for being "too short"

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I’m not facially “ugly” per say but I’m facially unattractive and I have thinning hair, I shave every once and a while and I look worse because of my bad head shape. Not every dude has a head built like the rock or vin diesel. I go to the gym every now and then but I accepted that it isn’t going to do shit. Especially for a 5’3, ugly guy like me. Men that are already attractive (either have a good face or decently tall) don’t need to go to the gym, buy all of these expensive books, name brand clothing, dating courses etc. they just Are attractive. Attractiveness can not be taught, it is something you are born with.

I am not a quitter, due to something called 21st century magic I can still improve myself, I discovered a few surgeries, most notably I can grinding money for a hairline transplant and a leg lengthening operation .