Every girl I’ve been going out with from meeting them on tinder or bumble give me some lame bs oh you have to wait 3 dates for sex. We have sexual convos and I make them laugh and everything. Then they hit me with “I want to get to know you more”. My question is how do I get around this. This girl yesterday we were talking about past sex and she asked me have u hooked up with someone u didn’t know I said ya, I asked her the same thing she said yes also when she was drunk. But that was the “old” her. She’s changed and now I have to take her on 3 dates 🙄. This happens all the time. Eventually if I take them on enough dates I get the guts but why don’t they see me as alpha? I got a nice car good job 22 years old. The convos are sexual and we make out but I get no action

She also was like usually guys that are cute aren’t that funny but I got both.