The Exceptions

eatfleshdrinkblood · 2023-09-18T16:27:04+00:00

The only women I had in my life was my Mom,Grandma,my aunt and great aunt. I still loved them and didn’t think any differently of them,my whole thing was reading about red and black pill made me feel inadequate and like I wouldn’t be good enough for women my age and I felt they probably looked at me with digust. So I didn’t bother dating because I thought why? I’m just going to fail so I just tried to accept a life as a forever alone MGTOW incel even though I didn’t want to. Edit tbh believing in the pills made me extremely miserable.

No_Poet_7335 · 2023-09-18T19:53:31+00:00

The red pill has the concept of high value women and they think modern women are worse then the ones from the past. So if you have a sister that is good you tell yourself she is a high quality woman, if your mother and grandmother are good then they are old fashioned and not like the degenerate modern woman. The red pill has ways of explaining these inconsistencies, it wouldn't be this big if it hadn't. That's why the blackpill and MGTOW are still small, they think all women are awful. For smaller things cognitive dissonance will do, the red pill programs your mind to think in a certain way so that even after you left, the way of thinking about women will remain for a few years more depending on your level of self awareness.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-18T16:18:20+00:00

Even in the height of my time as a Red Pill guy (I still sort of am, just way less involved with it nowadays, I don't like the direction it's gone in) I still had more female than male friends, a massive part of that was purely for them to introduce me to more women so I could fuck, I never outright said it, it definitely was an added bonus. Of course I valued them as friends, but that aspect they brought to the table was huge.

a5lahan · 2023-09-19T10:23:22+00:00

"How do you say awful things about women and minorities and try to say “but not you” to a woman in your life?"?

Who said i say awful things about women? I just accepted harsh truths about majority of women (for example that vast majority of men are invisible for them, that promiscuity is getting more accepted than never before, that with dating apps standards got higher than never before, so i need to put much more work on myself to even be visible in the dating pool, etc)

I accepted that im not that guy yet, so I'm trying to better myself in every single way. Whats wrong with that? Why people call it toxic? Just because of bad apples?

TurtleTonyG · 2023-09-19T05:09:48+00:00

I'm still in awe of how I ended up in this subreddit. I'm not a red pill guy by the means of what they go through.

I have success at dating and mating. However, maybe because I understand the zeitgeist, the algorithm told me to speak out for these lads. I did use to be under 6 feet, broke, and heavily ignored by women in HS.

Love,

Imagine growing up a straight person who is attracted to the opposite sex. Imagine being socially awkward. Not as an outcast, btw. You're an above average bloke, on the shorter side (5'7), skinny as a twig because your metabolism burns off everything you consume. Imagine not being charismatic, but just a normal everyday lad.

No one wants to fuck you. You're broke, even if you grow up in the middle class. You drive an average small car. You work at McDonald's, flipping burgers and chips, and you dress from the gap.

You go through HS single, because you can't whip up the courage to ask out the girl you grew up with...or in my case she's dating a teammate of yours who is low key a legendary mate. You're still jealous, though.

You go off to Uni, and you're not blessed to blossom into an Adonis like I did, but stay a 5'9 "160lb gent. You dive into your classes and only hang out with guys like you. You stay shy and get shot down at the two or three girls you form a connection with. Everyone tells you that you're not that type of guy. Meanwhile, the girl they crush on walks out of my room at 6 am, wearing what you saw her in last night.

They graduate and get a job where it continues to snowball. They download apps, and they get zero likes... or likes from women, they have zero attraction too. They try and go out, but now they face off against guys like me, only worse... I got bread now. Try buying a cute girl a drink when I'm doing bottle service.

I know this because I talk to these dudes when I game. I hear the story so much. Wonderful lads who would love a woman with all their heart, but can't meet up with a single lass who would remotely entertain them. They do what everyone does, including you love...

They look for answers. When you hear Mgtow and Red Pill as a 26 yo virgin who did everything right, that message would sound sweet af.

That's my issue here. So many people who don't know what these men have gone through, but want to judge them. They toss the term incel around like an insult...

Involuntarily Celibate. Look at the first word, love.

It breaks my heart seeing lads so miserable. Sure, some if not most have issues to work on... but what do you expect?

We as a society, will be patient and love the hell out of abused and abandoned dogs... but a lad who is just a bit unsure of himself, we ridicule him.

I get that the message is sexist... but look at propaganda against the Japanese during WW2.

I hope if you read this, you can have a bit more compassion for these lads.

Want to change him? Help him get what he wants in life. At the end of the day, these men feel mistreated and unloved. Answer with love.

You don't have to get into bed with him, just listen and understand.

GarlicCarlin · 2023-09-20T17:13:20+00:00

No sane person would actually talk like this, right?

It’s amusing that he brought up the Madonna whore complex, did he actually explained to you what it is?

Title	The Exceptions
Author	hellomle
Upvotes	12
Comments	37
Date	September 18, 2023 3:25 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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