Me [21m] / She [22F, HB7 maybe 8]

Little background:

I'm an unemployed part-time student, though, I have lots of things going on. I'm kind of apprentice in a parliamentary office and I have a lot of work.

She's a party animal and also part-time student.

[We couldn't set up date for about 2 weeks]

She approached me first long time ago but she had a BF back then and beside that I was an AFC, wasn't even interested in her (I thought she was "2hot4me").

Anyway, bam, seddit comes to the game, AFC changed into more outgoing, self-confident guy.

The date

We finally set a date on last Saturday at 5pm at a bar near our university. At 4:50pm she texts me that she brought her friends [2 girls]. Didn't text her back, just headed to the bar.

At first, she apologized me that it turned that way, that she met her friends at a bar and they wanted to meet me and bla bla bla. I smiled and said "That's ok", I introduced myself, headed to the bar and ordered a beer.

I'm not going to tell you about everything that we talked about, I'll just say that after 1h I totally and undeniably "won that group". All 3 girls were trying to get my attention - especially the one that got a little too drunk. They all felt comfortable in my presence and opened up.

Time passes by, we're having fun, drinking, I'm in the center of attention, my target starts to feel more and more comfortable with me so I started kino her a little more. Putting my arm behind her back, pulling her in because "I can't hear her", whispering into her ear, no rejection so I'm going a little further - playing with her hair, heavy eye contact, putting my hand on her thigh, still no rejection. She moved her body even closer to me; when she did that I started playing with her fingers, again, no rejection, she played along. I take that as massive IOIs.

Of course I didn't do all those things in like 5 mins. I took it slow.

Anyway... by the moment when I was playing with her fingers, she was all over me, sitting very close, putting her head on my arm, things like that. From what she said some time before, she was in a relationship for the past 3 years and has some strict rules about dating - had no idea about those "rules" before I tried to kiss her.

Her friends were absorbed with some stuff on ipad [they were totally drunk]. We were sitting close, all over each other so I attempted a kiss, but when I did that, she asked me if it's not too early?. Then she explained me she has some strict rules about dating. F.e. no kissing before 3rd date - erm... ok.

I told her "sure, no rush, I respect that". She replied with a big smile and was even more all over me. We're talking, having fun and then again, she sits super close to me, looks into my eyes, on my lips, back into my eyes and then backs off - happened couple times during the night (I didn't try to kiss her anymore... at the bar).

Her friends went home, we were alone, still talking, having fun and she starts making plans for the next date. Again, comes close to me, eyes-lips-eyes backs off. I acted like I didn't notice anything. Soon after that I had to go, she wanted to accompany me to the bus stop. Agreed to that.

Now, we're walking by a hotel, she stops, looks into my eyes and asks me if I want to rent a room. I go a little cocky/don't care state and say

-So, you changed your value system that quickly?

..we walk away from the hotel and she says:

-No, but I'm sure you'd like to rent a room and spend a night with me!

-Really? How can you tell? You're so cocky! ... shortly after that I grabbed her by her waist, again, she backed off and said "no". Looked into her eyes, smiled and we started walking to the bus stop. She kept bumping into me so I said... well, in english it will sound like a lame text, but it was something like "you're totally into me / all over me" and she replied with "agree and amplify" rule. Hope you got the point.

We're at the bus stop, the bus is coming, I didn't want to try to kiss her again so I decided to give her a little kiss on the cheek, and when I did that ... she turns her head and says "I'll give you kiss on the lips".

Tbh, it wasn't a real kiss. Just a "goodbye something".

The end

I guess made a lot of mistakes or she is just that prude.

What should I work on? Kino was prolly good, maybe I showed a little too much interest, though she still wants to date me.

PS If it's hard to read, too many grammar mistakes, chaotic - please, don't insult me, don't punch me, just say a word and I'll try to edit it more.