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[–]AveofSpades 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Talk to her without caring how she responds. If she intimidates you, just picture her taking a nasty Taco Bell induced liquid dump. As far as rumours and class mates, who gives a fuck what some random people think?
Tangent: this goth chick sat behind me in homeroom in junior high. She wanted my shit but I was freaked out about her Marilyn Manson obsession. Anyway she turned out to be cool and we jived. Come high school, she sucks at Trig and fails it. I tutor her and she then passes. Confesses she's into me and the whole 9. Friend zone her. Goth stuff I'm not into although she has now developed a sick body. Can't date her because worried about what my buddies would say. We ran w different cliques. Anyway, see her a few years back in a magazine. She's a smoking hot Maxim model now. Facebook confirms it.
Don't give a fuck what peers think. Waste of your time.
[–]Nomorefap101[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the awesome encouragement. I will definitely try and talk to her!!!
[–]Repealer 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't go for one girl.
I can't think about anyone else. I will tell you that there have been some girls since her that I know, have liked me. We have had study sessions in my apartment, even watched some shows and shared some pizza, but I couldn't do anything since I like that girl I mentioned in my post. My study buddy girl even called me out on the fact that she is putting her self out there for me and I'm not responding to any of her advances. My answer was I'm not looking for a relationship! :S
[–]wwtfhd 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Id say have a class night out and on the night out try to strike up a conversation. From there initiate kino and see how she responds.
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.
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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
[–]Nomorefap101[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hi, how do I repost? Would I direct them to this post? Or just make a new topic in /askseddit? Thanks
[–]puaCurveBall 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make a new post with same content.
[–]CallGirlRates 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
First of all, fuck the OP. Let them talk. It's just hot air that will fade into nothing. Just walk up to her and say "(her name) can we take a walk?" If she says no ask her again the very next day. Don't ask again if she refuses a second time. You screwed up when you selfishly pushed her away. If she accepts the invitation you need to tell her she is special, and then tell her you wish to be special in her eyes.
[–]Nomorefap101[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
yeah bro, I completely agree, pushed her away. And it's something that has been my problem from the start. I cant seem to get attached to girls that I know like me for some reason. I'm not sure what it is! :(.
There was this one time, this girl was into me mad, and even wanted to kiss, but I backed off and she stopped talking to me now. And we were good friends!
[–]CallGirlRates 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Instead of living in the moment your reading too much into their actions. A kiss doesn't mean give kids and a trailer home.
[–]Nomorefap101[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I know, but the thought that she is even wanting a kiss means she likes me enough to do so. And distance my self from that...self-destructive behavior I guess :S!!
[–]CallGirlRates 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Your just scared of taking that leap. That it's very natural though.
[–]Nomorefap101[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How do I get past it though and make it? This inhibition is strong!!
[–]CallGirlRates 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Just take the leap. The worst that can happen is that you gain another friend.
[–]Nomorefap101[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I spoke to her today, about how things were going and such, but it seems from her responses shes very cold now and not very responsive :S....
[–]CallGirlRates 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She could be having a bad day. Try again. Ask her why she doesn't seem a happy. She will tell you. Don't try to resolve her issue. Just listen to her and tell her she did the right thing.
well, she said she was having a great day...the issue was with the tone of her voice and I think it may be due to not really being the same person I used to after I found out she liked me...and now shes just distancing her self from me Thats just my thought on this!!
[–]CallGirlRates1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
So the tables have turned. She gave up. You don't have to. It may take a while for her to trust you, but she seems worth it. Any photos? You should hide her face.
[–]fashin_throwaway 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This seems like a horrible idea. Telling a girl she's special without building any sort of comfort or connection?
Edit: As for getting rejected, it's not a big deal. Lets say it did spread, if you didn't do it awkwardly that's just a man being ballsy enough to attempt to get a woman. As natural and normal as anything else you could imagine
I've known her for months now, in which time we have gone out as friends and I did talk to her alot, about my love life and about hers! But once I found that she was liking more then a friend, from just sensing her behavior I decided to ignore here/distance myself. This was back last semester. This new semester, she doesn't really talk to me as much/look at me like she used...and now I REALLLy wanna ask her out! The mind is silly, aint it!
[–]fashin_throwaway 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ohhhh, shit. I thought I read she was a girl from your class you liked, I didn't notice anything history
Carry on
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