I know we've all been there-- I wanna get with a good friend but concerned about the effects- will she stop talking to me/ friends shun me if I go for it? At what point do you say..fuck my reputation...I gotta get laid for my own happiness..and when do u say I should just wait for the right situation...I'm 23 and have only fucked one woman...college was a haze of sexual frustration and fapperdom