Hi everyone!
A few months ago I met a girl online(She is 28 and I 30).We started talking and there was chemistry between us, we joked around, watched movies on streaming and talked about hooking up.
2 months later I came to her city to see her and finally meet her in person (we had previously sent each other photos and at first it seemed like she liked me).
DAY ONE : The first day I arrived, she picked me up at the station. At first she seemed nervous and didn't dare look me in the face. She took me to the apartment to drop off my bags. Afterwards we stayed to watch a movie because it was too hot to go outside. So she sat on the couch and I sat next to her, not too close and she moved away a little. While we were watching the movie I tried to start a conversation and joke around to get her to try scalation physically (I would touch her arm or shoulder between jokes). Her body language was closed, arms and legs crossed and she had the air conditioning on and it was on high so she was cold.
After a while we decided to go for a walk around the city and have a drink. While we were walking I continued scalating, from time to time I touched her arm or gave her a hug between jokes, at no time did I move away from her but she also did not make any attempt to touch me on her own or get closer to me. Then we met at a bar and continued talking, I approached her with the chair and we continued talking, I tried to continue scalating, I touched her thigh a couple of times and I never looked away, and several times I saw her playing with her hair. She also looked more into my eyes but never looked at my mouth. So at the end of the date I walked her home and when we were about 20 meters from her house, she was already taking out her keys and when we got to her door, she said goodbye quickly as if she was in a hurry, almost without stopping.
DAY TWO: We met up again for a walk. While we were walking, I, like the day before, tried to physically escalate by joking and touching his arm and a couple of times a hug. She never pushed me away, but she never made any kind of approach either. Then we went to a bar to have a drink and continue talking, but here I didn't try to touch her anymore. Then I walked her home again and the same thing happened again. Twenty meters before arriving she was taking out her keys and entered the house as if I was going to rob her. This time I made us at least hug each other as a goodbye.
Tomorrow we'll meet up at my apartment again to watch a movie, but at this point I think she doesn't like me and she's meeting me out of obligation. I was thinking that tomorrow when she comes, I'll make one last attempt and try to kiss her at some point in the movie. Or another option is to talk to her directly and tell her what's going on...
Sorry for so much text but I wanted to give you some context. What do you think? Am I right and she doesn't like me anymore and is hanging out with me because she feels obligated? Or is she just really shy? I'm confused because she has never pushed me away when I've gotten close but when we get back home she comes in really quickly as if she's running away from me..
Thanks!
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