Hello everyone,

I decided to give this community a chance to help a lad out, so I would really appreciate some advice with the situation.

Okay, so the situation is that I've been dating a woman for a few montha now and I've been trying to act cool with it for a while and give her some time, but I am getting a feeling that it is not working. We've been seeing about once a week(usually a sleepover), texting on a daily basis and shes genuinely keeping the conversation on asking all kinds of stuff and sharing information here and there. When I am with her, she answers my contact(kissing etc.) but I've notices shes gone colder compared to month or two back. Back then I remember her mentioning, that shes not completly clear of my intentions.

We've had some discussion about our dating and her comments have been mostly positive, but I am getting a feeling that shes going thru something. Might be a new guy or she has not been completely honest with me. She also has introduced me to her friends, but skipped the chances to meet my family and she haven't made any moves for me to meet her family, even tho she have had the chance to do so.

At this point, I am slighly worried how I should act to clarify the situation between us. I am planning to have a discussion about walking away from dating this girl because of the unclear feelings about our dating. Should I still just play it cool and wait for the girl to make the move, or should I make the move to open discussion?

I've been watching some coaching videos from youtube about hot & cold testing, but the information is slightly unclear, bcuz others say keep acting cold and others say you might need to show value by hinting about walking away. For me at this point seems that acting cold might not be the correct solution, becuz I am getting a feeling that the testing started bcuz I act cold too long. I personally rather discuss than act weird and live in this unclear situation.

I might have forgotten to leave some details unclear while writing this post.