Gentlemenm,

Having moved beyond AA, I often find myself in clubs opening single or small sets, inviting one girl to dance. I can't seem to find what I am doing wrong, since I approach the girl with confidence, I dance well (having taken classes) and always have a smile on.

However, after about one song, the girl almost always loses interest (ie gets "rescued", "goes the bathroom", etc). Meanwhile I see guys next to me with girls stuck on them. What are they doing to build that attraction/escalation on the dance floor?

PS I shower and wear deodorant before going out, so hygeine is not the issue either.