How to explain this. .

There is a situation that happens commonly with a certain group of guys, you have a girl you are interested in. You message her a few times, the conversation goes well and then suddenly she stops messaging you at some point of time. Now, of course you brush it off the first few times but then it starts to dawn on you. You've been the one to message the girl all the time, you've been the one to keep the conversation and you've been the one to last message before she drops it down into an abyss.

Now. . This method I am not saying always works but generally speaking it is a simple one.

If you are one of the guys who feel you may be annoying/clingy or just generally you message a person to much. I personally have a method I call distancing; which I am sure many of you already know but for those who haven't figured this out. But regardless, the concept is that you just completely forget about her. Drop her like a hot potato, do not communicate with her and basically wait for her to communicate with you.

Continue your social life as per-usual and eventually she will message you.

It's almost like a game really of give and take. Now I am not saying this will work with every girl, but it will give you an idea of how interested said girl is into you. Make her want you instead of you wanting her sort've deal. From my personal experiences this works and at the very least if you 'did' get to the point of annoying her and she never hits you back up, it acts as a resetting period.

From my experiences this worked in my favor, they message me. Be it a day, three days or a week. After a week I either forget about her completely and wait longer or I hit them up but at a less frequent rate.

But-- Once again and I stress this. This method may not work the same with everyone, and I know some people say using this method may actually be detrimental. Alas, I say if you tried other things this is the way to go.

Afterall, nothing makes a person more curious then when a routine breaks for unknown reasons.