Hey guys 27m, started doing night game in December. Before that ive always watched pickup videos but never ever dared to apply to irl. I’ve grown to realize that for me, my game was always there and I was just blocking it from coming out. I was too stifled, too in my head to allow women to get a chance to see what the true me is like. Also I had crazy one itis to the point that I said enough is enough, I’m not thinking about her anymore, I’m going to talk to as many women as I can until I can just have casual conversation/business conversations without wanting to bend her over every second.

When I first started, I was able to do approaches but it felt very stiff. Very awkward. I started off doing only Friday Saturday. Very quickly I added Thursday and lately I’ve been going out Wednesday. Sporadically I’ll Also either choose Tuesday or Sunday. I’m in nyc, the women are even hotter on the weekdays at my favorite spots. There are less women but they are always hotter than the Friday Saturday crowd. Anyways, when I first started I was very stiff and awkward and after over the course of close to if not slightly over 500 girls that I’ve met, I now feel much more at ease. A lot less needy, a lot less in my head, a lot less anxious. I say a lot less because I’ll still have one off night or an off moment or rejections from sets I thought were going perfectly.

I haven’t had too many pulls yet still feel successful. Currently makeouts stand at 26 and pulls stand at 2.(2 more were ready to go possible if I had my own place 😅) I’ve gotten to a point that I can almost guarantee a make out or two a night which is not the goal but cool side effect of going out consistently and currently working on moving out and closer to Manhattan which I know will greatly increase the count.

I do want to talk about the epiphany I recently had which is for me, it was always there. I genuinely love interacting with women, seeing their smiles, their eyes light up, their defenses come down around me, my teases landing and them getting slightly embarrassed, even more so than the sex tbh. I love introducing other women to each other and seeing how the interact together when they first meet. Lately I’ve been seeing my success with much hotter women, increase as I have fun with all women. Also, let go of the need to sleep with every single woman I come across. I just need one a night, out of 20 I talk to a night. Also doesn’t have to be a same night lay, could be day 2’s which so far all of my lays and potential lays are day 1’s so I’m leaving a lot of opportunities on the table.

Also the guy friends I’ve made along the way, to the must un expecting person become the greatest wing I’ve had so far. It’s all been a blast and I really can’t wait to share my 1 year journey with you guys. Anyways, I debated along time before I decided to share my current progress with the board. Long time lurker first time poster. AMA if you found this post useful, I like talking about game just as much as practicing it 😂