Whats up gentlemen! 30 yo man here; nearing 1000 closed deals over my life.

Before i drop this game on you want to give a few caveats -> i was NOT the coolest/most successful dude as a kid- but did grow up rich, got jacked and tatted, went to #1 ivy uni and was pres of a mid tier frat. I never had much approach anxiety, i had tons of female friends, and in parties etc i was the dude grinding and approaching. I havent spent much time alone in the last 20 years every weekend i prob went out.

I also am self employed; always made multi 6 fig since uni and for a 3 year period at 25, i scaled my company up to 20 employees and was pooling anywhere from $100k - $250k a month. I blew it up and went upside down, but thats a whole nother story and have mostly recovered to a meaningful level.

Important to note for your notes im white, average height (510) and abt 7.5/10 on a bellcurve of facial looks (which wheat waffles says puts me firmly in top 10% (this is diff than overall smv rating )

So if you are an aspie or brokie take this with a grain of salt.

Online dating is really only a valid move if you are a beginner. Yes you can go passport airplane mode improve pics and get slightly better girls...fix your convo, response time build some clever lines - you need to slay some dragons before you meet the princess for experience and for confidence. But at a certain point you can only pretend to be interested in so many tortas...me personally? Im done, especially now that majority of my dates are washed up retired hos in their 30s

I racked up most of my kills in my short time pres of the college fraternity, and after school, spending $1000s on tinder boost to can maybe 5 or 6 chicks a week who were usually 18-23 and younger/poorer than me so easily impressed by experience.

The most reliable way to meet the best looking girls has always been nightgame. I find daygame cringe, im sure it works for some but listen dude i gotta make money bro and im not thinking about pickup sober.

Going out with your normie buddies or even wingman you meet online, coach kyle whoever is a bad idea.

The logistics involved managing your friends lines, the groups make things highly unlikely to escalate. Also, you are really being a pussy relying on another man to have confidence.

Instead - what i have been doing recently, is rocking out solo dolo. Let me tell you why-

  1. I have the privilege of having 3 bar/club from chill to intense/luxurious on my block of apt. Have been going there, tipping the staff for years, being seen with all sorts of girls and bottle service.

I naturally feel comfortable in that environment, even alone - i have a good excuse to be there living nearby. And most of the visitors, are out of town chicks on girls trips who wouldnt know im there creeping regularly and need someone to pay for them and show them the town.

  1. Its important to time it right and be in the zone. Many other puas have explained this...being sober. But you really can be a little drunk its fine and aligns you better with her anyway. You shouldn't think of it as pickup lines- rather just normal socialization and fun. Youll get less rejects this way and can escalate if possible.

I ftime one of my girls usually a side b, maybe flirt sext a bit. Sip some booze. Get in a more basal state. Natural, flow. Physical.

  1. When you get to the spot, don't do one of those creepy run arounds or look at your phone. It should be a loungier place with couches and dark lighting (so they can't see your mid features and don't notice your shortness)

Walk to the bathroom, subtly look for a two - set or one set. Never 3s or more at this point or any fridge whales.

Come back out a min later, dap up or slide a server a 5 in view of the ladies, pop up right next to em at the bar and flag the bartender confidently.

Dont sit too close or angle yourself too far like a wimp.

  1. As soon as bartender approaches - girls should be looking at you if you have any presence (if not dont stress it yet) - turn and face the girls. Lock eye contact with the one you DONT want (key) - and say loudly and clearly "what do you guys want? I gotchuu ...(winky face)...as your eyes go back to the server, scan your desired girls body and ass in a way that she clearly sees and wonders your interest. This will get her wet and heart race associated with your voice.

They'll go really? And you go fuck yeah lets go im bored. If they already have em - you can either say i got the next one and start talking, order shots, or just tell the bartender to merge your tabs.

If you don't have $ or against paying for women, you are a lost cause and need to get back to mcdonalds and work a few more shifts. Women love money. Its the most important thing. Neglect at your own peril

  1. Conversation- most guys are retarded so better to spell out exact specifics. Ask them flirtatiously what the occasion is to come out... how they met each other.

Let them talk amongst themselves, give you all that funny girly small talk. Smile and play along m, leaning in closer and boxing off any exit or other guys. Key they think your girls are taken.

You can brag a little bit or give a short backstory; but its better to do this asking their advice "as girls" on some life/dating situation you have going on - which you can make up or exagerrate to be more ridiculous.

Use that story to demonstrate or tease your main strengths - desirability and experience with women, money, maybe you have a huge cwk like me...but make sure its subtle, and if they accuse you of bragging shut it down and tell them you get no pussy.

  1. Escalation: When the convo stalls or bar gets more crowded and hard to hear, immediately plant the seed of leaving. "Hey where you goint after this. You know __\\. Want to go somewhere funner? I have to get up early but was gunna meet a friend at __ youd like him hes hotter than me ...which is really saying something.

They say yes, close out - if they go bathroom, start talking to other girls or the waitress dont stand idle like a loner. Youre a fun loving guy remember and a regular at this spot. Gotta play the character ALwAYS!

Make sure the next place is more dancy loud and fun. Immediately shots, speed up the drinking. Now that you are standing room only, change your vibe. Less conversation. More flirtatious eye contact. Holding her hips, grinding. Standing close. Looking DOWN (if she is taller than you she needs to sit )

Usually at this point girl #2 does a switcherooski and comes on to you / she is likely competive with the friend you faked her out with. This is a GoOD thing for later, if they are pretty similar subjectively hotness wise.

Try to tell her she is hot - sexy whisper in ear. Little light dance, maybe kiss on the cheek.

When friend tries to re- engage - you say "wait might have table at xyz would be killer ig photo for you guys" - at this point get their igs. Learn their names (likely you dont remember)- you can practice in bathroom or on your phone when their ass is facing you on the dancefloor.

  1. Closing - this whole process should be 2.5 hours max ideally more like 1.5 - say you got to restaurant end of dinner 10 (girls out late) youre back at your crib at midnight. Any later than that, and she will be wasted and confused and you will be sloppy and have lost the flow. You are not there to leave blue balled - complete waste of time and money and your physical health

3rd place should be significantly more of a pussy wetter. Super fancy, super party vibe - no drinks on the walk in. Right to dance with both of them. They should be having fun. You can hold both their hands.

When a vibey song comes on you both like- corner her. Go in. Makeout. Dryhump a little. Slide hands doen squeeze ass rub your thumb on her clit. Throw some tongue in there. Put her hand on your boner. She will only be horny and not thinking straight for 30 seconds and you have to make your move and lead her out immediately.

Soon as you get that - lets get out of here. "Wait but my friend"- "be naughty tell her you are going to the bathroom" - we can come back right after i live nearby (this is true, but a lot of times after sex they pass out and will tell the friend some excuse or if shes cool she will get that her girl needed d

Conclusion

You can spam this strategy thurs fri sat in a major city.

Not only is this going to drastically up your #s hit rate confidence and skill, but these girls have a high chance of getting added to your rotation if youre good in bed.

I can't really think of a more reliable high volume strategy. You need to be able to see what she actually looks like before deciding to pursue and night game solo is best way to do it.