So here I am quite young, quite unseccessfull and of no value. After reading the guides I feel trapped in my current situation and I am not clear how I shall gain social value. So I am looking out for stories, that proof that there is an escape from this social trap.

First of all some information: Even though I work out, do sport and have a pretty body my face looks pretty smashed and damns me to be average, so the first impression I leave might be rather bad. After reading here a little it seems, that looks are secondary, whats a shock for me. All my life I believed, that the way you look was 80% of social success. For that reason I do not really trust this theory. Proof it to me! Can you give any famous example of people, who are not prettyfaced, but socially successful anyway?

Then to those of you who found themselves in a similar situation, how did you get out of it? What did you do to gain value? how did you transform from an unattractive dude to someone who attracts people?

The nect question is rather offtopic. I tried to ask it in askseddit, but didnt get an answer. I read about the peacock effect and thought about coloring my hair. Would this work as an atractor or do you think this would scare away the ladies?

Thanks for your time.