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[–]etcomro 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Meditate for 20-30 minutes the day of.
Get your drinks and take her for a walk if it's nice out.
When you're having internal dialogue, tell yourself to shut the fuck up.
[–]HappyJerk 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
don't sit opposite her
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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Sit b1 and b3 either of you in either position and you in the one that she isn't in.
If she's in b1 you go to b3, and vice versa.... if she finds it awkward just say " I like this position, gottta give you the best angle of my face " with a smile on your face.
Sure you sound like you're " trying " to " impress " her but it opens up a " more than friend " dynamic quickly IMO and I've had success with it.
[–]red___five[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've been thinking when other people have mentioned not sitting opposite about what if she finds that seating position awkward and that 'best side of my face' line sounds like the perfect fix thanks!
[–]bugdino 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have the same thing coming up tomorrow and would be open to any advice as well.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My big advice is just don't drink too much coffee and get out of control. Caffeine is a hell of a drug.
Other than that, basic date stuff applies. Maintain good conversation, kino when it's appropriate, and keep the conversation light. If you can work it out, try going to a different location, or out for a walk.
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
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[–]red___five[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry about that, I should've read the guidelines. I'll repost it in /r/askseddit thanks
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This advice helps a lot thank you!
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