Well, at least two. The first one is essentially that everything throws me off track. I was just going grocery shopping and there was a really attractive cashier. I might have spoken to her and attempted to flirt but the guy in front also worked at the store and she and him were talking. I couldn't figure out a way to interrupt or even speak up beyond "Thank you, have a nice day." "You too."

The other is that I keep making excuses. See the above story. Also there is a pub literally walking distance from me but I can't seem to make myself get there ever. I always make the excuse of, I'm tired, one of my friends is online I should say hi, I'll go tomorrow.

I've moved to a new city just for this summer. It's my first time living alone so I'd kinda like to let loose and have a girl or 2 over. I'd like some advice on keeping cool and staying on track. I feel like if I don't psych myself up to talk to someone new I can't flirt, but once I do I'm too nervous. And if the situation changes at all I have to start all over.