Hey everyone.

I feel very insecure when I take women home, though I really try not to show it. For some reason I can be charming and convincing at bars or cafés, but as soon as I have them at home I'm very self conscious.

I'm 25 y/o and had a good number (I think?) of women so far (~65).

2014 was a successful year with around 35 women, yet I don't feel that I'm getting any better with them or gain more self-confidence through it. At some point it just seems like a tedious exercise to see how far I can go with them. I feel like a loser if I can't finish on a first tinder date or a second real one.

My friends laugh at this and won't really give me any advice, but I hope you guys could.

How do I gain more confidence from picking up women?