How do I keep my "edge"?

jbulldog · 2015-01-26T21:46:51+00:00

It happens to the best of us. We all get pumped to get something done when we're not actually doing it. However when it does come to doing it, people tend to get nervous.

The best advice I can tell you is to just calm down and realize that it's not the biggest thing in the world. You'll live if you mess up. Best thing about life is.. you can try again with different people. Literally billions of people on earth. Who cares if you mess up on a few people, as long as you understand and learn from what you did wrong.

Big_TX · 2015-01-26T22:05:55+00:00

That's because pumping your self up is easy, you get the logic part of your mind excited for achieving your goals. (I'm aware I'm botching the the parts of the mind but you know why I mean haha) but all that crumbles when the self preservation part of your mind fires up when you actualy go to do it because it is no longer a fanticy. The way you get past that is by teaching your brain it is safe and ok.

Honestly you have to expand you comfort zone in order feel confident and be natural. It's a jurny.

All these people Say "just love your self, your awesome! No worries," have traveled a path that allowed them to be where they are. And in taking the path they gained "skill"/expanded there comfortzone. Then they say "jump to the destination."

Badicaly I'm saying "pratice. You have to expand you comfort zone I order to feel comfortable doing something"

I'll edit in a guide about a reframe i wrote that should help.

Edit: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2oupxn/how_to_force_myself_to_make_the_move/cmr21bl

brocklanders3791 · 2015-01-27T08:06:05+00:00

apply the 3 second rule. talk to everyone not just hot girls. shoot the breeze with dudes. you like the same things they do: talk about women.

Title	How do I keep my "edge"?
Author	Cageblitz
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	January 26, 2015 9:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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